It belongs to the season when peaches are green, so you shouldn't reach out to pick peaches. —Epigraph

What is puppy love? Compared with the modern Chinese dictionary, which simply explains it as "falling in love prematurely", Baidu Encyclopedia gives a more detailed answer. Puppy love, also known as adolescent love, generally refers to the establishment of a romantic relationship between adolescents under the age of 18 or the interest in the opposite sex, infatuation or secret love. In China, the term often has a negative connotation on the side of the elders. But in fact, puppy love is a worldwide social phenomenon.

Just as "there are a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand people", different of us always have different attitudes and methods in the face of early love. Let me analyze the "we" in the face of early love according to the ideas discussed in mathematical classification.

First of all, let's take a look at the protagonists of early love - students. Some are easy to be impulsive, and in the face of the feelings that come to them, they hopelessly pour everything they have, and fall into the sweet honey of "raising their hands and working hard, and the two feelings are the same"; Some also have a wait-and-see attitude, pressing the enthusiasm in their hearts, "Yingying is in the water, and the pulse is silent"; There are also those who "take the length of a hundred schools", not only the passion of "spring silkworms to the end of the dead silk", but also the shyness of "lovesickness is like a bright moon, and it is unattainable". In short, we use the rebellion and stubbornness that adults can't understand, the poet-like haze and melancholy, and the unruly posture to guard the "chastity" of early love and enjoy the "mood" of early love. Maybe we are not in love with someone, but in love in the adult world, in love with looking at the blue sky and white clouds together, falling in love with talking about the moon and stars, falling in love with watching the leaves quietly slip from the branches, and falling in love with the time when our thoughts became clear because of early love.

Secondly, let's take a look at the audience of early love - teachers and parents. They are also one of the categories of the word "we", and when faced with puppy love, they can be roughly divided into two categories. One is opposition, but also the attitude of the majority, yesterday said "give up a tree, you will get a large forest", today and what "flowers bloom too early is a beautiful mistake", maybe tomorrow's "admonition" will become a limerick poem, "don't learn bad at a young age, don't fall in love with serious study." Love is vulnerable, don't let puppy love exist. It is usually a two-pronged approach, with the family and school "jumping together", until the students sigh that "the sea was once difficult to water", and "we" leave satisfied; The other type is the rare approval and let it develop, at this time "we" regard early love as the only way in life, and grasp the proportions to point it.

Finally, let's study the stage of early love - society. In fact, the suppression of emotions by Chinese is no longer a problem of the times, in contrast, Western society basically does not hear the word "early love", which is a cultural difference, which is understandable. However, the year before last, there was an absurd move to legislate for early love. Does Heilongjiang Province want to detain the boys and girls of Huaichun? Holding hands will send an indefinite period, and the children in Heilongjiang will really come to the era of "worrying prospects".

Now that the problem is solved, it's time to sum up. Since the arrival of this "flood beast" is inevitable, perhaps we can agree on two principles for how to deal with early love, just like Asimov formulated three laws for the robot kingdom, but by no means a "high-pressure policy" with law. One of the principles must be to protect one's body and mind from harm, and the other is not to affect the normal study and life.

When we are faced with puppy love, we may still be at a loss to hover in place, so let us do as Shakespeare said: "Dress me in fine clothes for my humble love, and make me worthy of your sweet grace, and then I dare to boast of my love, otherwise I would have just accepted your test." ”

When we are faced with puppy love......