After Duan Cubzi heard the news from Boss Fan that Liumao was very good, he had the idea of wanting to confront him, all in all, if there is one person who can help, then it will be much better than one person working hard. Just like myself at the beginning, if I wasn't alone at the time, what kind of big coffee would I be afraid of them? The big coffee is powerful, but he already had a very good start at that time, not to mention a big coffee, even two or three of them will not be afraid of anything.

But because there is no one around to help, and they are not two by two, but all of them are rushing up, even if they have a good start at the beginning and get a very sharp weapon, they are still not lonely, and the hungry tiger can't withstand the wolves?

It is precisely because of this realization that Duan Cub will now show some reality, because what he needs is someone who can help him, or someone who is useful, otherwise the hungry tiger is already very tired and desperate in the face of the wolves, and with a little guy who is dragging his feet as a companion, what can he do except share the already small amount of energy? It's better to save some energy and find more people who can help you.

So Duan Cub threw away his help to Liumao, (because when he saw that Liumao was very similar to himself, and he also faced life from scratch, he had the idea of pulling him along.) But later I found that Liumao was not the same as I imagined, so I gradually lost this idea and began to leave Liumao and distance myself from him. I just have this attitude towards Liumao, but now I hear that Liumao is even better than himself, so in the end, Liumao is still very grateful to himself, and he or not took this opportunity to let Liumao help him? Anyway, now he has the ability, and he has a lot of gratitude to himself.

Can people really do that? Thinking of Liumao's goodness like Duan Cub, if he thinks he is useful, he will come over and slap him, and if he thinks he is useless, he will distance himself from him, no matter what he says or does, he is disgusted, he is so cold to people and licks his face to make others forget his reality, his cold-bloodedness, and he wants people to remain enthusiastic about him, and he thinks of him in everything, and helps him in everything, do you think it should be? Is it reasonable?

No one will always be good to you, ask others to be good to you unconditionally, ask yourself if you are worthy of the other party's good to you, people are mutual, you are realistic to me, but you want me to be emotional to you, may I ask what are you me? How can you have this confidence?

However, it is difficult to be a good person, it is difficult to be a good person, and it is even more difficult to refuse a good person. It is precisely because it is difficult to refuse, in the face of their sudden enthusiasm, they will forget or ignore the indifference of the other party, and they are forced to agree to the other party's enthusiasm in the way, and it is precisely this kind of promise that makes it more and more difficult for good people to do.

I don't know how Liumao will treat such a Duan cub, but Duan cub can get rid of the big coffee and take root in the animal husbandry industry and get a name, which shows that his IQ is at least very good, and even very good, otherwise how could he be able to take the lead in front of these industry bigwigs.

So how could Duan Cub, who has such an IQ, be cold to him if he wants to be cold, and catch up with him if he wants to stammer, and don't know the hypocrisy hidden in it at all?

Duan Cub is very realistic, but he doesn't talk about the useless Liumao, at least from the current point of view, he is more thoughtful about the useful Liumao, at least he knows that he can't let Liumao feel his reality.

It's much better to do everything in a planned way and step by step than to do it without a clue. I saw that Duan Cub arranged the plan like this,

Plan 1, come to Boss Fan to tell him the location of the Liumao store, and then wait in a corner, and when he comes out, he happens to go up and pretend to see Liumao inadvertently, and then Liumao will definitely greet himself, and then talk about Liumao's store, and then pretend to be surprised and praise Liumao, and then naturally enter the Liumao store, and then get acquainted.

Pros: Pretending, just right. This will not make Liumao feel disgusted, and then he can quickly get acquainted with Liumao, and he will quickly achieve his goal.

Cons: waiting, location. In this way, I am very uncertain when Liumao will come out, or whether there will be anything important to deal with after Liumao comes out, and I don't notice myself at all or don't have time to talk to myself a lot. At the same time, he needs to find a more suitable reason to explain why he is here, and how to change his attitude towards Liumao after seeing Liumao's store will also be a problem, after all, it can't make Liumao feel that he is very enthusiastic about him because he sees his current achievements.

Plan 2, find a place where Liumao often goes, and then pretend to meet Liumao in this place, and then pretend that he still doesn't want to pay attention to Liumao because of various illnesses and bad livestock in his hands, but he thinks that after all, he has known Liumao for a long time, and then symbolically cares about Liumao's current situation, if he says it truthfully, then he can directly pretend to be surprised and praise him, and envy him. Then things will naturally go where you want them to be. But he may not necessarily tell himself the truth about his current real situation, otherwise if he really wanted to tell himself, he would have told himself about his current achievements as he is, instead of trying to find a suitable and natural reason to stammer like now. So in this case, even if he and he have become a little deeper after this encounter, but for himself, the speed of completing the goal depends entirely on Liumao himself, if he is very attentive to himself, then he will naturally quickly find an opportunity to help promote himself, but if he is not very attentive to himself, then when he will help promote himself depends entirely on his mood, when he is free, and his mood is better, he will help promote himself, he is very busy at any time, or his mood is more chaotic and irritable, Then this idea of wanting to help promote himself will be postponed indefinitely, and he can't control it at all, so he can only passively listen to his arrangement.

Advantages: Serendipity, safety. In this way, it is not easy for Liumao to find out that he is deliberately waiting here, but thinks that it is really a coincidence that they can meet each other here. At the same time, he inadvertently revealed his concern for Liumao, which would seem very real and there was no hypocrisy.

Cons: Passive, slow. But also because of being reserved, because of paying attention to his own image, if he wants to achieve his own goals, he will be developed by the other party independently, not that he will break the window paper with the other party all of a sudden, and become very direct, but he can only passively wait for him to remember, so even if he is willing to help him achieve his goal, this progress will be very slow.

Plan three, send a message directly to Liumao, ask him to go somewhere, and then say that the livestock in his hands are much better, remembering that the previous attitude towards Liumao did not seem to be very good, so he was a little reluctant to go, so he wanted to ask him out to chat. Or tell him directly and simply that the situation is getting worse and worse, and you want to find someone to come out and chat, and talk about the depression, irritability, sorrow and other negative emotions that have accumulated in your heart for many days. Then go to a tavern or something, and ask him if he would like to accompany his brother out to indulge.

Pros: Simple, straightforward. In this way, he will tell Liumao his situation very directly, and tell Liumao why he ignored Liumao a little before, and tell him that he didn't really take him to heart, otherwise he wouldn't have been called out.

Disadvantages: passive, easy to fold. It is true that it is the easiest way to make an appointment with Liumao directly, but what if Liumao doesn't want to come out, or doesn't have time to come out? If you don't have time, you can make an appointment for another time, but if you don't want to come out, then even if you change the time, then you don't want to come out or you don't want to come out. Similarly, if Liumao doesn't have time to explain the reason to himself, then how can he know if he doesn't want to see him, or if he really doesn't have time to see him? And once he made an appointment with Liumao this time, but Liumao didn't agree to come out and meet him in the end, wouldn't he be embarrassed, and how would he open his mouth about Liumao next time? Therefore, this is both passive and easy to be rejected and easy to break.

After thinking about these three options in his mind, Duan Cubzi finally chose the third option after thinking about it for a long time. Although the third option still has shortcomings, it seems that it is not small. But which of the three options doesn't have any drawbacks? Even if you think of the fourth, who can say that the fourth or even the fifth option has no shortcomings at all?

No one is perfect, and naturally there is no perfect way. We, Duan Cubzi can think of these things, he thinks that these plans are enough to deal with Liumao, so why does he have to spend time thinking about a very complicated, very practical, and even no shortcomings at all?

It doesn't matter if these programs have shortcomings, what matters is whether their advantages are useful to Liumao, looking at people, things, and things is to look at him, it, its advantages, and strengths, rather than staring at his short tail and holding on, that's not necessary. Let's use the advantages and advantages of this scheme to be enough, and we don't need to look at their shortcomings, tails. Because the advantages seen here are completely enough to cover up these shortcomings that are insignificant in contrast, people are not sages, and sages are infinitely magnified and their shortcomings are infinitely reduced, so they are said to be sages, but sages are not really without shortcomings at all.

Besides, what is the most important thing to be a human being? What's the least important thing is who understands it?

Others don't talk about it for the time being, at least in Duan Cub's place, he thinks that the most important thing to be a man is time. Think about life in a hurry for decades, it will take ten years to roll and grow, then it will take ten years to start growing, it will take ten years to accumulate precipitation, and then another ten years will slowly improve, and then ten years will take care of it, and finally the rest of your life will have time to really start traveling around and let your heart go. And how many things have to be done in this decade? The first ten years to learn to speak, walk, to get the approval of relatives, the second ten years to use the still very young heart to work hard to make themselves grow up, like adults closer, the third ten years to really understand the world, this society, not at all like adults to describe themselves, the fourth ten years after the cognition to improve themselves again, the fifth ten years to make a lot of people who can help their careers, and take care of their own career in an orderly manner, the sixth ten years are indeed busy for most of their lives, Finally, it's time to rest and relax, but can the first few decades be done before the sixth decade? If you can't finish it, how can you relax and start pursuing your soul and letting go of yourself in the sixth decade and the rest of your life?

There are too many things we have to do in a hurry, originally from a child from scratch slowly growing up, into a rich five cars with their own career, there is not enough time, if in the process of grinding and chirping, here to stay, where to hesitate, over time and how to make self grow to have a career, can be free to swim in the sea?

Therefore, Duan Cub also believes that the least important thing in life is face.

What a face! It looks like it's your own, but it's someone else's view of you, and in fact it doesn't belong to you at all.

I came to this life to be able to swim freely in the sea, to be able to fly my mind without restraint, to be able to fly freely, to be high in the sky and the sea in all directions, this is the goal, this is the pursuit of life! But is there any face in this? Is it necessary to have any face to help you achieve these goals?

No! No one else cares about you, as long as you're a piece of garbage all the time. At that time, even if you were dressed in gold, they would still look down on you, and they would not give you any face.

Who but yourself can control your destiny, life or death? If you have a career one day, no one will remember even if you were just trash, and even if you do, who cares?

Therefore, if he found the easiest way, Duan Cub would not consider any other way, because he simply did not have enough time to delay himself, and he didn't want to come here for decades at the beginning, but in the end he still walked naked. If you can't get a good time, then what's the point of fighting hard to get to this world from hundreds of millions of compatriots? Is it just to finally walk barely?

As for the fact that this method is likely to be rejected by others, what is it? If the first thing to consider is the other party's rejection, then don't think about anything at all, just think about how the other party refuses, but have you thought about how you want to live and how to survive? I'm about to be out of it, and I'm still thinking about the other party's refusal, can I have some interest? Instead of thinking about how to get him to agree, but thinking about how he would refuse, can we be more cute (childish}?

I studied the words thoroughly, and adjusted my mentality, even if the other party refused this time, but so what, who is my brother afraid of, just make an appointment again, where did so many chirps come from!

I'll rub it! I didn't see it, this cub is not small, but it is not small, and he hasn't made anything, so he began to look like he wants to point out the country, I just want to ask where this confidence comes from? Just because you once stood at the pinnacle of animal husbandry? Hehe, it's not too angry.

However, don't really say it, Duan Cub's tone is big, and he looks like a confident brother who is not afraid of anyone, but being a man, comfort is reserved for the dead! If you are afraid, what else is it to come, lie down and be an ostrich, and lie down to be a lazy pig? No matter whose achievements or career's career they have with two eyes, two ears, a brain and a mouth, they have earned it with action, you don't lack two eyes, two ears, and you don't lack a smart mind and a tongue of the lotus, you just lack the confidence in Duan Cub's mouth, and you don't even have this bit of courage, so isn't it just like Duan Cub said, what to do is just to think about how others refuse, and never to think about how to make others accept it?

Ostriches are not scary, lazy pigs are not scary, what is scary is a group of people who want to be ostriches, a group of people who want to be lazy pigs!