It's clear that things feel like they're in the past, and it really makes sense to dwell on them?

This is a problem that dialect is relatively incomprehensible, but his father said that his cousin is amazing, so his decision naturally has his reasons.

At that moment, Fang Yan didn't continue to speculate, but just turned his head to look at his father Wuji.

Wuji shook his head with a smile and said, "Although you don't say it, I can probably understand what you are thinking." ”

"Actually, it's nothing, it's just that your cousin didn't simply confuse this matter with the relationship between him and your fourth uncle, this relationship is the same thing, but the things on the table are another matter, your cousin is so strong, he doesn't want to confuse these two things."

"Actually, your cousin feels that he didn't do anything wrong in this matter, but he was treated as if he had done something wrong, but that's really the case, this is usually a student in school, and it is indeed an impact that the school called the parents, after all, the things that will call the parents are more serious things."

"But he wasn't punished." ”

Wuji said, "Didn't your cousin say that the impact, this impact is actually greater than some actual punishments. ”

"Because some actual punishments, as long as they are not the kind of public punishments, in fact, the people who know are those who are in the know, and they will not have too wide an impact, but if it is the kind of ...... that is called a parent or something."

"I'll tell you this, even if your cousin committed something in this matter, and was called to a place by the school, everyone here knows that this person should have received some ideological education and corresponding punishment, but basically as long as he comes back, it is not a big deal."

"After all, they are all students, they are all at that age, who hasn't made any mistakes, at most, some people are curious about what kind of punishment the person has received, but this curiosity is just curiosity, because if the object of the student is the school, then the school's punishment of the student is nothing more than a few."

"Basically, as long as it's not expulsion or something, it doesn't have much impact, even if it's to go to the rostrum to review it in front of all the teachers and students of the school, but that's it."

"But if it is one thing that makes the students call their parents over, it will invisibly deepen the influence of this matter, and it will not matter whether you really did anything wrong in this matter, and no matter what kind of punishment you have received, you will be seriously affected in this reputation."

"That's why some of the stricter schools don't easily let students' relatives or friends go to school, or when the school wants to communicate something with the student's parents, both parties are more secretive than the student, just to take care of the students."

Fang Yan said, "Why does it sound like my cousin cares about this effect very much?" ”

Wuji said, "Your cousin doesn't just care about this influence, or what he wants to fight for is not this, but something further. ”

"Your cousin said that things are one yard at the time, in fact, no one who was present at the time except your cousin seemed to say that they were not adults, and this child put forward this idea, and they basically only need to empathize with each other to understand what your cousin encountered in this matter."

"That is to say, whether your cousin did anything wrong, whether he said this, or whether he should be invited to school by his parents, which is the meaning of the matter itself."

The dialect said, "What's the point of this? ”

Wuji said, "This is naturally nothing to worry about for ordinary children, this is my parents have invited to the school, I have to worry about fear of death, after all, for most students, their parents are still more dignified, especially when they appear in their own environment, which is different from the environment they usually get along with." ”

"This usually encounters this kind of thing, if the adults don't care about it, thank God, but your cousin is different, he just wants to fight, not to fight for a right or wrong, but to fight for his own position, that is, his own rights and interests."

"I've said before that people tend to ignore a lot of small details, and it's the same in this case, because your cousin doesn't think he's done anything wrong in the whole time, but the result is that he is still in the situation that he faces after doing the wrong thing, which is very unfair to him."

"It's like a lot of things in reality, after many people are misunderstood, they will feel very unhappy when they are depressed, and many disputes don't happen because of this reason?"

Fang Yan said, "But it's pointless to be so entangled, is it possible that the school can apologize to him for this incident?" I don't think it's possible, and listening to what I said before, I feel that the school and the fourth uncle don't think that my cousin is not wrong in this matter, but when it comes to it, both sides have their own opinions. ”

"It's the kind of situation where the public says that the public is justified and the mother says that the mother is reasonable, and there is no clear thing in itself, and it is definitely impossible for the school to apologize."

Wuji smiled, "But in terms of facts, I also told you before, when facing things, reason comes first, and then reason, the fact is that whether it is the school or your fourth uncle, he does not have the ability to determine your cousin's mistake in this matter, but your cousin raised this influence, that is, he is not wrong, but he has been affected accordingly, and he feels that he has an opinion." ”

"This kind of thing you may think that because your cousin will be a student, and he is facing the school and your fourth uncle and aunt, you will feel that there is no point in him being so entangled, but you may feel that your cousin is doing too much and making trouble for himself."

"But things should be small and big, in fact, there is nothing wrong with your cousin's attitude, just like in this society under the rule of law, the law wants to sentence a person for a crime, the premise is that the person is indeed guilty, and this crime also needs very strong evidence to prove, it is impossible to say that it is just thinking or guessing that the person is guilty, and then give a judgment."

Fang Yan pondered for a moment and said, "If you say that, then there really doesn't seem to be anything wrong with my cousin's attitude." ”

"But how can he be about my age at that time, this is in school, no, is he so mature? I suddenly reacted, Dad, you always take adults as examples, and I feel that his words and deeds are not in line with his age. ”

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