There are so many desires in every person every day, and if every desire and idea is realized, it will definitely not be able to pay it back.

Yes, I also know that you are talking about such a problem.

That's good, you're fine anyway, but I suggest that you have faith in yourself, and you have to change it after you disperse, know when you feel, and of course you don't say when, you feel that you can't live up to yourself, so you will lose too much blessing. You have to compare yourself to himself, even if you don't eat, you slap yourself, you have to lower your desires, you know what I mean?

On the other side of the phone, he understood what I meant, and I said that's good, then not only do you have to understand what I mean, but you also have to implement it, do what I mean, and say beautiful things that anyone can say, and now society likes to be a teacher. It's an arrogant temper, so you have to change it too.

You have to have your own information, really, I really don't know how to say this, but you have to believe yourself to believe the other person, to believe Shakyamuni to say, because books don't deceive people, bodhisattvas, maybe sometimes you can type some convenient words. But it's different, so you have to live under the aura of a Buddha every day. With you, there will be no fear in my heart, and my heart will be full of happiness.

That's why for thousands of years, people have always believed in Buddhism, and you know that there are many people who believe in Buddhism now, Andy Lau, Faye Wong, Zhang Guoli, Jet Li, Chen Kun and so on.

I know, if I don't know, why should I take refuge?

You have taken refuge, so why do you still break the vows? I said.

So from now on you have to be strict with yourself, and I want to hear you read one sutra every day, no matter what. The Jizo Bodhisattva Sutra is also possible, the Myoho-renge-kyo Sutra, the Lotus Sutra, the Mida Sutra, the Amitayus Sutra and the Heart Sutra, and the Diamond Sutra.

And you have to listen to the old master every day, and you have to recite the Buddha's name every day, do you think you can do it?

That's what I said to Junjie.

Whether she can do it or not, I told him this, I told him, it's not that I want to do much merit, but that he is a very good friend of mine, and I sincerely hope that he will live a happy life, but if he doesn't restrain himself and don't do what I say, he can listen to his boss. I'm afraid that if he doesn't keep making money and comes back to mess around, then it won't work, and there will definitely be some karma of one kind or another in the future.

I didn't scare her, and there was no need to scare her, because I had been converted to him for about the same time.

If I knew some of the Dharma and the Dharma, maybe I didn't know as much as he did. But the old master told us that the words he gave were not about talking about the mysteries, but about the real practice that we had to witness for ourselves.

You have to be able to prove that what Shakyamuni said is true, so that people can believe that this is definitely a good example for us.

But now in the age of magic, the pace of life is so fast, how many people believe in Buddhism? If you don't believe it or not, it's not to look outside, but to look at your academic performance, and if you have academic results, you will definitely have some feelings. Although the great monks in Buddhism don't let us ask for this or that kind of induction, it doesn't mean that if you study Buddhism well, you won't have induction. Thinking about this truth, it is not difficult to understand, why? Because there are some personal feelings, or feelings, there will not be so many people in Buddhism, and it will not become the main religion among the world's religions, which is a very simple truth.

Junjie said: "I didn't know I would have such a big problem? ”

I said, "Have you found that this has anything to do with your living environment?" ”

I don't know if you say this, but there should be such a person among us, and he continued to say what he said, and I did not interject, but when he suddenly said this, I had some doubts in my mind.

I asked him, "What do you mean by such people?" ”

He said: "I heard my mom tell me this before, and that is, my mom's dad, when he was younger, had a very good relationship, and I'm not sure if it was this kind of homosexual relationship now. But I really don't think their relationship is normal. ”

"Then you didn't ask your mother?"

"How do you think I ask this type of thing, how can I be embarrassed to ask about it? I asked, do you trust my mom to tell me? Again, do you believe it? Do you know clearly? He must know, not clear, I should ask my mom's dad, but do you believe my mom's dad will tell me? ”？

Junjie's series of questions made me speechless.

It's not that he's quibbling for himself, but I think these are also facts, and he really has no way to inquire, it's all about his previous life, don't you think so?

He said to me, I suddenly thought of a good idea, I don't know if it works, but since I think of his good friend to me, I should tell him and let him try it.

I said, "Did your mom's dad keep a diary at that time?" If you have a diary, you can check his diary and see how they can't write it. ”

When I finished speaking, he laughed.

"What are you laughing at? Is there anything funny? Didn't I come out to help you? ”

"You're misleading, I know you're helping me. But if you think about it, my mother is in her 60s this year, and my mom's father is almost 90 years old, how can she keep a diary, and even if she keeps a diary, the paper that kept the diary may be lost somewhere. ”

Junjie makes a lot of sense, and I really can't refute him anymore.

Besides, I think our problem should have come to an abrupt end, and it doesn't make any sense to continue, he shouldn't find a reason for himself in this or that, if he has this or that problem, he should just correct it himself, and he shouldn't blame his elders or relatives for this matter, which is immoral.

I don't agree with Junjie about my thoughts.

Junjie didn't either, he didn't speak. Because it was his own mistake, what did he mean by not saying anything?

It's okay if he doesn't say it, if he really wants to say it, I really don't want to talk to him about such a question anymore, this question is annoying, it's not a glorious thing, keep it in my heart, what's the benefit of never forgetting?

"Do you think there's anything else going on with you?" I asked.

"What's wrong with you?"

"Well, now you know it's almost time for school to end, okay, is your time different from our school time?" Junjie asked.