It is said that it is difficult to be an adult, and the reason is that there is a child under the adult who has not grown up.

This child may be the source of all his troubles and troubles for the rest of his life.

Wuji said, "Actually, I agree with your fourth uncle's statement, there are too many such things in life, don't talk far, just talk about you, remember the last time you went to play with a few classmates after school, I know you are out of curiosity, and you also know how to protect yourself." ”

"But I also said that no one took this matter to answer me, you have someone to tell me, what if your daughter is so old, or gossip that our family has no tutor, otherwise how could my daughter run away blindly at such a young age, what is this impression and feeling?"

Hearing this, Fang Yan glared and said, "I see who dares to say it, Dad, if you hear it, just tell me who said it." ”

Wuji said speechlessly, "Naturally, no one says anything about you, what I'm saying is hypothetical, you see, some things happen to you, and you will be troubled by it, but you will never feel that it happens to others." ”

"It's as if you heard about your cousin's incident, you have never wondered from beginning to end, whether your fourth uncle and your cousin's classmates have been affected, this is the only deficiency of you children in dealing with things compared to adults, that is, you have too little experience, you are not thoughtful in case of trouble, and you are not detailed, they all say that young people are easy to suffer, and most of the losses are also suffered at this point."

Fang Yan asked: "In other words, the fourth uncle was criticized by some gossip at that time?" ”

Wuji shook his head and said, "Your fourth uncle's attitude at that time was as if I just took you as an example, you know what I mean." ”

Fang Yan nodded, and Wuji continued, "This is one point, that is, not only are they doing things that are not in line with their own identity, but they also do not consider the consequences and effects of their actions, everything is based on their passion, thinking of where is where. ”

Although this is the advantage of young people, because the vigor and momentum of young people come from this blood; But this is also their disadvantage, because they are so inexperienced, and things will always leave something wrong. ”

Wuji said and sighed, "After your fourth uncle said this, he made up for it again, and said to your cousin, and also said that you took your classmates to do such a thing this time, which is harmless, even if the effects he said have appeared, it does not affect the actual situation, and the people who care about it will have more accounting, but in fact, if you don't care, there will be nothing." ”

"But what if you're taking your classmates to do something really wrong? Not to mention that the family is responsible for this matter, but these students themselves and their families will also be affected, of course, including the school, which is why you have not actually done anything really out of the ordinary, and the school will deal with it this way. ”

Hearing this, Fang Yan wondered, "How do you feel that the fourth uncle is helping the school round the field with this?" ”

Wuji replied, "Sort of, in fact, as far as the matter at that time, their school should not have thought about it so deeply, thinking that it was to call the student's parents over to remind them of this, but I didn't expect the student to get into trouble with his parents on the spot, and both the anti-dumping and anti-dumping were the first to say." ”

"Of course, I also got the feeling based on the content of the words and the tone I felt about your fourth uncle, and I don't know what the truth is."

Fang Yan nodded and said, "I can also feel that Fourth Uncle is not the kind of person who can say such things. ”

Wuji said, "Then let it be." ”

Fang Yan asked, "What was my cousin's reaction when he heard it?" ”

Wuji smiled: "Your cousin actually realized the true reason and truth of the matter at that time, before their father and son I said that they were blind, that is because what they said before can actually be classified as drilling each other's horns." ”

"It's just that one of the horns wants to deal with the matter, and the other is to make a statement about this matter, which means that the foundation itself is crooked, and the result will naturally not be correct."

"At that time, your cousin said that everything needs to be considered before doing it, although he can't guarantee that he won't make some wrong decisions, but some mistakes that will implicate the people around him, he shouldn't make them."

"At that time, your fourth uncle only smiled after hearing it, he thought that this matter was over."

The dialect asked, "That's not the end yet?" ”

Wuji said, "I said before, this thing is wonderful in the back, originally your fourth uncle thought that his trip was completed, but when he wanted to leave with the teachers and leaders present at the school, your cousin spoke." ”

The dialect asked, "What did he say?" ”

Wuji said, "Your cousin said that he can understand the truth of this matter, but his attitude will only recognize these truths, which means that his attitude is only for these truths. ”

"However, in terms of the way he handled this matter and what happened to him, he disagreed, because he felt that he had not really done anything wrong."

Fang Yan wondered, "What kind of logic is this?" ”

Wuji sighed, "A logic that is easy to be ignored by people, many things in this life, we can say that we see the big from the small, that is to say, we have to draw inferences from some small things, and make some speculation and understanding of the magnified things." ”

"The same mistakes are not really mistakes, and many times the parties will encounter some unfair treatment because they just have the possibility of making mistakes."

The dialect was still puzzled, and said, "What's fair or unfair about this, this can also be persuasion to rein in the precipice." ”

Wuji smiled, "But the real judgment of a thing is always based on the thing itself, not a so-called fact after experiencing an imaginary, this is like everyone has a knife in their home, everyone actually has the ability to hurt others, but it does not mean that everyone will hurt others, and the law will not be punished because of this matter." ”

Fang Yan smiled and said, "The law is not responsible for the public." ”

Wuji shook his head and said, "No, one of them is a distinction between reason and reason, the two have never been separated, we can reason with reason, but we can't use reason to judge the right and wrong of a thing, the fact is that we need to use reason to distinguish between right and wrong, not reason." ”

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