Chapter 136 Communication is important, IQ is even more important
Otherwise, some people have eaten more salt than you have walked, and Liumao didn't realize that he had any problems, but Zhang Dafu immediately saw the problem when he saw Liumao, and instantly found a solution to the problem for Liumao.
Of course, Zhang Dafu knows what Liumao is facing at the moment, not to mention that Liumao has already talked to Zhang Dafu all the way, even if Liumao just briefly mentioned two words to him on the road, and didn't even say anything, but Zhang Dafu would also know what Liumao was doing looking for him.
In fact, it's very simple, not to mention Zhang Dafu, even if you change to Bai Hua, if you change to anyone with a little experience, you can understand what the purpose of Liumao suddenly came to the door at this moment.
Usually there is no contact, which proves that he is not a talkative person at all, and Zhang Dafu has no time to talk to him, and the three-month appointment time has not yet arrived, so at this moment Liumao came to the door in addition to asking for help, what else can he have?
And knowing his purpose, is his business important? How can they say that this is their business, and it is not their own business, how can they make themselves feel important?
However, no matter whether he wants to help him or not, he maintains a calm and cold attitude but helps him again, because the greater force of anything itself still depends on itself, and the force that outsiders can help exert in the past is only a little bit, otherwise, once the force to help them is great, then it is not helping him, but pulling out the seedlings to help them grow, pulling out the seedlings and pulling the seedlings. Of course, sometimes they just need a little bit of force to help them, but many times they often help a little more, or help a little less, and they can't just grasp that degree every time, and this degree is the most important, so it will be easier to achieve this degree by staying calm and indifferent, because of control.
Besides, if the person who is helping the other person can't stay calm, can't be calm, then how can you help him?
As for why if you don't want to help the other party, maintaining a cold and calm attitude is also helping him, in fact, if you think about it, it's very simple, think about it, originally Liumao rushed over with great interest and risked his life to ask for help, but Zhang Dafu was very cold and cold, so that Liumao didn't even say anything and decisively refused, and didn't even think about what Liumao was going to say next, and Zhang Dafu, who thought he could help himself, Teacher Zhang, But the result was that the reality gave Liumao a big mouth, Zhang Dafu, his teacher Zhang didn't want to help him at all, and refused in advance without even letting him say anything, so what kind of impact will this give Liumao? Liumao's anxious mood suddenly flew to the Antarctic ice cave and fell into the ice cellar, even if the fire in Liumao's heart still wanted to stand up and rise a few times, but if the ice of the ice cave was cold, how could he not let him calm down a little first before saying anything else?
If the flame wants to hurt others, it must be a raging fire, it must spread out a very wide range, and it must first hurt itself and hurt others, but if the ice wants to hurt others, it is condensed and gathered bit by bit, and the cold temperature that is superimposed by the collection of points can hurt others, and holding the handle that is also condensed is not very cold can make the ice only use it as its own weapon, only hurting others and not hurting itself.
Therefore, if you want to get rid of things safely, then you can only calm down, let all your emotions condense, gather into ice, and gather into a weapon in your hand, use this weapon to attack, to defend your firmness, so that bad things can no longer affect yourself, but can only be used as nourishment for your own growth.
So if you want to be safe and sound, then don't let yourself get angry, let yourself be angry, even if you are angry, even if you are very angry, but how much flame can spread out of your body? Even if all of them come out in a concentrated manner, they may not be able to burn a hole or light a cigarette, let alone let it spread around, and when you see a person or an object, you will sprinkle a little fire and gas out, and how can you burn it except for yourself, others, and other things?
It is precisely when he sees that Liumao is in a hurry to come over, Zhang Dafu will cool him down first, otherwise, if Zhang Dafu is also affected by Liumao's emotions, then even if he wants to help him in his heart, in fact, he can only help.
Although Zhang Dafu is not very satisfied with Liumao, a registered disciple, and even although he said that he would teach him well in these three months, which is a reward for his good fate, he has not taught Liumao much so far, of course, in Zhang Dafu's concept, everything still has to rely on the initiative, since Liumao didn't rush to ask for advice, then Zhang Dafu naturally won't take the initiative to explain anything to him, and it's nothing more than to get some information, and then just say a few words casually when you think of it. So from Zhang Dafu's point of view, he doesn't feel that he is so wrong with Liumao, can't he force Liumao to come over in these three months, and then teach him all the things he knows whether he wants or not?
Hehe, forget it, if you ask a teacher for advice, if you need the teacher to take the initiative to assign homework and take the initiative to supervise and supervise, then don't say that Liumao is just a registered disciple, even if he is his own personal disciple, Zhang Dafu will not do this to him, he is even more tired.
However, this does not mean that Zhang Dafu is a teacher, the master is not responsible for the students and disciples, on the contrary, Zhang Dafu is a person who is very responsible for his students and disciples, Xiao Liuzi does not mention that he follows him all day long, but although his other disciple does not follow him all day, although in Zhang Dafu's mouth, his disciple is always not very good, and he always feels that he is not satisfied here and incompetent there, but in fact, his disciple is a person from the Imperial Dining Hall of the Xingyu Empire, and he is also the chief physician of the Imperial Dining Hall.
I didn't expect it, Liumao didn't expect that when he made a three-month apprenticeship agreement with Zhang Dafu last time, he began to get to know Zhang Dafu's two disciples specifically, and wanted to worship Zhang Dafu as a teacher, if the two disciples around him didn't know who they were and didn't know what they did, then how could Liumao have a good relationship with them, and let them say good things about themselves, or not exclude themselves from becoming Zhang Dafu's disciples?
Zhang Dafu's eldest disciple is called Wang Qianyu, he is not like Zhang Dafu's second disciple Xiao Liuzi has been following Zhang Dafu since he was more than ten years old because he was run into halfway because he was fleeing, but he only began to meet Zhang Dafu when he was twenty years old and just graduated from the school, and his situation is not much better than Xiao Liuzi, Xiao Liuzi was met when he fled without food or drink, but although he ate and drank, and was still a cultural person, but he was unlucky to run into robbers, not only robbed his bags and water bags, Even the clothes on his body were almost snatched, no way, the layer of clothing wrapped in leather bags worn by the scholar is still very stylish, although it is not worth a few dollars, but these robbers also want to wear it on themselves to rub the light of the reader.
It's a pity that the situation of these robbers is also not very good, they met Zhang Dafu and Xiao Liuzi who came over, and Xiao Liuzi has been with Zhang Dafu for four or five years at the moment, and has practiced a good martial arts, seeing that there are robbers who are evil, no need to ask Zhang Dafu anymore, he rushed up decisively, and the clean and smooth swishing twice made these robbers can only fall to the ground and moan, and Wang Qiyu, whose clothes are about to be stripped naked, also retained the last dignity, and there is no only pants left in the public.
Then because Wang Qiyu's age was a few years older than the younger six sons, they later officially worshipped Zhang Dafu as their teacher, and they were divided into disciples according to age.
And Liumao finally looked at the results and found that the two of them seemed to have turned on the invincible mode since they met Zhang Dafu, and when they didn't meet Zhang Dafu, Xiao Liuzi was a refugee who fled, and he was also a thin child with no support and no strengths, but he met Zhang Dafu, and he showed his talent for practicing martial arts in just one year, oh, it should be said that it was not talent, but diligence, it was he who exchanged nearly twenty hours of diligence a day for his talent on the road of martial arts, until now I heard that he is already one of the top ten masters of the Star Empire, Of course, this is only the list of those who are over fifty years old, and it is not the ranking of all the masters of the Star Empire, but this achievement is enough to make him proud and proud.
As for Wang Qiyu, although he was already a scholar before he met Zhang Dafu, and he was still a scholar equivalent to a real undergraduate graduate, but if it weren't for Zhang Dafu, he would still be a distant dream for him when he was standing in the position of chief physician of the Xingyu Empire's Imperial Canteen.
One person is fine, but both of them are like this, after Liumao learned about their experience, although there are obviously a lot of unheard news in the middle, but the difference between the two of them can clearly make people see that if it weren't for Zhang Dafu's help and teaching to the two, how could the two of them get to this point with their own conditions?
There are more people who are more powerful than the two of them, but why can they finally make achievements, but the living conditions are better than them, and the people who are stronger than them in terms of knowledge are still not as good as them in the end? The answer is very simple, it's not that the two of them are powerful, but that the two of them are with the right person, and they become very powerful with Zhang Dafu, a powerful person.
And it was precisely when he heard these things again that Liumao became more determined to worship Zhang Dafu as a teacher. Because only by following someone as powerful as Zhang Dafu can he become more powerful.
So isn't it responsible to take the two of them from refugees to the top ten young masters, and from nerds to Zhang Dafu, the chief physician of the imperial dining room, as a teacher?
Of course not, although Liumao has not contacted Zhang Dafu much, but Liumao is still Zhang Dafu's registered disciple after all, and Zhang Dafu has always adhered to kindness-oriented, otherwise Xiao Liuzi followed Zhang Dafu and finally encountered something but would not have become a person who didn't even ask him, and began to rescue Wang Qiyu, which is obviously that Xiao Liuzi knows Zhang Dafu's attitude, and has long been used to it, and has become aware that this kind of thing is simply superfluous, so other Liumao didn't hear anything, but can't Zhang Dafu's kindness be seen from here? Therefore, of course, Zhang Dafu will sincerely help Liumao through the current predicament.
In fact, Liumao is a little too one-sided and too simple to think of Zhang Dafu, or to think of everyone.
It is true that many people, if not all people, are selfish and selfish, but everyone is selfish and more selfless at the same time.
Think about how many people have reached out to strangers. Do the math, how many people have really dealt with you? Perhaps many people only remember that there is selflessness only in the face of disasters, but in fact, when friends, colleagues, and strangers ask you to borrow a bottle of water and ask for directions, isn't this selfless? Don't just see, just remember the greatness in the face of disasters, greatness starts from a small age.
In life, it is not to demand the selflessness of others, not to pursue the selflessness of others, but to selflessly drive others to be selfless, but to selflessly pursue the selflessness of others.
No one will always be selfless to you alone, no one will be able to endure your selfishness all the time and remain selfless to you. If you don't give your selflessness to others first, how can you be qualified to ask others to give you selflessness? And our selflessness often starts from childhood, are normal people, if it is not at the beginning of the establishment of trust, from sending greetings, to sending water, to giving gifts, and finally to sending warmth, the world is so realistic, how can you ask others to be selfless to you at the beginning, and it is still a lot of selflessness, and for the usual bottle of water, say hello but don't take it seriously at all?
But this is the reality, everyone is guarding against other people's selfishness, everyone is restraining their selflessness, many times not to mention sending a bottle of water to someone in need, I am afraid that I am unwilling to say hello to him!
And the reality is like this, not to mention the six cents who are used to seeing reality, crawling in the garbage heap every day, working hard all day for a few cents of income, always guarding against the snatching of others, vigilant against the price reduction of the acquirer, and accustomed to these realities, even though Liumao has changed a lot in the game at the moment, how can he change his thinking, that is, he feels that everything can be emotional, that is, he thinks that Zhang Dafu will not help his named disciple at all?
No, Liumao has not yet reached the legendary realm, he only knows that if he finds someone to help, then he will not come up with the corresponding remuneration, let alone a small registered disciple, even if it is a personal disciple, what about it? No matter how close the disciple is, he is also someone else, and life is his own, and life needs resources, and it takes a lot of resources to be able to live and live a better life.
Therefore, Liumao saw that Zhang Dafu had told him all the way about the matter, but after coming here, he still asked himself very carefully, as if he had just told him nothing at all. Come on, Liumao originally had this plan, and he had prepared a good gift to ask Zhang Dafu to help with the need, but now when he sees Zhang Dafu like this, he still doesn't know what Zhang Dafu is doing, he is simply reminding himself to take out the gift quickly, otherwise he knows his own situation, and he sees that he is so eager that he even speaks a little incoherently, but he still has to let himself be patient and carefully explain the matter again from beginning to end.
No longer hesitated, he said directly to Zhang Dafu, Master, don't you need Grand Master-level honey, I have something here that can produce Great Grandmaster-level honey in batches, and this thing is not only able to produce Grandmaster-level honey in batches, it is also a god-level item, that is, the spiritual spring water in this cup in my hand, the effect master can take a look at it first, and I took out this thing in the rain beehive, there are many more, but with my current situation, I can't give it to your hands, master, look?
Zhang Dafu heard Liumao suddenly say this, but he suddenly understood, and couldn't help sighing in his heart, this Liumao is also a capable person!
Look, Zhang Dafu wants Liumao to calm down and then say, not that he doesn't want to help Liumao, and he wants Liumao to come forward to help him, but Liumao doesn't know, Liumao still thinks that Zhang Dafu's move is actually reminding people to ask for help and not to show the sincerity to ask for help, so why should others help you?
In many cases, there is a lack of communication between people, and many times they are unable to understand what the other party is expressing, which makes the final result deviate from the original track.
So communication is very important, it allows us to know what the other person thinks, let us know what he is doing, but IQ is more important, it allows us to understand what the other person is doing, and what he is expressing. Just like if Liumao is often in the same position as Zhang Dafu, just like if Liumao has the same IQ as Zhang Dafu, how can he still make such an oolong move?