This situation made Lin Chaofeng a little speechless, but he had already taken the words himself, and it didn't seem like a word if he didn't say it.

Lin Chaofeng had no choice but to speak up: "If you want to talk about this problem, it may be that Yawen doesn't understand it so well, after all, I haven't had this kind of experience, and it's normal to not be able to understand it." ”

This is not a sophisticated problem, nor is it a difficult problem, on the contrary, it is a problem like Zhang Yawen who has no personal experience and can understand it at one point.

This person has been in a misunderstanding, but he has been slow to explain.

It's good to say that this is harmless without explanation, but when this failure to explain affects some of his behavior, then this is a problem.

Lin Chaofeng said: "This is nothing more than when a person's identity and status have changed, and another part of the people who have some kind of intersection with themselves have completely become people of two worlds, if there is a misunderstanding of the premise that invisibly divides the natural relationship between the two types of people, then this misunderstanding is very appropriate." ”

"Brother Evergreen doesn't explain that he can also repay the favor he owed in a better way, so why explain?"

"If a person is generous enough and broad-minded enough, it is best not to explain when facing this situation, because the impression that your old classmates have of him is completely the misunderstanding of him at the beginning, and this misunderstanding cannot actually improve each other's understanding as the theoretical misunderstanding is solved."

"On the contrary, once this misunderstanding is solved, those of you old classmates who are in a better state of mind will fall into a slight guilt, because things have developed to that situation, which means that some of them must be following the rumors, at least when they were listening to this impression, as old friends, they did not come forward to help explain."

"At the same time, Brother Evergreen is not what it used to be, and I think I have to mix well with many of your old classmates, so a very real problem will arise."

Lin Chaofeng lit a cigarette as he spoke, and said: "This is like the plot in some fantasy works, when a person who is not favored by everyone suddenly stands taller than anyone else one day, that loud slap is real." ”

"At the same time, due to the different positions, it is difficult to intersect again, and there is a misunderstanding in it before, if it is just the feelings of old classmates, it is obvious that this kind of affection cannot eliminate the impact of this result."

"The mentality is almost not going to admit that he has misunderstood him, and he is likely to give himself a more unrealistic explanation, the meaning of this explanation is to make himself feel better, just like many rookies in our League of Legends."

"Those rookies usually pit their teammates may not feel that they themselves don't think that one day after receiving the lesson of their teammates, the more real the lesson is, the more uncomfortable he will feel, the more he will feel that others are wrong, and he will not admit that he is a real dish."

"This situation often occurs when people meet strangers in a virtual game, and if you move to the friendship of having old classmates, it will only be worse."

Lin Chaofeng said and laughed again, and said: "Of course, this is just a relatively in-depth analysis, aside from the matter itself, there is no need to explain this matter at all, because today's identity has already doomed them not to be all the way, what can they do if they release their previous suspicions?" ”

"It's like Yawen, you haven't remembered those old classmates for so many years, I'm not saying how cold Yawen's temperament is, but you have never been the same kind of person as them, and you have never crossed paths in the days since you were separated."

"There will be no common language without intersection, even if there are some common feelings before, it will fade over time, as will be the case in your case, not to mention that there have been some misunderstandings between the evergreen brother and them themselves."

Chen Changqing said and turned his head to look at Chen Changqing, and said, "Friend, if you want me to explain, then I will have a full set." ”

Chen Changqing said: "I would like to hear about it. ”

Lin Chaofeng said with a smile: "If I were one of your old classmates, whether you choose to stand up and slap me in the face or choose to continue to pay silently like this, it will not have any impact on me." ”

"Because at the beginning of the rumors, you didn't take the opportunity to come out and explain to our old classmates, but let us old classmates have been in a wrong impression all these years, which is first of all your disrespect for our old classmates."

"If you have to say that these old classmates made you feel uncomfortable with their attitude towards you at the beginning, then can you completely deny that these old classmates did help you in the first place?"

Chen Changqing shook his head and said, "I said that I have always remembered their help at the beginning. ”

Lin Chaofeng smiled: "So you asked me to explain this question, I think you are a little hypocritical, your consideration is too self-conscious, because there is no accurate answer to this question at all." ”

"For you, the so-called misunderstanding, these old classmates have also maintained a false impression for so many years, they are also victims, provided that you have their affection in your heart, if some of them really regard you as a friend, then there is no need for any premise."

"As for your reward, not everyone will feel that they will be rewarded for their kindness, and there are also those who do good deeds and do not ask about the future; Not everyone expects that the people they have rescued will be able to return to themselves one day, don't you think it's too important to think about yourself? ”

Chen Changqing was a little speechless when he heard this, and Lin Chaofeng smiled: "You and Yawen are in the same class, and I am younger than Yawen, so I call you a brother, don't mind; Don't mind this reminder from me. ”

"I just think that when a person's identity and status are invisibly improved, they can't forget their original appearance, which will lose themselves."

"You have been rolling in the business field all year round, many things are related to interests, and some things will be viewed from the perspective of interests, but I still want to say that there are many people in this world who do not know themselves."

Lin Chaofeng looked at Zhang Yawen as he spoke, and said with a smile: "For example, there are a lot of people around me who do good deeds like the kind I mentioned, and there are many of them, and Yawen also knows it." ”