My name is Xue Shuzhen, and I am sixty-nine years old. My hometown is from Jinhe, and there used to be a Xuejia store in Jinhe, which was an inn, and that store was mine.

My grandfather ordered a baby since he was a child, and the woman's family name is Feng, and I heard that it is Sanfeng Tun. The two adults get along well, and the child's marriage is set at the age of three or five.

When my grandfather was twenty years old, the woman's family wanted to get married, and said, "My daughters are not young, they are all eighteen." ”

The grandfather agreed and said okay.

The grandfather went home and said, but the grandfather didn't do it, and the grandfather said: "Dad, Mom, the daughter of the old Feng family lacks heart, don't you know?" I don't want to marry a stupid daughter-in-law! ”

The grandmother said: "I heard it, I didn't look stupid when I was a child." ”

The grandfather said: "You are a baby child who has been ordered since childhood, how can you say that you are not willing to do so?" Why do you tell me to tell the old Feng family? If you don't get married this year, you won't get married, and you will definitely get married next year! ”

Grandpa dragged on for three years, he was twenty-three, and the woman was twenty-one, so he couldn't delay it anymore, and the two families set the date.

Grandpa and grandpa quarrel: "I don't want to live with a fool for the rest of my life!" ”

The grandfather said: "That's your fate, accept it." ”

It's useless to make trouble, set the day, and the grandfather and grandmother will be busy with marriage, brushing the house, and shopping things.

Grandpa had a dead heart, packed up his things one night, and stole away. No one knew where he had gone, he didn't say a word, and the matter of marriage was put on hold.

The grandfather and grandmother thought that the grandfather was angry and left, and he was allowed to come back during the New Year. It's Chinese New Year's Eve, grandpa didn't come back, and the grandmother pulled her clothes and cried for a day. On the evening of the thirtieth day, the grandmother knocked on the pig food trough and called out to her grandfather's nickname: "Son, where are you?" It's time to go home for the New Year! Son, where are you? It's time to go home for the New Year! ”

At that time, there was this saying, saying that the family shouted so much on the night of the Chinese New Year's Eve, and the people who ran outside were going to be troubled, and it was time to remember to come back.

It took seven years for my grandmother to call my grandfather back.

When Grandpa came home, he led a big scalper. When I was young, the big yellow cow was still alive, I had never seen such a big cow in my life, and it was not our breed at first glance.

Many people go to the grandfather's house to watch the excitement and want to know where the grandfather has gone in seven years.

Grandpa said that he looked for work everywhere, ran farther and farther, and then ran to Russia, where he panned for gold.

They asked, "Have you suffered a lot of crimes?" ”

Grandpa said, "Yes." ”

Everyone asked, "Earned a lot of money, right?" ”

Grandpa pointed to the big scalper and said, "That's it." ”

The group asked, "Why did you come back?" ”

Grandpa said, "I got up early and walked back in the dark." I'm not tired, I'm leading the cow. I was tired and rode the bull for a while. ”

Everyone asked: "Russia seems to be quite far away, so you have to walk for a few days, right?" ”

Grandpa said, "I don't know, it seems like I've been walking for more than a month." ”

Seeing the excitement leaving, the grandfather said: "It's good for you to come back, watch a good day, and get married." ”

Grandpa asked, "Whose daughter are you marrying?" ”

The grandfather said: "The daughter of the old Feng family." ”

"Oh my God, it's been seven years, why hasn't she married yet?" Grandpa said, "No, I have to go!" ”

The grandfather said: "You run away from marriage and leave, you will lose all my old face, and when you see Feng's family, I will not compensate me." ”

The grandmother said, "If you go again, I won't be alive!" Son, do you know how I survived these seven years? ”

The grandfather said: "Just heard that the girl is stupid, her father and mother are not stupid, how can she be stupid?" You resign yourself to your fate. ”

The grandmother said: "People have been waiting for you for seven years, and if you leave, you can't say anything." ”

Grandpa didn't leave this time, he escaped marriage for seven years, and he married Grandma Feng.

After getting married, they gave birth to four children, the second uncle died early, and the uncle, my father and my aunt were not so complete.

After getting married, my grandfather often talked to the big scalper, and led the big scalper out to hang out, sometimes walking seventy miles a day. Now that I think about it, he is smart and capable, married a stupid daughter-in-law, and gave birth to a litter of stupid children, how much of a nest does he have?

When my dad was five years old, my grandmother was gone. My aunt was too young and gave it away. My grandfather later said to me, "I'm not good to your grandmother, and God is punishing me." If I had been kind to her, she would have lived many more years. ”

When I was a child, my family lived with my eldest mother's family in the north and south kang, and they all lived with my grandfather, and there was a grandmother and an uncle at home. The daughters-in-law that my grandfather married to his son were all smart, and the eldest mother and mother didn't say anything. After I got married, I learned from other people's mouths that my grandmother was my grandmother, surnamed Yang, and my grandfather found it himself, but she was smart. This uncle was born to Grandpa and Grandma Yang.

I don't know what my grandfather's name is, and I don't know it now, when I was a child, I heard people in the tunzi call him "Xue Foreign", and I slowly learned these things. My grandfather lived a long life and lived to be eighty-seven. In the years when he ran away from marriage, Russia was in turmoil, and after more than ten years, Russia was renamed the Soviet Union.