Wuji asked, "And what about the answer?" ”

Lin Chaofeng said: "Naturally, I don't know, in fact, not to mention that at that time, even now, you asked me to face this question, and I also answered this way." ”

Guilt is really a thing that looks at people and things, and looks at a lot of situations.

Lin Chaofeng said: "I said I might feel guilty, but maybe I can't say it, but one thing is for sure, one yard to one, injury is injury, compensation is compensation, whether the two can achieve reasonable equivalence, that is definitely not possible." ”

Wuji smiled: "It seems that making you think is to make you understand your mistakes and prevent them from making them again in the future." ”

Lin Chaofeng said: "Where, because my precious old sister said the same thing later, and asked me if I had to choose again, would I make a move." ”

"Because the matter itself is also another statement, I didn't take the initiative to provoke the other party, in fact, it was the other party who took the initiative to provoke me, it's just, I hated the other party a little at the time, and it was too much when I fought back, and my mistake was this."

"So my answer is also very positive, I don't know if I didn't want to lose face as an old brother in front of my precious sister at that time or what, I said with great certainty that if I can come again, I will still choose to shoot."

"Then my little sister wondered, and said that because it was already like this, why didn't I repent, but it was all family, and she still had hope for me, and asked me if I would change the level of fighting back if I could come again."

Wuji said: "In this way, you are still a little unrepentant, but I don't think there is anything wrong with what you said, how can anything be done again, in fact, many things are the choices you made at the beginning, whether they are right or wrong, that is the choice you will inevitably make." ”

"That kind of subconscious behavior is actually the truest self, and to deny it is to deny oneself, or to deny oneself in a certain period of time."

"Of course, many people may have so-called regrets about many things in their past, and many people call it enlightenment or something, and there is nothing wrong with that, but I think the kind of person who will deny even his own past is a person who is extremely unsuccessful."

Lin Chaofeng said with a smile: "Although I can't say why, my thoughts at that time may be the same as what you said, brother, because I think so too." ”

"Especially after thinking about the so-called quiet environment for a long time, I was actually completely integrated into what had happened, that is, the so-called mistakes, and I thought about these things many times and saw them very thoroughly."

"So my answer is that if I can really do it all over again, I will still choose to do it, and the way of shooting may still be the same way, even if I have understood that this way may have serious consequences, and it may make my mistake worse, but I will still do it."

Wuji clapped his hands and said, "In reason, this is like a normal person." ”

Lin Chaofeng said: "My precious old sister's reaction is different from yours. She said it must be because of me, that's why the old man is like that. ”

Wuji asked, "Didn't you say that this matter was resolved because of the conversation between you?" ”

Lin Chaofeng said: "That's right, but whether this is the key or not is actually not clear to me." ”

Wuji said: "What do you say, what did you say later?" ”

Lin Chaofeng said: "Later, it is natural to say that this matter is something after the parents of both sides come, my baby sister naturally praises the old man's behavior, and since the other party is like a river, then use actions to prove this matter." ”

"But in fact, brother, you also understand that the old man's behavior is not actually to make the other party shut up, nor is it to prevent the other party from making trouble unreasonably, this is actually the most calm way to deal with things."

Wuji said: "Well, no matter what time it happens, determining the personal safety of the person concerned is the most important thing, this is human nature. ”

"Don't talk about petty conflicts like yours, even if the other party is really the kind of person who is extremely evil, the first thing to pay attention to in this case is his safety."

Lin Chaofeng sighed: "Yes, that's how I responded. ”

"My statement is that since the old man is here, it means that he is ready to face this matter, and his way of handling it is very correct, and the reason is like what you said, brother."

"Because a lot of similar things have happened here, but most of the ways to deal with it, especially after the kind of simple affirmation, the adults say that it is okay, and if they don't say the good things, they are arguing, and the end result is that both parents may educate their children and at the same time pass on some negative energy messages."

"To be precise, it's not really good to deal with related things, we have seen and heard too many such things, so I will explain this to my precious old sister, saying that the old man just wants to deal with the things he faced at that time."

"At the same time, he doesn't want to tell us about other people's things because of such a thing, and this matter first and foremost requires me to recognize mistakes, and there is also an estimate to let me understand how to deal with related problems when I encounter mistakes."

Wuji asked, "Role model?" ”

Lin Chaofeng shook his head and said, "It shouldn't be, it's just a simple and reasonable way to deal with the problem, the old man doesn't have the image of a big man, and I said so at the time." ”

"In fact, when the matter was said here, the old man had already appeared, and he added that it was a responsibility, saying that he was my old man, and if I couldn't fully bear the mistakes I made, then he needed to come forward to bear them."

"Since I have chosen to take responsibility, then I must have a good attitude of taking responsibility, as for the matter itself, I am sure that I am wrong, and I have realized this; But the attitude made him feel very relieved, so he made me think about this problem. ”

"It boils down to whether I recognize the mistake in the matter, whether I am aware of the responsibility in the mistake, and in the end it's a matter of attitude, and he seems to just want me to understand it."

Wuji smiled: "It seems that your father has something, it's hard to imagine such a parent." ”

Lin Chaofeng said: "So back to the topic itself, I'm not saying that it's not biological." ”