Excessive self-confidence is conceit, and excessive modesty is inferiority.

In Wuji's perception of Lin Chaofeng, he seems to be on the verge of being humble and inferior, not in between.

Sometimes he thinks that Lin Chaofeng is modest, and sometimes he feels that Lin Chaofeng is more like a person with low self-esteem.

It's a very tangled feeling, but in the past, because of age and media problems, he didn't really think about this problem very well.

But this time is different, this meeting, he has a good impression of Lin Chaofeng.

Or that the relationship between the two of them has always been very good, and they appreciate each other very much, and this meeting is just a higher level on the basis of this relationship and feelings.

In the face of the game, Wuji has nothing to say.

He just felt that in the game, Lin Chaofeng had been working hard to be himself, and he had done many things.

But a game is always a game, reality is always reality, there is a difference, and it needs to be said separately.

Similarly, because of the difference between the game and reality, the two can be regarded as an old acquaintance's meeting, which also makes Wuji's heart a little different from Lin Chaofeng's thoughts, different from some of the previous ones.

But all of this seems to have to be built on Lin Chaofeng himself.

To be precise, it is necessary to follow Lin Chaofeng's own ideas and wishes.

Regarding the game, Lin Chaofeng mentioned it like that, Wuji didn't say much, so naturally he didn't continue.

Because Wuji has mentioned it, he himself has said something similar to the topic before.

In fact, it is nothing more than the sadness caused by their environment here, at that time they were referring to some others, and did not think of themselves.

When Wuji asked himself this, he undoubtedly connected these things to himself.

I did say: "In fact, most of the people here will end up living like that if nothing else." ”

It's not that the ordinary is bad, it can only be said that the ordinary is conditional, or that people themselves should have pursuits and ideas.

Therefore, most ordinary people are ordinary under the premise of helplessness to come again, rather than choosing ordinary from the beginning.

Lin Chaofeng said: "Since you said so, brother, if I have to have an answer, I can only say that I don't know, to become an extraordinary person, I don't think I have that ability, or I shouldn't have that opportunity." ”

"Achieving a personal depends on the current situation, you have also said this word on some other topics before, I believe that my brother understands what I am talking about."

Wuji nodded and said, "That's right, the current situation is very important, and it may weigh more than the so-called fortune in a person's life." ”

Lin Chaofeng smiled: "It's not surprising, after all, it's the most basic thing, so when I look at this issue many times, I feel that I may end up being an extremely ordinary person." ”

"Because I don't have that kind of vision, and I don't have that kind of ability, I don't think luck is a thing worth hoping for, or that it is sad to hold on to this illusory thing and insist on living, and it is a good and more positive attitude to recognize the facts."

Wuji sighed: "Graduation, going out, working, as time grows, getting older, and finally starting a family in a hurry, after becoming a family, many things will become irrelevant to us, especially us men, unconsciously, time passes again, and when I look back, in fact, most people look back at the age of my age." ”

Lin Chaofeng smiled: "And most people are not as proud as Brother Wuji." ”

"Smug?" Wuji sighed and said, "It's also relative, I have my own difficulties and hardships, of course, compared to the ordinary process you identify, I am naturally a proud person. ”

Lin Chaofeng said: "So brother, you also have a general understanding of this process, and I don't think there is any problem." ”

Wuji frowned and said, "You really plan to live your life like this?" ”

Lin Chaofeng smiled: "Do you have any choices?" There may be a choice, but more likely there is no choice, and that's the environment we have here. ”

"Just like the poor man's famous quote about poverty that I told you before, my opinion is the same, many people think that we don't choose or even think, but think usefully, choose to choose, if not, just an attitude, is it really useful?"

Lin Chaofeng said and sighed: "Of course I hate such a process in my heart, because there are too many examples like this around us, but also because of the existence of these examples, applied to ourselves, in fact, we will not be much better than them in the end." ”

"Attitude can be there, but there is a price to pay for attitude, we are very real people here, maybe I don't look like it, but on top of this question I may be sure of myself, real people don't care too much about those nihilistic things, let alone a verbal attitude."

Wuji asked, "Then have you ever thought that you really have a chance to change?" ”

Lin Chaofeng nodded and said, "Yes." ”

Wuji smiled: "Let's talk about it." ”

Lin Chaofeng smiled: "Didn't we say it many times? I've joked a lot of times, that is, after I graduate, I really don't want to continue studying, I'll ask you to eat and die, and you just throw some work for me to do, and everything will be perfect. ”

Wuji sighed, "Then did you ever think that this kind of thing would come true?" ”

Lin Chaofeng said: "Listening to your tone, brother, I naturally can't deny it, this joke has always been because you didn't affirm it, brother." ”

"Really?"

Wuji thought for a moment, then sighed and said, "Yes, it seems that I haven't been sure all along, but if I tell you that there is a reason, will you believe it?" ”

Lin Chaofeng said: "But this is not important, but I believe in you, brother, on this matter." ”

Wuji wanted to speak and stopped, but finally sighed.

The problem he thought of was naturally the reason why he had never had a positive attitude on this issue, because the two of them had a good relationship, and because Wuji took Lin Chaofeng more seriously, so this seemingly joking topic, between them, he had never shown a clear attitude.

Although the joke has been made more than once or twice, many times it is the topic that he Wuji himself took the initiative to bring up, but the result is often unintentionally brought over.