These setbacks and the past can be said to be the most unforgettable experience in Wuji's life, or these experiences have completely changed him as a person.

He himself could not deny this.

This denial also means that before these things, he was just a person who thought he was capable, but his ability was only like that, as he said before.

Negative is another affirmation, this is a long time ago Wuji was just as young, he also has the characteristics of a young man.

It can't be said that he is old after what happened, at least that's what Wuji himself thinks.

Although this time passed, he had to admit it later.

These feelings about time and the retrospective of memories are always easy to make people sentimental and at the same time, they also have very complicated feelings.

Wuji also felt it silently in his heart, and quickly became more emotional.

After all, he is now facing his own daughter, a daughter who may have to carry this family one day.

This is cruel to the dialect, but there is nothing Wuji can do about it himself.

Many times Wuji feels that he has a lot of things to say to the dialect, and there are many things to explain to the dialect, but when his sister feels that the time is right, he always has no clue, and in the end, he ends up in the dialect many times with an inexplicable look.

This time, it is rare for the two to communicate so much at one time.

Although there are many things that are not at home, and there are many things that are story-based, Wuji just likes this feeling.

Wuji continued: "It is said that it is easy to start a family, to put it bluntly, it is very simple for you to break up, but if you want to start again, it is too difficult, they seem to understand this truth, so they insist on continuing, but the premise of persistence is that I need to nod." ”

Fang Yan said: "I think this is very good, I feel that people like you can always raise their heads again in the face of such difficulties, and they can also get up again, they all say that some people are born extraordinary, I think Dad, you are such a person." ”

Wuji only smiled bitterly, he didn't want to lie to the dialect about these things.

Wuji said: "Actually, your father was not as perfect as you imagined, although I said before that I tried my best to do things with the conscience of heaven and earth, and at the same time, I was also doing things with a clear conscience when I was in the realm of despair, which sounds like a good image." ”

"But in fact, at that time, your father and I reached that point, to put it bluntly, I was almost a person with nothing, and I simply didn't want to lose even the most basic dignity as a person in that kind of situation."

"Of course, this dignity does not mean the humiliating dignity of the tiger falling to Pingyang, but I feel that I should not owe anything to anyone, and that feeling of having a clear conscience is a kind of insistence on my own dignity at that time."

"Generally speaking, in fact, your father was actually very simple at the beginning, which led to the fact that when I was faced with this situation, the actions and words and deeds of those friends at that time looked really inspirational and inspiring, but as a person concerned, if my temper exploded a little, I might go berserk on the spot."

Fang Yan was puzzled: "That is, Dad, you were actually not very willing at that time?" ”

Wuji smiled bitterly and said: "In terms of the situation at that time, your father could be regarded as bankrupt and wanted to do things, and in the end he lost money, that's right, the reason why he is not a dead man is because your father still has the confidence to face his future life, this is what I said before." ”

"After your uncle and uncle helped me at that time, in fact, my general situation can be regarded as stable, and it can be regarded as getting rid of many troublesome things at that time, that is, if I gave up directly at that time, the rest of the days will be to do my own things and do what I can in peace."

"Struggle in the family business, work harder, work harder, it won't take too long, and your father can pay off some debts, and after all this is settled, become a family, and then live an ordinary life, so it can be regarded as the most documented idea."

Wuji said and sighed: "People want to live a stable life is actually a relatively luxurious pursuit, in fact, there are not many people in this society who can really live a stable life, unless there is a fruitful adventure when they are young, and this time when the old children can take charge of themselves, those days should be the most stable days." ”

"This is like me now, like your fourth uncle and your fourth aunt, and like your uncle and second uncle, they and I are like this, and at my age at that time, this idea may have been caused by what I experienced at the time, but in fact, I actually made that choice at that time, and the result may not be the same."

Seeing that Wuji's words were halfway gone, Fang Yan reminded: "Dad, can you explain why your friends dissuaded you at that time, why you sounded very reluctant?" ”

Wuji then reacted, the things he experienced during that time had a great impact on his life, and many times when he thought of these things, he was a little uneasy, that is, the whole person's mind would be involved in it, let alone talking about these things with this kind of divine thought.

Wuji said: "That's because I did it under the condition that I had the conditions and foundation, and I got to that point, and when this matter was about to end, you said let me do it again?" In terms of my mood and state of mind at the time, I thought it was a very ridiculous and difficult thing to do. ”

"It's like you've been tortured because of something, and you've paid a lot to bear the consequences, and it's like this thing is going to be settled in the end, and when it's about to end, suddenly someone proposes that you do this kind of thing again, what kind of mood and attitude do you think your dad would have at that time?"

"It's just an example, and you're just listening, plus you're still young, maybe you don't feel too deeply, but as far as I was concerned, one of the results I was able to tell you was that if I chose to do it all over again before I knew what was going on, it was likely that I would have gone down that path of despair to the extreme."

"Although I haven't reached the point of no return, I really understood what kind of point it is at that time."