Chapter 897
Article 897
The two of them stood on the balcony, blowing the cold breeze blowing outside, watching the fireworks in the sky, drinking a cup of hot coffee and saying something inconsequential.
Today's fireworks are basically quite safe, not only will there be no open flames, but also the pollution to the environment is almost zero, and the average city will not restrict the fireworks.
"But you don't like coffee." Qin Yi asked.
"People always learn and get used to it." Xu Ya said.
"Indeed." Qin nodded.
"Perfunctory." Xu Ya rolled her eyes.
"Where?"
"You've been looking out the window, isn't it perfunctory?"
In fact, this kind of argument seems to outsiders to be a little discordant, but in fact, the two sides of this argument feel that this kind of argument has made their relationship more harmonious.
Chinese New Year's Eve lights of ten thousand homes, Qin Yi looked at Xu Ya who was concentrating on the brilliant fireworks in the sky, her eyes reflected the dark sky, and the brilliant fireworks, in fact, there should not be these things in the night sky, human beings feel that they are too lonely, with this fireworks similar to the fire of insects, with the intention of lighting up the entire night sky.
It is conceivable that the final result is always that the fireworks wither quickly after experiencing a momentary brilliance, and melt into the eternal darkness, but this fireworks bloom in the night sky one after another.
How many people, even if they know the ending at the beginning, are still desperately struggling, trying to fight for a different life or even an ending? There are too many such people, and the so-called successful people among them think they have reached the pinnacle, but they don't know that what they do is always in vain, and in the end everything will melt into eternal loneliness.
"However, even if the final result is gone, the process is brilliant, and sometimes, we always confuse the result with the process...... Qin Yi said softly.
Xu Ya didn't seem to hear it, and continued to stare at the night sky by herself, until her eyes were a little dry because she was staring at the night sky too intently, then she retracted her gaze unwillingly, gently rubbed her eyes, and continued to look at the eternal sky, looking at the fireworks that were destined to only have a moment of brilliance.
"A lot of times, doing something for the sake of the process, like traveling; But more often than not, doing one thing is for the result, like making a person happy
For process-oriented things, it doesn't matter what the outcome is, but we often demand the process for the sake of the unimportant outcome
For things that focus on results, we tend to pay too much attention to the results, and ignore that the process will always affect the results, and ruin the results......" Qin Yi didn't care about Xu Yan's selfless state, and continued to whisper, his voice was not very small, but it was very light, like the wind whispering in his ears, what he said seemed to be some kind of obscure philosophy, but in fact, if you listen carefully, it is just a simple and easy-to-understand truth.
He knew that Xu Ya had been listening, although she had been watching the fireworks intently, but she was also listening carefully to her own story, others Qin Yi might not know if she would listen carefully to her own words in such a state, but Xu Ya he knew.
"Hmm...... So, do you think that we should focus on the process or the result when we accompany you for the New Year? Xu Ya tilted her head without warning and asked softly.
"I think it's all important, in fact, you can add a sentence to my sentence......" Qin Yiyi.
"Sometimes, when we do something, not for the sake of the thing itself, nor just for its process or its result, we want to do it, we do it, because we want to, so we do it, the process may or may not be important. The result may or may not be important, but for the person who does it, the meaning of the matter itself is the most important......" Xu Ya tilted her head sideways, looking at the fireworks in the night sky on the other side, and turned back to say this.
"Your addition is a bit bizarre, but I grudgingly agree that it can be added to my words." Qin Yi nodded thoughtfully, as if he was picking fault with Xu Ya's casual words, of course, the bunch of words Qin Yi said before were also said casually.
What should they do with this conversation? The summary after a group activity is similar to what you have learned? Or is it a spit out on such a lively and lonely night? Although their words may be forgotten by them afterwards, forgotten and never remembered, I have to say that sometimes, you really don't pay too much attention to the so-called process or result, as long as you do something that you won't regret, it's enough.
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On the fifth day of the first month of the lunar calendar, people have started to work one after another, this is a fast-paced era of pursuit of efficiency, rest this kind of thing, in weekday holidays, is a kind of luxury that is difficult to satisfy, and only to catch up with the Spring Festival such a grand festival, the general struggle in the bottom of the staff, can have a good rest.
Life, in fact, does not need to be very rich, even if it is not very rich, but as long as it is not survival, there is no need to live and be tired of running around, there is room for choice, this is already a very good life.
As for the kind of life of what you want, living in luxury, that is the life of a few, and being able to have food and clothing without worry is already a good life, but there are too many people who are completely in the midst of blessings and do not know the blessings, if they are allowed to live a life for a few days, that is, survival, they will know how happy they are living now.
However, like Qin Yi's company, he doesn't go to work so early, he only goes to work on the eighth day of junior high school, this treatment is much better than that of ordinary office workers, as for those whose work is not too formal and not much fixed, their holidays are even more precious, but at the same time, if there is no job, then there is no way to support this family.
Putting on a job every day under pressure to survive, not a hobby, is something that no one wants.
Wei Chuanjun hasn't been online for a long time, he is just a high school student, a senior high school student, the bitterness of preparing for the college entrance examination, most people know it, even Qin Yi, who has always had excellent academic performance, also thinks so.
However, he didn't go to college, he really couldn't pay the tuition, it was the most difficult period of his life, and he ran around every day in order to survive, but he didn't worry much, it can be said that he was an optimistic person, but he was more lazy to think about those useless things, after all, worrying not only affected the mood, but also had no positive effect.