"Actually, I'm here to meet the woman's parents this time."

The more they talked, the more Jiang Xiaohan revealed, but no matter what, Jiang Xiaohan never pierced the last layer of window paper.

Square peg.

Don't look at the old man who is very kind now, if he knew that Jiang Xiaohan's so-called girlfriend was his own granddaughter, he would have done it to Jiang Xiaohan on the spot.

If nothing else, the idea of beating up is definitely there.

It's just that now, when I heard Jiang Xiaohan say that he came to see his parents, Old Man Zhao was concerned.

When he asked, Jiang Xiaohan said slightly "shyly": "I haven't officially come to the door yet, after all, it's the first time, and we're still in school now, I'm afraid of ......"

In front of Old Man Zhao, Jiang Xiaohan expressed his worries and concerns.

When the old man heard this, he immediately waved his hand to stop Jiang Xiaohan from continuing, and said: "These are all trivial matters, what age is it now, even parents must respect their children's choices, after all, love is free." ”

Old Man Zhao did not look down on Jiang Xiaohan because of his distress and worry and hesitation.

On the contrary, in the old man's opinion, even though Jiang Xiaohan has some concerns in his heart, he still dares to come to the door at this juncture, which is definitely a manifestation of responsibility.

It is precisely because of his nervousness about his girlfriend that Jiang Xiaohan will be worried.

may be because of the very good chat with Jiang Xiaohan, when the old man looked at the problem, he had unconsciously stood on Jiang Xiaohan's side and comforted him.

As a person who has come over, Old Man Zhao feels that he still has to see more clearly than Jiang Xiaohan, a young man, and he doesn't mind explaining it appropriately at this time.

"The old man is right, so I'm already planning to pay an official visit in the next few days." It seems that after listening to Old Man Zhao's words, Jiang Xiaohan was very encouraged.

"Just look at it."

Faced with Jiang Xiaohan's reaction, Old Man Zhao said that he was very satisfied.

Not only did he listen to his own words, but also because Jiang Xiaohan was very angry with himself, and Old Man Zhao's gaze at Jiang Xiaohan became more and more satisfied.

Children can be taught.

"However, in addition to being responsible, you must also be good at using your strengths." Old Man Zhao nodded again.

"Oh? How so? ”

Jiang Xiaohan was a little surprised.

This time, I didn't pretend, but I was really surprised.

Jiang Xiaohan didn't expect the old man to talk to him so much about this, and for what he said about making good use of his advantages, Jiang Xiaohan couldn't fully understand what he wanted to express for a while.

"What do you think of your advantage now?"

"What?"

Jiang Xiaohan was a little confused.

Handsome?

Young?

Rich?

Charismatic?

Or......

Jiang Xiaohan thought about it a lot, but in the end he couldn't help but look at the old man suspiciously.

"Cooking!"

Old Man Zhao hated iron and steel: "It's a smart boy, why don't you open up at this time?" ”

Jiang Xiaohan was a little confused.

I only heard that the old man glanced at Jiang Xiaohan with an unfathomable face, and then said proudly: "Do you think, on the day of the official visit, why don't you take advantage of your advantages and take the lead?" ”

"What's the preemptive method?"

Jiang Xiaohan humbly asked.

He didn't know what tricks the old man would have.

"Since you want to come to the door, you must show your truest and best side, not only to satisfy the other party's elders, but also to let the other party rest assured that he will give you a ...... of his daughter's toefl."

“…… In the past, it was an advantage for women to be able to cook, but now, being able to cook is also an advantage for boys, and it can also be used as an entry point for the woman's elders to further understand and agree with you......

"Remember, don't be too deliberate, try to be as natural as possible, and ......"

“……”

Sitting obediently on the side, Jiang Xiaohan listened to the old man's every word humbly, nodded in agreement from time to time, and looked at his appearance of benefiting a lot, so he almost took out a small notebook and took notes on the spot.

Listening to the old man's words, Jiang Xiaohan did have a feeling of clearing the clouds.

Before this, Jiang Xiaohan didn't think of these things at all.

The old man's trick inadvertently turned passive into active, which is really convincing.

"Just like this, won't it make people feel noisy and rude?"

When the old man said something about the same, Jiang Xiaohan raised a question very modestly.

Regarding Jiang Xiaohan's question, Old Man Zhao didn't feel too surprised, but nodded with satisfaction, because Jiang Xiaohan was able to ask this question, which means that he listened to what he just said.

"It depends on how you do it, which has to be mentioned."

The old man thought for a while and said, "First of all, you must first correct your attitude, be upright, be polite, and let the woman's parents feel your respect and respect for them.

After the attitude is correct, you must also be clear about what to do and what not to do, and you must not do anything that is overstepping.

With this premise, then the situation you just feared will basically not occur.

You have to think like this, showing your cooking skills in the woman's house is actually doing these things as a future son-in-law, and you have to substitute your own identity into it, so that not only will it not make people feel that you are dominating, but it may make it easier for the woman's elders to accept you.

At the end of the day, if you want to get past them, you have to pass your own level. ”

"Old man, I have been taught."

Jiang Xiaohan was really convinced.

This old man's angle of looking at the problem is really sharp, and even the entry point is eye-catching.

Assume the role in advance.

Know how to advance and retreat, and grasp a just right measure.

Attitude, politeness.

And......

It's really to the point, and it makes people suddenly realize.

"There's one more problem."

Looking at Old Man Zhao with some embarrassment, Jiang Xiaohan continued to ask, "They have a bit of a family, how should I deal with it then?" ”

Next, after listening to Jiang Xiaohan explain the situation in general, Old Man Zhao didn't think much about it, so he said directly: "It's actually very simple, things are not as complicated as you think, you just need to figure out who is the key." ”

As if he was afraid that he would not understand enough, Old Man Zhao emphasized: "In short, whoever in the woman's family has the final say, you just have to deal with that person, and the rest does not affect the overall situation."

To use an idiom, that is, the thief captures the king first! ”

"Capture the thief and capture the king first?"

Jiang Xiaohan looked at Old Man Zhao with some uncertainty, and the look on his face was inexplicable when he thought that this sentence came out of his mouth.