When I got back to work, I asked my assistant what kind of dream he had.

My assistant said to me, "He dreamed that Avalokiteshvara said to him, "Let him pick me up. ”

I can't imagine why Avalokiteshvara gave him a dream. Because I don't want other people, if I have any calamity or what kind of danger I have, Guanyin and his old man entrusted him with a dream, then there is no problem, I have no problem at all, just come back from my comrades-in-arms, what kind of reason does Guanyin Bodhisattva give him a dream. It's kind of incredible to think about.

I should follow this reasoning as it should be. However, Guanyin Bodhisattva asked him to pick me up, it must be because Guanyin Bodhisattva and his old man have other plans or something. Otherwise, it wouldn't be like this.

Leave him alone, whatever he wants.

When I arrived at the company, I was busy with some things in the company.

At this time, the assistant of the company said to me: "Look at this time, am I busy?" ”

I said to my assistant, "Say whatever you want!" ”

He said that he wanted to talk to me about some problems in life, so I told him that if there is any problem, you can say whatever you want.

He said, "That's right, that is, about my work." ”

I said to him, "How old are you now?" ”

My assistant Jiang Tao: "He's almost twenty-five. ”

I said to him, "Have you found someone now?" ”

He replied, "No." ”

"Say whatever you want to me!" I said to him.

I know that I have told him directly now, what can I say or not, because since he asked me like this, he must believe me, and if I don't tell him, then he will definitely have an opinion about me. What's more, he said to my subordinates, for this type of thing, as a person who has come over, I think I can definitely give him some help, as for the size and size of these helps, of course I don't know, only he himself said.

Although I said this, Jiang Tao still grinded for a long time, and did not say a word, whether he was thinking about the problem, or suddenly changed his mind, I don't know, but since he said that just now, he must have wanted to say it at that time, and now he may not want to say it, I think so.

Why is it easy to have problems when communicating with people? For example, I want to ask a question, I want to ask this question, is it to imagine that you want to give me a positive answer, or to support Fan Fan's words, I want to get some other views and understandings from your mouth, this is another way of saying.

Also, for example, if a person suddenly falls out of love, if he tells you about it, wants you to give him a solution to the problem, or wants you to comfort her, if you don't know what kind of outcome he wants, you just say what you think in your heart, will he be satisfied? Definitely not, so if you dare to give someone what kind of answer, you have to know what kind of answer they want? Otherwise, if you say it casually, you will not be able to solve the problem of the two of you in any way.

So, I asked him: "You see if it's convenient for you to say it now, if it's not convenient, let's talk about it next time." ”

When I had finished saying this, he said, "Is there anything inconvenient, as a conversation between two big men, is there anything to hide?" ”

I told him this, I wanted to dispel the doubts in his heart, or if he didn't want to say anything, I could give him some steps to go down and drag him down with his eyes closed, which would not only not help us communicate in any way, but also make him feel embarrassed, which should not be what I wanted to do, nor was it my way of life.

So he said slowly: "I think so, as your assistant, I don't know what you think I'm doing, but now I have a clear goal for myself, I mean, how good I should be in the future, can you give me some clear instructions?" ”

I smiled and replied to him: "It's good for you to ask like this, your job, I don't know how you are positioned, if you just position you, like a nanny, then you are very wrong, there is a higher positioning, that is to say, you should have thought about how to replace me in the future, how can you be a boss, but not, tightly serve me, take care of me, you said that if there is no comparison in that case, come to do this kind of work, directly find a woman, that is more gentle, careful and thoughtful, is it better than you?" Of course, in terms of your current ability, you may not be able to meet that requirement, but you should be more strict with yourself from the bottom of your heart, such as how much do you have to learn every day? How many books are you going to read? Also, every day, when you listen to me deal with things, you have to think about it, if he asks you about this kind of thing, how will you deal with it? That's where you should learn from me. ”

I know that I said this kind of thing to him, it was very direct, and of course my explanation would not hurt him, because my identity is here, and I don't have to beat around the bush to tell him, in that case, it will not be like I am his leader. More importantly, I am also completely thinking about him, if I think about myself, there is no need to say this, for her sake.

Including, when dealing with things, he should see me from his point of view, how should I deal with it, you say that it is his leader, I don't know if they will say this, but since they say this, they must stand in the other party's position and consider each other, rather than saying some high-sounding words.

"I don't know, are you satisfied with what I say?"

"Oh, can such a leader be more specific?" Jiang Tao asked.

I said in my heart, you let me be more specific, it's not that it's impossible, it's completely okay, but you do your job well, it's your ability, if you don't do it well, it's because you don't have this ability, that is to say, it's not suitable for this job. Although I thought so, but I didn't say it, if I said it, he would definitely be unhappy, the two of us looked down and didn't look up, and it was this kind of relationship, why should I offend him.

"Let's put it this way!" When I said this, I didn't dare, and an idea flew into my head that I didn't know much about him yet, so I wanted to get to know him completely from the beginning.

"What did you study?"

I asked him such a question, which seemed a bit idiotic. But I want to say a little bit, do you know how much he understands his profession? How many things are used? Can he not answer at all? But as far as his current work performance is concerned, I will see if it has a lot to do with his major.

"I'm studying Chinese language and literature, as I told you before." Jiang Tao said.

As he spoke, he must have thought that he had told me why I was so forgetful.