0042 Speak the truth
Hearing this, Xiaohuan's heart became more and more springy, and her whole heart began to beat wildly. There was an urge to jump into Lu Xiaoyu's arms.
Seeing Xiaohuan's expression, Lu Xiaoyu was very proud, it seemed that this place had become two worlds, on one side was the quarrel between Chen Rou and Chen Qing, and on the other hand, Lu Xiaoyu and Xiaohuan's eyebrows were flirting.
Lu Xiaoyu drank all the tea, Xiaohuan poured another cup and handed it to him, who knew that Chen Qing grabbed it at this time and drank it in one gulp.
It seemed that the two of them were arguing with dry mouths, and after a truce, Chen Qing looked at Lu Xiaoyu sideways and said, "Sir, why don't you say a few words for me?" ”
"Hehe..." laughed, Lu Xiaoyu waved his hand silently, and continued to look at Xiaohuan.
Xiaohuan turned his head and glanced at Lu Xiaoyu with some complaint, as if to say, "Don't look at me like this in front of the young ladies..."
Lu Xiaoyu poured himself a cup of tea and drank it with a smile, but found that Chen Rou and Chen Qing were both looking at him viciously.
"See what I do? Do you continue to argue? Lu Xiaoyu said viciously at this time.
His voice was loud and loud, and the ears of those present were ringing. These women must not be intimidated by them, and if they have a vicious face, then they must be more vicious than they are, or they will gain an inch.
Chen Rou and Chen Qing both shook their bodies, and seemed to be frightened by Lu Xiaoyu, Lu Xiaoyu continued: "Is there anything that the two sisters can't talk about well? As for being so noisy as soon as we meet? ”
Lu Xiaoyu first said to Chen Qing: "What's the matter with you? She's your sister, can't you respect her? Why do you talk to her like that? What is it about her that she doesn't do for your good? Even if you don't like how good she treats you, you don't have to protest by arguing. ”
Lu Xiaoyu has a kind of domineering spirit in his body, and when he said these words at this time, Chen Qing didn't dare to refute it at all.
Then Lu Xiaoyu said to Chen Rou again: "What's the matter with you being a sister?" Do you understand what communication is? There is obviously something wrong with the way you treat your sister, why don't you reflect on it? As soon as we meet, we quarrel, and if this continues, the two of you sisters will definitely turn against each other..."
The two women were said by Lu Xiaoyu with a look of grievance on their faces, and they didn't dare to refute, Lu Xiaoyu was like an elder teaching a child, and what he said made some sense, which made both of them look sideways at this time, sulking.
Seeing this, Lu Xiaoyu's voice softened a little and said, "Two young ladies, I need to have a good talk with the two of you today, and let the two of you talk to each other, so that the knot between the two of them can be opened and reconciled." ”
Seeing Lu Xiaoyu say this, Chen Rou turned her face around, listened attentively, and looked at her pious, thinking that she especially wanted to ease the relationship between her and her sister.
My sister Chen Qing was not sulking, and looked at Lu Xiaoyu at this time, wanting to hear what Lu Xiaoyu wanted to say.
Lu Xiaoyu handed the empty cup to Xiaohuan and motioned her to pour tea, Xiaohuan lifted the pot to pour tea, and the water fell into the cup with a bang, only to see Lu Xiaoyu say: "The good is like water, and the water is not disputed..."
To put it simply, a person's best quality is like water, nourishing all things without selfishness.
Chen Rou didn't know what Lu Xiaoyu meant by mentioning this, and immediately said, "What do you want to say?" ”
"What I want to say is that you can never have the quality of water..."
Chen Rou nodded, she agreed with Lu Xiaoyu's statement.
"Since people can't achieve the same quality as water, then only by constantly improving themselves and letting themselves slowly approach the quality of water..."
"The so-called self-cultivation and family rule the country and the world, the country needs good management to be strong, the family needs continuous management to be harmonious, and itself needs continuous learning and change to improve."
After saying a long sentence all of a sudden, Lu Xiaoyu was a little thirsty, and this pot of tea was drunk, so he motioned for Xiaohuan to make a pot.
"Sir, are you saying I need to make a change?"
"Yes... In order for your relationship with your sister to improve, both of you need to change. ”
Chen Rou: "But how can you change your personality by just talking about it?" ”
Xiaohuan said while making tea: "As the saying goes, dogs can't change eating, personality is this thing..."Before she finished speaking, she felt that something was wrong, dogs can't change eating, isn't it said that Chen Rou and the two sisters are dogs? She hurriedly "baba" a few times, and muttered, "My mouth is twitching again..."
Lu Xiaoyu said: "This is a bad statement, it's not that the character can't be changed, as long as there is a scientific method, it is actually very simple to change." ”
"What is science?" Chen Rou asked.
The word science had not yet been born in this era, so Lu Xiaoyu had no choice but to explain: "Science is actually a kind of science that explores nature. ”
Chen Qing: "Is it easy to change yourself with this kind of knowledge?" ”
Lu Xiaoyu nodded with an "um" and said, "As long as you are willing to change..."
Lu Xiaoyu really started to teach classes for the two of them like a teacher at this time, I remember that when I was in college, I studied business administration, and there is a theory in organizational behavior, called: Maslow's hierarchy of needs. This theory mainly talks about the five major needs of people - physiological needs, safety needs, social needs, respect needs, and self-realization needs. He wants to change his words and deeds by letting Chen Rou and Chen Qing fully understand people's needs, know how to empathize, understand and empathize.
Lu Xiaoyu said: "People have five major needs, the first is physiological needs. ”
Looking at the expressions of the two Chen Rou sisters, they knew that they didn't understand what he meant by physiological needs, so they explained: "Physiological needs are a series of innate needs such as eating, drinking, pulling, spreading, sleeping, etc. ”
As soon as they said this, the two of them understood, and Chen Qing said: "Breathing is also a physiological need..."
"Well, that's right... The second lady is really smart. ”
Lu Xiaoyu then told them that he needed to explain these five needs thoroughly, so that they could deeply understand what people's basic needs are.
"The Second Need ......... Man" (10,000 words omitted here)
A pillar of incense time passes...
Lu Xiaoyu's mouth was dry, but fortunately, Xiaohuan's tea continued, and he hurriedly drank a cup at this time, only to hear Chen Qing say: "Sister, you must meet my social needs, I am sixteen years old, I need to explore this world, instead of being under your protection all the time, you don't love me like this, but harm me." ”
Lu Xiaoyu gave a thumbs up, happy that she was able to apply what she had learned.
Chen Rou said at this time: "Then you also have to meet my need to be respected, some of my requirements for you are actually for your good, you don't keep going against me, be considerate of my sister, it has not been easy for me over the years." "I felt like I was about to cry as I spoke.