Chapter 243: Loneliness surrounds
Shingo Harano doesn't leave the house these days, and even the meals are ordered for takeout, and the house has become a mess, and there is no cleanliness at all when Ai Fukuhara was there.
The more people grow up, the more lonely they feel, this feeling comes from our own hearts, and the loneliness that affects the heart is brought about by some things and things around us, so there is the origin of "high places are not cold", the high here has the meaning of high status, in fact, it is more about being old!
And each of us will feel lonely many times a day, in order to make ourselves feel better, everyone will be the same, come up with various ways to relieve this loneliness, some in the way of love, but this is meaningless for some people who are not interested in love.
When loneliness strikes, most of us will do these three things, originally everyone thought that this would make the loneliness disintegrate, but who knows, just do it more and more lonely.
However, knowing that I am lonely, I still can't help but try to do it every day, knowing that my heart is used to being lonely.
When I am lonely, I take out my mobile phone, but it is one of the witnesses of loneliness.
Every time I feel lonely, do you habitually take out your mobile phone, and then look at your dating software, or open other address books, and want to find someone to tell your feelings at this moment, but when you look at it, you find that no one can communicate.
Once the mobile phone is taken out, but you see all kinds of things that are showing off your joy, and let yourself feel isolated by the whole world more thoroughly, this is not because the mobile phone has the ability to help us relieve loneliness, but has the ability to make us taste more lonely.
When the mobile phone can't solve their loneliness, everyone will naturally open the game or food inside, continue to hide the loneliness in their hearts, and use temporary amnesia to leave the loneliness behind, and the next loneliness will only be more severe.
Find someone to drink to eliminate loneliness, but find that the more you drink, the more lonely you become.
As long as it is because of loneliness, going to find friends to drink or girlfriends to go shopping is the most effective way for everyone to feel, but when what they are looking forward to happens, they find that it is just a soul, and it can even make you even more lonely.
As we all know, borrowing wine to eliminate sorrow is a meaning, loneliness originally comes from our own hearts, no one can help me get out, but the more lonely I am, with people who are not lonely, the stronger the feeling of loneliness.
In order to deliberately make the other party feel that he is not depressed or lonely, that kind of reluctant smile can basically make him feel hypocritical and disgusting, but there is no way to do it, because we originally thought that this was the best way to relieve loneliness, but the result was wrong.
I want to use cheerful songs to dispel the loneliness in my heart, but I hear the melody of loneliness.
As long as people who are lonely will like to listen to songs, listen to their favorite tracks before, but find that they are all songs related to loneliness, in order to change their mood, we will try to listen to cheerful and pleasant.
But listening to the music and reflecting on it is not as good as before, and as a result, I tune out those lonely songs and listen to them repeatedly, so the more I listen to the songs, the more lonely my heart becomes, and the melody hurts my heart more and more, but I am unwilling to stop immediately.
This is actually a melody from our own hearts, even in cheerful songs, we are in a lonely mood, we will listen to it out of the frequency of loneliness, in addition to turning off the music immediately, I can't bear to only become more and more lonely and difficult to sleep.
Loneliness is the emotion that you have been alone for a long time and no longer want to continue, and loneliness is that you and I have not been in love for a long time.
So I miss the happiness brought by love, loneliness can only be solved by yourself, but you need a person of the opposite sex to cooperate with you, a person of the opposite sex who you like!
When you are lonely, as long as the opposite sex cares about you a little, you will have a good feeling, and it is called a lack of love.
In fact, everyone lacks love, both longing to be loved by others and expecting others to accept their love. When a person lacks love, he is also the loneliest.
Because looking around, everyone has emotional sustenance, even if it is unrequited love, it is better than one person.
When people are lonely, they are the most likely to be sad, and they are also the most emotionally unstable. In fact, everyone has a relationship window period, the end of a relationship, not so quickly to come out, as short as a few months, long as a few years.
A female writer in the Republic of China once said: "It only takes two things to forget a person, time and new love; You choose a new love, I choose time! ”
Feelings are not something that can be forgotten by forgetting, otherwise there would not be so many miserable love stories. No matter how long it has been and how good the new love is, the feeling of the past is no longer there.
Every day, I don't think about it, a person has nothing to do all day long, and I can describe it in two words to describe that time, that is, "decadence".
Every day, he felt as if he was surrounded by loneliness, and he couldn't breathe.
Every time I think of her, all that comes to mind is her gentleness and kindness, her kindness to herself, and I can't find any shortcomings and reasons for not loving her from her, so this relationship can be said to have a beginning and an end.
Later, he gradually understood that people always have to learn to grow up, everything has to look forward, and let the past pass, after all, there is no going back, and if it continues like this, it will only waste more time.
So he slowly began to want to come out of that shadow, and let himself not stop thinking about these bad things every day, nor did he use wine to drown his sorrows, no one helped, and he relied on self-healing.
There is no right or wrong in feelings, only cherishing or not cherishing. Life is short, and there is not much time left for us to wake up with regrets every day. So love those who are good to you and forget about those who don't know how to cherish you.
When people are lonely, they are the easiest to fall in love with others. If when you are lonely and lonely, there is someone who is willing to be by your side silently, then you should cherish it, few people are really willing to bet on their youth, and they are betting on their own happiness for a lifetime, this is not what love is.
Of course, love can't be forced, you want me to love you. Love is not a refuge, love needs admiration, and if you just want to go in and take refuge, you will be driven out mercilessly.
If you happen to have feelings for her, then you might as well give it a try and give each other a chance. Otherwise, once fate is missed, you will regret it.
A lesson from the past, a teacher for the future. Remember that love is not a refuge for loneliness and loneliness, true love is when feelings, passion and romance are all taken away, when the face, youth and glitz are all gone, you will still cherish each other from the bottom of your heart.