Seeing that Yuan Ye Shingo looked serious and nervous, Matsuyuki Spring Water panicked in his heart. Yuan Ye-kun wouldn't be really afraid of himself, right?,But he's really not angry.,It seems... Yuan Yejun is still very angry with himself, otherwise he wouldn't mind his mood so much.

But when I think about it, isn't it just that I am careful with those who cherish it, just like myself...

"No, I'm not angry anymore, it's not a big deal, and..."

"And what?"

Shingo Harano breathed a sigh of relief, as long as it wasn't uncomfortable in his body.

"I want to think about it... Well... That's right! It's almost one o'clock, we haven't eaten yet, let's hurry up and cook! ”

"Uh... All right. ”

With a suspicious look, she glanced at Sister Quanshui twice, opened her mouth and finally didn't ask, after all, she didn't take care of it, and she ate other people's tofu.

"Do you often cook at home, I see that your skills are very skillful."

"But I'm not that bad, I know you said you made it with me because you were afraid that I wouldn't make it delicious."

It doesn't matter what Shingo Harano says, Matsuyuki Spring Water is talking to himself.

"Ahem... Sure enough, nothing can escape Sister Quanshui's eyes. ”

He put his hand to his mouth and coughed twice, and said with some embarrassment.

"I don't cook often, but I do a lot of work for Ai-chan at home, so I still have a good set of ingredients."

Shigo Harano smiled and said these words slowly.

"Sure enough, Fukuhara-san is a very good person, and she will be a virtuous wife in the future."

Songxue Spring's hand that was rinsing the radish paused, then turned his head and smiled, but the smile was a little reluctant.

"Well, Sister Quanshui will be in the future."

Me too? Song Xue Quanshui was stunned for a moment, and then she shook her head a little helplessly and said, "Yuan Yejun really looks down on me so much, except for my identity in the family, I am actually just an ordinary girl." ”

In fact, she doesn't feel so good about herself, she doesn't seem to be so good, just a very ordinary girl, regardless of her family background, she doesn't think she is beautiful.

"I don't think I'm going to be that competent as a wife."

After a pause, Songxue Spring thought about it.

"How can it be, Sister Quanshui is such a gentle person, and she is also very considerate, and she never spares no effort to help people, she is a boy who will like it."

Even if there is no mold of Sakai Izumizu's sister in front of him, he will think that he is impeccable when he meets such a girl.

Gentle and beautiful and generous.,Very good at figuring out people's psychology.,Will help you in the right place.,Although sometimes there will be a little temper.,But which of today's girls is not a big temper?

It's really all about watching idol dramas, South Korea, Taiwan, and even some of them are domestic.

brainwashing his girlfriend and watching Japanese dramas may be able to save him.

In Korean dramas, men spoil women and spoil the sky, all kinds of warm men. In Japanese dramas, women spoil men and spoil the sky, and girls are gentle, cute and understanding.

The correct route is for men to watch Korean dramas and women to watch Japanese dramas.

Brainwashed by various idols and stupid TV series, I shout every day that everyone is equal, I want this and that, once I went out downstairs in the dormitory in the university and saw three girls walking side by side, one of them didn't count, and she was dressed coolly and said that she would find someone who was handsome and rich in the future, and it was good for her......

Why do people like you with that condition, it's not that I target girls, the sense of security doesn't come from the other party, and I give myself a sense of security, so now I see independence, and girls with three positive views feel that their eyes are bright, and a clear stream.

Girls are squeamish, and there may indeed be some objective reasons, such as girls are naturally timid and shy, have an innate fear and fear of unfamiliar environments, and are easy to be willful, etc., these personalities to some extent lead to girls being more likely to form squeamish personalities than boys.

However, studies have shown that squeamishness among only children is largely due to the improper parenting of their parents. Every girl is not born afraid of difficulties, nor is she weak-willed, and the reason for this phenomenon is that parents are pampered, doting, overprotective and other bad education methods.

As we all know, only girls are pampered by their parents and grandparents at home, and it is easy to form self-centered thoughts and habits, and naturally become more and more squeamish.

It can't be helped, that's how the social climate is. Girls are rich so that they can resist temptation in the future. But in fact, rich girls have very distorted values.

The different ways of family education have brought about antagonism in the value systems of men and women. It is known that if most boys grow up in a poor way, it will be difficult for them to accept the values of rich girls.

Because the adopted daughters of Fudao almost grew up under the condition of being protected, they do not know how to give and give back, but more endlessly accept and take.

Therefore, in modern society, there are a lot of girls who consume men, they are lazy and lazy, and they get more "convenience" from men, what is the result?

is that there are more and more scumbags, and men are consumed, so they begin to entertain women and take what they need. This is actually a distortion of values. It has an inseparable causal relationship with the social form. The relationship between men and women has become a transmuted buying and selling relationship, but women do not "price" themselves.

Some even marked the price for themselves, borrowed money, even asked for money, and asked for breakup fees and other devastating things, just because men must spoil women.

On the other hand, in addition to the opening of the two children in the past two years, most of the previous children were "only children and daughters", all of whom were loved by thousands of people, and the problem of only children was obvious, which was at least a common problem for 2-3 generations. This problem is even more pronounced in Tier 12 cities.

Whether it is from the life ability or from the spiritual level, if you always count on others to hold you in the palm of your hand, you lose the ability to negotiate with life.

Today, my husband didn't help you carry your bag, and you feel that he doesn't love you. If your friends don't comfort you tomorrow, you will feel 10,000 uncomfortable in your heart. In such a life, to the end, what other ending can there be besides frustration?

…...

"Let's cook."

After being silent for a while, Songxue Spring Water suddenly spoke.

"Huh? Oh..."

He was hesitating to take the initiative to say something, when he suddenly heard the sound of Matsuyuki spring water, and Shigo Harano was stunned at first, and then reacted.

Is Sister Quanshui angry? Watching Matsuyuki Spring put down the radish in his hand and began to process the fish on the board, Shigo Harano couldn't help but have some speculation in his heart.

However, Matsuyuki Izumizu had his back to him and couldn't see the expression on his face, so Shigo Harano had to act as if she didn't care about it, so he began to chop things like green onions and ginger and prepare to start making braised fish for her.

"Sister Quanshui, do you want to eat spicy, if you don't eat it, I won't let it go?"

The atmosphere was really awkward, and Shingo Harano had to take the initiative to find something to talk about.

"If you want to eat it, wouldn't it taste too bland without chili?"

"But this is braised carp, and if you put too many chili peppers, it will lose its original taste."

"Didn't Yuan Yejun say that he would also know Sichuan food, why don't you just make a spicy dish, I like to eat spicy food now."

Shingo Harano nodded silently, and found that Sister Izumi had matured a lot.

If a woman is very mature with you, she just doesn't love you. Because she's been through a lot. I wasn't very happy to hear it. When did mature love become a fake? It's quite. Because not everything is always as primitive as possible.

The reason why pure and original love makes people linger is not because of how much higher meaning this form of love itself has, but because like all new things, it retains the original curiosity and mystery. The essence of the original love may not be so much that it is really profound, but more of a curiosity: curiosity about why and how to love.

Mature love, childish love, and the first love are three different kinds of love. True mature love is not an accident pretending to be a hypocrisy, I think most people misunderstand. Truly mature love should be interpreted from more and better angles.

It's easy to talk about others, but it's hard to talk about yourself. It's easy to know others, but it's hard to see yourself. There are huge differences between men and women, and there are also huge differences between women and women, and these differences are often unchangeable and insurmountable, not 100%, but some kind of predestination.

There is a huge difference between a man's money and social status and the way he feels happy when he gets along with him. No man would refuse a woman who is extremely good in every way, but fortunately, life is fairly fair.

Everyone is one and the other, there will be prominent, there will be backward, there will be those who will sing all the way from the beginning, and learning to see part of the face of reality is the basic law of life. And learning to see your own basic state is one of the laws of love.

You won't like boys who are worse than you, have worse abilities, have lower emotional intelligence than you, and have worse conditions than you, right? Such a man is desperate to pursue you.

I have been blinded and will get nothing but a basin of cold water. In the same way, have you ever made the same mistake when you like a boy?

Do you really know what kind of state you're in? I saw a girl before, she didn't dare to compliment, she didn't look good, even if she didn't look good, and her makeup was ugly. Forget about these, and say that you have face control and voice control.

？？？ I'm still wondering if I've heard it wrong, but there are girls like that. You are sending non-mainstream jokes, everything is mediocre, what reason is there to be ashamed to pursue a one-meter-eight appearance, Wu Yanzu's height and sexy magnetic voice?

The world is not absolute, you don't need to listen to how I evaluate others, and you don't need to be too impetuous to pursue what you want, first look at yourself, look at your own strengths, look at your own shortcomings, see your own potential, but also see some of your own limitations, within the right scale, in order to bear the right results.

It's okay if you can't see yourself clearly, as long as you're not afraid of being disappointed.

Men and women think differently, what's the use of you just using your own thinking to think about why the other person is like this? Looking at men from a man's point of view, this is the basic truth!

Men look at the results, and women focus on emotions.

The most common quarrel is not to argue with each other over a thing, it is to talk about things. When men and women quarrel, it is more common for women to vent, complain about their unhappiness, and complain. The man was silent on the side, or tried to explain.

Men love to explain, but women don't like to listen to explanations the most. This is the most basic difference between the thinking of men and women. So a mature woman knows when to lose her temper with a princess, when she can let them know something without listening to the man's explanation, and when to give the man the opportunity to speak and explain.

Just right to get what you want. Instead of letting your emotions get out of control all the time, you can't regret it after calming down.

Men think about cause and effect, women look at the present.

When faced with realistic factors, men will weigh more of what the corresponding choices will be, while women are more concerned about whether what men are doing at the moment makes them happy and loves them.

A man spends more hours working sometimes to have better conditions to give the other person a better life, while the woman feels that you don't love her as much as you used to. This is also the fate of most realities that block feelings.

The difference in thinking is an instinct that is hard to escape. And being able to control instinct to a certain extent is quite mature.

True and reasonable love is to preserve the basic self. If there is nothing in love, what is the value of love itself. Most people envy the heroine in film and television dramas who use their lives to prove the heroism of love, but the reality is that most of them cry and shout to die for each other, and the other party does not look back.

One more sentence remains: ridiculous.

Love is not that it cannot be profound, but that it must be true and reasonable. Otherwise, it is equivalent to ignorance.

The essence of rationality is to have a deeper understanding of oneself. If self-acceptance is about giving yourself a score, then to really know yourself deeply is to understand what you really want.

Seeing yourself clearly, but not knowing what you want, you will still get lost in the flock, and you will be clear about what life you want in this life, what life you want to live, and strive to achieve it in it, which is the last gift to yourself.

But is it okay? Of course not. Things are not going as planned. But you also have to know yourself, because there will always be a day when you will return, even if you can't make your dreams come true, but at least you will live with the shadow of dreams. This is one of the most important meanings of life.

If you can quarrel, you are really mature. Women who can quarrel and negotiate terms with men have an unstoppable charm.

Women need to be coaxed, who doesn't know? So, what do men need?

I don't think many people know about it. And this is the essence and mystery of negotiation. The magic weapon of quarrels. If that person fights with a woman, and the woman gets angry, she has to fight over who is right and who is wrong, I don't think this kind of relationship will last long.

In the same way, if you can't answer this question, it means that you won't quarrel with men, and when you always treat men like men treat women wrongly, I think this kind of relationship will not last long.

Women need to be coaxed, and men need to be praised. Praise is not to make you say that he is handsome, but a feeling of admiration, a feeling that makes the other party feel respected and tall. This is the key to happiness and the key to male infatuation. Not only does he not boast about women, but he always loses. Always belittle men to exalt themselves. Let the other person come and surrender completely to yourself. Miss by a mile.

What men want is not true inequality, but respect and worship as a catalyst. If a man has no desire to protect, no sense of victory, no feeling and feelings of standing up to the sky, how can he have the courage to love you?

Therefore, when negotiating and quarreling with men, women should learn to show weakness and learn to guide men to his comfort zone, as long as you do it, it is normal that many things will depend on you. Learn to replace condemnation with coquettishness, learn to replace abuse with cuteness, and learn to replace ridicule with pretending to be pitiful.

There is no definition of what love is. Falling in love is love, and falling in love and separating is also love. Whether you walk together or not, it's love. Marriage, on the other hand, is clearly defined:

Marriage generally refers to the union between a man and a woman, and the social union or legal constraint of one party settling down in the other party's house to form a relationship of kinship between people.

Depending on the concept and culture, it is usually recognized as an intimate or sexual expression, and it is proclaimed in the form of a wedding. There are many reasons for marriage, such as legal, social, emotional, economic, spiritual, and religious needs. Usually, marriage is the foundation and basis for forming a family. The parents of both parties are called "in-laws" or "in-laws".

The form of monogamy and monogamy is generally recognized, and same-sex marriage has been recognized in some regions. Other forms of marriage also existed in the past cultural history of some regions and in many ancient tribes, and polygamous and polyandry marriages are now recognized by the laws of some regions or religions. Most countries and regions in the world have adopted a marriage registration system, and there is no limit to the number of marriages if the conditions are met.

Marriage is a sociology. So there is really not much pain and incomprehension, and it can only be blamed on many people who are married but still don't know what marriage is. As mentioned in the entry, there are many reasons for getting married, legal, social, emotional, economic, etc., which one are you?

Of course, you can also choose not to get married, and marriage itself does not have to be a certain regulation that must be fulfilled. It can only be said that it is a tradition of being born in a certain social environment. Marriage is not the same as love. This is the basic science you should understand.

Marriage is not the same as love. Love can get married, and marriage can have love. But love is not the same as marriage, and marriage is not the same as love. Crying over the difference between love and marriage is never a sign of maturity.

What two types of people can't swim? Answer: Daughter-in-law and mother.

There is really not much need to ask questions like this that test human nature. The best answer is: I go, I can't swim! In fact, it doesn't make much sense, the real world is rich because of the right environment, and there will be bad things in a bad environment.

That's why the Antarctic Arctic is so far away from the world you live in. I think that the basic truth that a mature woman needs to understand should also include understanding the boundaries and bottom lines of the other party.

And the boundary and the bottom line are probably slightly different from each other. But taking a step back, you should be clear about what is going on and don't overdo it. Even if you think it's love, the other person thinks it's an insult or it's not good

One of the most common big mistakes is to use other men to stimulate men. Of course, small comparisons may not be harmful, but some inexplicable comparisons and misunderstandings will make the dignity of men ruined.

For example, in a time period that you don't understand, the other party asks you what you are doing, you say you don't care about him, you say you go to play with a friend, he asks who you are with, you say you don't care about him, he asks you male or female, you say male.

Then my relationship is probably going to end here.

A lot of girls say, "I really don't understand what's going on." I like him so much, he will take it seriously? But just like the example of saving your daughter-in-law or your mother at the beginning, I said save your mother, are you serious or not? If it's not true, then what are you asking? Actually, I still mind.

So do you, so do men. And the relationship with others that is inexplicable, using others to stimulate men, is the boundary and bottom line of most men. This is probably a basic principle that a mature woman should know.

Matsuyuki Spring's tone was flat and he couldn't hear anything wrong, which made Yuan Ye Shingo feel a little relieved.

It seems that Sister Quanshui is already a mature enough woman, and she has long been immune to small scenes like indirect kissing.