Besides, the fact that I can lose such a big temper is also related to my own personality. Because I'm the kind of person who is more impulsive.

If you have to say this right, it means that your karmic habits are still relatively serious.

The old Master of Pure Space once told such a thing, he said that at that time he was in the United States, and several people asked Master Clear Space to prove to them that they were enlightened. Venerable Jingkong took a look at it, and they still had the certificates of those Rinpoches in Tibet. But the Clearance Master said that none of them were enlightened. When the Void Mage said this, they weren't happy.

The Void Master said that he himself was not enlightened, and if they were really enlightened, how could they find me. What's more, how can an enlightened master have such a big temper?

That's why Master Clearance often says things like burning the Meritorious Forest.

When I thought about it, my temper immediately went away. But it has been sent just now, and it seems that I can only repent.

My emotions slowly calmed down.

My assistant Jiang Tao said, I didn't tell you to listen to those experts. But you can make a reference to all of their statements, and if they are right, then you can implement them. If they don't say the right thing, then you don't have to settle for them.

As soon as Jiang Tao said this, I understood very well that what he meant was not to let me listen to the opinions of the zoo experts he said, but to make a reference for what those animal experts said and some views on animals.

I asked him, "Why didn't you just say that?" If you said that, would I still lose my temper so much? ”

Jiang Tao said: "I'm just giving you a reference, of course, it's up to you whether you do it or not, after all, you are, the principal, it's obvious." I think I've made it very clear. ”

I listened to Jiang Tao's words, Jiang Tao seemed to be very impatient when he said these words, and his attitude didn't seem to be very good.

To put it more bluntly, he is contradicting me and not taking me seriously.

As his leader and his boss, I can't just quarrel with a small subordinate. I can have another way or a way.

For example, just talk to him about criticizing him, or scare him, or even let him go directly.

In this way, I feel that I am a very generous person to the other teachers around me and even at school.

If you talk about generosity, maybe, it is not too reasonable, because generous people will not lose their temper with their subordinates.

At the very least, someone who knows what to say in what situations, because I have to quarrel with my subordinates. That would be a shame for me.

That being said, I don't use any of these practices. If I have to ask why? Yes, because I am a disciple of the Buddha. He is a disciple of the Buddha who has taken refuge and is a true believer.

In that case, what else is there to explain.

According to the words of the old man of Venerable Jingkong, a true Buddhist disciple who is a monk should set an example for his family, and if he is at home, he should be an example for his family. Since I, Mr. Jiang, can't leave home, of course, I'm not going to do that for now, I don't have any plans in this regard. I'm really hard to say what will happen in the future.

In that case, what else do I have to say? But in order to show that I had such a big temper with her just now, let her have such a confrontation with me. In order to make his mood happy. I can't, in a face-to-face confrontation with her, and if I were to tell him that I was wrong, it would still be impossible, because after all, I was one of his leaders. Although I can't live like this, but I want to have such a better result, it seems that I have to take another way.

That is, I give him something to praise him, or say that he did a good job, something like that. Even so, I still feel a little small, because it's just a verbal relationship, and what does it matter if you say a few beautiful words? What does he get from material things? It seems that I should still give him some material rewards.

Although there are material rewards, I don't want to damage the whole board because of my relationship, because this is a matter between the two of us, and this is because I have not solved the problem between the two of us, so I can only take the money out of my own pocket to him.

As for how much money to give him, if it is too much, to be honest, although I regard money as dung, but for him, I can't be too extravagant. In that case, in the future, if he is going to make a big mistake, I think he will be rewarded or punished.

On the other hand, if it's too little, it's not okay either. Because the relationship between the two of us, or he is my assistant, subordinate or something, but now the cost of living is so high and inflation is so bad.

To tell the truth, the current renminbi is no longer valuable, and if you give him a few yuan or dozens of yuan, it will be like coaxing a child to play, in that case, he will not take it to heart.

I want to say as much as I want, because I say that if I say something like this, everyone else who is not a fool will understand what I mean.

What's more, my assistant, he was personally selected by me, I personally selected, if there is no certain diamond, how can I stop the assistant from working on porcelain?

So I said to him, "Jiang Tao, I know what you mean. I've found that you've been getting more and more hands-on lately, and it's really getting better. The board of directors has decided to give some material rewards to some more motivated people, which is about five or six hundred yuan, do you have any ideas?

I told him this, and I think he should have listened very clearly and understood what I was saying.

It's just that in this case, I still make a very big lie, that is, to say my personal opinion as the opinion of the board of directors, although on the surface, it seems that I am considering the other party, but from the bottom of my heart I still consider myself, that is, I can't let go of this face in my heart, and I don't dare to admit that I made this mistake. If the cost Buddha is to say, it is that you can't let go of me. It seems that my karma is really not small. You should practice well, and if you don't really do it, you won't be able to escape the suffering of samsara! I don't need to be told anything, I can feel it myself.

Now, though, is not the time to talk about such things. Now it is time to solve some of the ideological problems of my assistant Jiang Tao, and not let his work and life be affected by the quarrel with me today.

I don't know about other people, but my own emotions are easily influenced by other people's words. People are of the same mind, and of course I know what he thinks.