When we came out of the zoo, we watched as the sky slowly darkened. Indeed, the day passed too quickly. It didn't feel like much had passed, and the day passed. Although I had a good day, to be honest, I was also very scared. I can't just go through it like this for the rest of my life. What is this?

I'm so old, but I'm not married. For those at home, this is certainly incomplete. I need to find someone similar to me to start a family with. It's a big question of who to find to tell the truth. Because the good and bad of a daughter-in-law affect a family. So no matter what, I'm going to find a better daughter-in-law.

But you can do that, but it's really not so easy to find, because there are too many older men and women left in China now.

Besides, when others hear my conditions, they may say that I am very demanding. But that was me before, and now my demands have dropped very much. Because I know that people can't be perfect, unless it's a dead person, or a Buddha person. Everyone has defects of one kind or another, whether it is character, mental, or physical. So to find a perfect person, to be honest, it is more difficult than ascending to the sky. It's not even a matter of even thinking about it.

Then again, people's ideas are often very beautiful, but the reality is also very cruel, what should I do? It is necessary to collide ideas and reality, and after a long time, people may become more realistic.

If the person is unrealistic, it means that the number of times he hits the wall is relatively small, or the time he goes out to explore the society is relatively short. It's such a simple truth, anyone can understand it, and this means.

Now since I studied and after I, I know that my requirements were too high and I couldn't have achieved the ideal in my mind, which is why I haven't found someone I like until now, but it's more the reason why I used to, and this woman *, and that woman*.

How could a person like me who is a scumbag find someone I am satisfied with. If it is really found, it will be intolerable. I have also explained or repented of these things about me in one way or another before.

So since then, my life has changed since I met the old man of the Pure Sky Master. And then how terrible the sins I had committed before. Fortunately, my ancestors have accumulated a lot of virtue, so that I met the contemporary Pure Land Sect Master Jingkong, a great monk.

"What are you thinking about alone?" Jiang Cong looked at me in a daze, so he asked.

I smiled and said, "It's okay, you can eat whatever you want, leave me alone." ”

Jiang Cong's question made my train of thought suddenly interrupted, I know that this kid is for my good, but I don't think this is the time, he shouldn't follow my train of thought, so the next time I want to think about something, something, or write something, I must stay away from her. Subject, a famous contemporary writer, Jia Pingwa Novel, said that when he writes novels, he likes to lock himself in the house alone, and he can't wait to close the house and the windows inside with three layers of curtains.

I agree with him very much, not at all, if I am thinking about something, when others don't want to interrupt with you, you have to start from scratch, that is very troublesome, look at what I said, people who don't like it, may not understand, if you are also a writer, I am just a person who loves writing, you must understand my words, the experience is very deep.

Remember, a Chinese philosopher, Socrates once asked his teacher Aristotle. Such a question.

Socrates asked, "What is love?" Of course, Aristotle was much more for that space-time, so great a philosopher, he certainly would not have answered directly that Socrates' question. So Astotle said to Socrates, "Now go, go to this cornfield, and bring a large corn, and remember what I said, break the largest one in the cornfield." But there is one thing that cannot be turned back.

Socrates, as Aristotle had said, went to the cornfield. His thoughts were the same as ours, he still wanted to find one, the largest corn in the corn field, so he walked forward for so long, I thought that the corn given to him should not be the largest one in this area, so he threw the corn in his hand. to the end of heaven and earth. He didn't have a single corn in his hand.

Aristotle laughed when he saw this garbage, so empty-handed and unable to return. So I told him, this time you go to find the biggest one.

Remembering the first lesson, Socrates also knew that if you want to find the largest corn, you can only feel that it is almost the largest. There is no need to compare it with the next corn. So this time he found another corn that he felt about the same and came out, and told his teacher that this was the largest corn in the cornfield.

His teacher, Aristotle, laughed and said, "This time you should know, why didn't you reach the largest corn in your opinion the first time?" Because you always think that there must be a bigger corn in the cornfield than the one you hold in your hand, there is this kind of luck mentality, so you get nothing in the end, the first failure tonight, the second time you have a heart, so you can find the largest corn you think, but the largest corn you think is not the largest corn in the local area? To put it bluntly, this is not necessarily.

But none of that matters, what's that? The important thing is that you have a contented heart. We all know contentment. In that case, the answer to the question you just asked me will come out, the first time is love. The second time is called marriage.

Besides, why am I? The reason why I haven't found the right person to marry me at such an old age. It's because I'm too picky. So much so that they pick and choose, and pick up older youths.

Of course, I think the main reason has something to do with my previous adultery. I'm going to take it to mind, I should say.

I'm going to repeat it one more time. What is sexual immorality. That is, except for regular marital accidents, all the sexual acts of men and women are adultery. For example, *, unmarried cohabitation,*, sexual immorality, homosexuality, etc.

Today, as a person who has come over, I will share my experience with you, treat me as a negative teaching material, and don't learn from me. If you don't believe me, I believe that the next me will be you.

Seriously, at that time I didn't know that *harmed the body, plus the misleading *harmless theory of the West. I can say that I had it once a day, or even several times, when I was in college.