In the face of children of this age, instead of blindly reprimanding, it is better to make appropriate reminders according to their situation, and on a reasonable premise, based on their own help and reference suggestions, this is a better education method.

This kind of education method is also more suitable for this kind of child, which Wuji is deeply aware of.

Otherwise, he wouldn't have gotten along so well with the dialect, or he wouldn't have said that he had the authority he should have as a father in the dialect.

Wuji said: "Actually, there is nothing wrong with your fourth uncle's thinking and statement, but it just so happens that the object is actually the same cousin as your fourth uncle when he was young, and they are the kind of existence that you can't seem to say anything. ”

"Your cousin said that according to the so-called relationship between the guardian and the warded that your fourth uncle said, the two should indeed respect each other, but this mutual respect does not mean that the two sides are really the kind of thing where they have to talk about everything and discuss everything."

"This person's growth has a person's growth troubles, this person has a person's own secrets, although they have not fully grown up, but they are already moving towards becoming an independent individual, in this process need to be sharpened, need to experience, it is not an overnight thing."

"And then there is the relationship that is really very idealistic, because in reality, between the so-called guardian and the ward, in fact, the most undone thing is the guardian itself, and this is also a common phenomenon."

"This kind of bad work will cause the guardian to lose his prestige in the heart of the ward, and also create the ward will not actually believe in the guardian so much, this common phenomenon is objective, and the guardian is derelict in his duties, as long as the matter has little impact, the guardian will not be held accountable."

"On the other hand, people who are busy with guardianship often receive a lot of responsibilities as long as they toss something that disagrees with the guardian, and this unequal relationship should not be brought out to talk about things."

Fang Yan was a little surprised, and said, "My cousin was really so naughty at the beginning? Wouldn't he be very angry like this? ”

Wuji smiled and said, "What is he angry about, it's too late for him to be happy, although he was very serious on the surface at that time, but I guess ah, he is happy in his heart, why?" It's because your cousin is really like him, and he really has a feeling that the blue is better than the blue. ”

"However, in view of the environment at that time, your fourth uncle still had to continue to mess with your cousin, and your fourth uncle said that this society itself is risky, as a student, this school is in school, this school leaves school and returns home, where to go as long as the family agrees, there is no problem, this is a normal relationship, and it is also a relationship that should be recognized as a student."

"If as a student, he walks out of school on his own during school and goes to this environment with various risks, it is disrespectful to his own relationship and identity, because the school is the second guardian no matter what, and the parents are the first guardian."

"This is not a dereliction of duty on the part of the guardian, and the so-called general irresponsibility of the guardian should not be a reason for him to make such a risky decision as a student, because if something really happens, it will implicate a lot of innocent people, which in itself is a responsibility."

Fang Yan said: "The fourth uncle is also really powerful. ”

Wuji said, "I'm used to, haven't you seen your fourth uncle when he was young, your fourth uncle was your cousin's age, the school teacher didn't dare to provoke him, and your fourth uncle was tall and strong when he was young, and his body was very strong, to put it bluntly, you didn't dare to do it, and you didn't necessarily say it." ”

"But it's your cousin who is powerful, in fact, your fourth uncle's statement, normal people are actually impatient to talk about it, and if you really want to talk about it, in fact, this topic is not clear, adults are always adults, children are always children, and both sides are in terms of things outside their duties, no matter how they say it, the adults have to have an advantage."

"But your cousin himself is not an ordinary person, according to your fourth uncle, on the other hand, the environment he is facing can be divided into three parts, one is the family, the second is the school, and the third is the so-called society, as a person, he doesn't feel that because of the problem of age and identity, the world composed of these three parts is missing."

"That is to say, as a person, living in this world, then the world does not say that he needs to be isolated, it must be said that isolation, now it is a society under the rule of law, unless the law stipulates that they, the students, should not go to one of these three parts."

"Conversely, as the first guardian, that is, the parent, do you really want your child's world to be missing? For school, there are so many things learned in school, and many of them are just to make themselves better face the world, that is to say, no matter who they are, they are pushing him towards this world. ”

Although he made this choice at an inopportune time, why couldn't his choice be a tentative practice? We all know that the preparation in the growth stage is to lay the foundation for the future, but why can't he be like this at this inopportune time? Because he really didn't abandon his current identity, and he didn't walk around the world like a real adult. ”

Fang Yan smiled, "I can speak well, how do I feel that it is crooked?" ”

Wuji said, "What the father and son said were all crooked, but at that time, one said it out of the environment, and the other said it because of what he was facing. ”

"But there's nothing wrong with this crooked argument from another point of view, and your cousin added later that they did use their abilities to earn a corresponding reward, and this process sounds exactly like what an adult should do, but what they do is completely different from the nature of adults."

"This law stipulates that the jobs that adults face have corresponding requirements, and what they did at that time was not illegal, which means that it actually looks the same thing, but there are differences in nature."

The dialect asked, "So what did they do at that time?" ”

Wuji said, "I forgot specifically, but it seems to be a more public welfare thing that their students can do, and I remember correctly, because of that, your cousin has also been named and praised by some organization in the area outside the school, which is very interesting." ”

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