Unrequited love

[Part 1]: Encyclopedia entry: unrequited love

Unrequited love refers to the love and affection between a man and a woman who is only one-sided. It is also a metaphor for only one of the two parties to have a desire or passion. Unrequited love is a preparatory stage for love, but it is also possible to stay in such a state completely and not get the necessary development. Unrequited love is also a state of mind that most people experience. Unrequited love is not a disease, but excessive unrequited love can lead to a serious psychological disorder and become unrequited love.

[Part 2: Case Study of the Psychological Research Department]

Experimental investigation process: First, the unrequited love experience of each member of the Psychological Research Department is recorded, and then the unrequited love experience of students in all grades of the school, and even people outside the school.

Experimental results (conclusions):

[1] Most first loves start with unrequited love

Unrequited love is often the trigger point for first love. We know that unrequited love is common in children, but it is childish and does not cause serious psychological disorder symptoms. In the initial stage of puberty, boys and girls are in love, and they often choose outstanding people of the opposite sex in life or in movies and television as their idols to admire and pursue. At this stage. Unrequited love can be said to have few scruples and a lot of blindness, and it is also prone to psychological problems.

Analysis: According to the unrequited love experience of the president Ji Shen, it can be seen that the president's first love is a tragic history of unrequited love (Ji Shen: Don't hack me!). )

[2] The irrationalization of unrequited love

Unrequited lovers are always wishful thinking, completely disregarding the feelings of the other person, quite like some of the characteristics of a narcissistic personality.

Analysis: 1 Based on a classmate's irrational narcissistic unrequited love (@裘千人)

2 According to the blackened unrequited love of a certain schoolgirl's fruit knife.....

[3] The distress of unrequited love comes from cowardice and fantasy

Everyone always has an unrequited love before falling in love, but most people either woo directly, or realize the impracticality of this love and change direction, while people who suffer from lovesickness drown themselves in a sea of misery and cannot extricate themselves.

People with unrequited love like to indulge in fantasies, and they are less likely to take practical and effective actions in relationships. Their fantasies have a tendency to exaggerate each other and belittle themselves, which is a bad way of thinking.

Analysis: A large number of questionnaires in the Department of Psychological Research confirm that this is indeed true, and it can also be confirmed from the experience of a certain schoolgirl.

[Unrequited love is partially completed]

Appendix: [Criminal Psychopathological Psychological Defense Mechanism]

(Reverse Psychology)

Encyclopedia: When the heart encounters unacceptable impulses or conflicts that violate social norms, the true intention is lurked into the subconscious, and an attitude or behavior that is completely opposite to the desire. This mechanism is abnormal and can lead to personality change, emotionality, masochistic tendencies, obsessive-compulsive disorder, stress disorder, sexual dysfunction, multiple personality, etc.

Analysis: The director of the Psychological Research Department has risked his death.

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Unrequited Love--Done!