Chapter 179: The Right Way to Communicate
"Guoguo, what are you doing?"
Chun Yufan asked curiously.
Pouting his little buttocks, he put his ears to the door and waved his hand back.
"Aunt Xiaofan, don't make noise, I can't even hear what they say."
If you don't make noise, you won't hear it!
There's no one in the house!
What else would I do?
"Is there anything nice?"
Chun Yufan asked with a smile on his face, and didn't remind her that there was no one in the house, and those two treacherous guys had actually been communicating cordially and friendly downstairs.
"It's not good, it's just that I'm worried that they will do something bad behind my back."
Chen Ruo's little face was full of worry.
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I'm not even worried, so don't worry so much.
If someone really dares to do something......
Auntie cut him for you!
"Did you hear anything?"
"No, it's just that I'm in a hurry, why don't they say anything about the movement on the hour, so that I can judge."
Chun Yufan looked at her anxiously, and didn't plan to tease her.
"They're all downstairs, so of course you can't hear anything."
"Huh?"
If Chen was dumbfounded in an instant, his little ass would be pouted in vain?
Oops, back pain!
"When did they go down?"
"Supposedly, while you're on the toilet."
"Two old foxes!"
Chen Ruo gritted his teeth.
Chun Yufan nodded, agreeing and accepting her judgment.
You can carry the child on your back, but you can't play the child like that, right?
"No! I've got to go down and spy on them! β
Chen said that he turned around and ran, but he pulled Chun Yufan to stop.
"When they're done talking, they'll naturally call us over, so you'd better be honest now."
"Aunt Xiaofan, you actually acted as their minion lackey and came to imprison me!"
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Don't say it so ugly!
Auntie, this is for the sake of the lover's voluntary guardianship!
Think about the fact that she just came home, and saw the two people arguing with red faces and thick necks, and thought that someone wanted to do something wrong, but was rejected, so she was annoyed and angry, what are you going to do......
So she went up to give someone a hard scratch, and later learned that it was not like that, there were many twists and turns inside, in order to avoid being embarrassed, she volunteered to come up with this little girl.
She promised that she would never let Xiao Ruo go down to make trouble until the problem was resolved peacefully.
Ahem, there are really a lot of those topics that are not suitable for children.
"Aunt Xiaofan, you really can't raise your noble hand?"
Chun Yufan shook his head and said that he couldn't help.
"Let's not look at it, they are lonely men and widows, what can they do to hurt the heavens and reason?"
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What are these words?
There's one in it but your mother, so you're not afraid of thunder and thunder?
Even if they really take what they need and explore each other's depths, I'm the one who should be crazy, okay?
Besides, if they really want to do that, it can't be said to be so serious, right?
At most, it hurts me and hurts me, do you think Auntie wants to pull them to soak in the pig cage?
With Chun Yufan watching, it was impossible for Chen to slip away, and then Niannian came over again, and she completely dispelled the idea of slipping away.
But what exactly are they talking about?
Why are you so afraid that I know?
It's greasy!
Upstairs, if you have countless thoughts, you can speculate about all kinds of possibilities.
The two downstairs were discussing topics she couldn't think of in a cordial and friendly atmosphere.
"Again, there's nothing wrong with that doctor, he's an authority on psychology! Expert! β
Chen Qingping said that she didn't understand the professionalism of someone who was entangled with the doctor, and what they said was right, why can't you accept it?
"I know, Boxing, isn't the brick family just shooting people and fooling people, their judgment has to be listened to, otherwise some will suffer."
Li Qingshan still felt that the doctor's words could not be trusted, especially the psychiatrist.
What did I hear about, the lack of father's love, and the father-lover complex......
It is the father who is too good, so that the daughter cannot judge clearly, and the feelings are hazy and uncontrollable, and then this complex is generated.
Just what kind of father is that? It's good that she doesn't hate her father, and she still loves her father!
"You have a preconception about doctors!"
"I'm just looking at things with a skeptical lens."
"What exactly do you want to deny? Doctor or his diagnosis? β
"Doctor!"
Someone is not stupid, as long as he denies the doctor, his conclusion will naturally be untenable.
"I think so, if the doctor can't do it, his judgment will naturally be unreliable, right?"
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There are no fools in this world!
Especially when it's all about yourself.
"Let's stop here on this topic, and go on talking about it as if I want to cover up something."
Well?
What kind of eyes do you have?
Take a closer look......
That's what you said, I didn't say anything!
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Yaya, I'm full, why do you study her eyes!
It's not fun to find it purely by yourself!
The tat leg should not be seen!
Anyway, we are open-minded, and we are not afraid of shadows!
Moving on, there are some things that must be clearly addressed.
"Do you know about Guoguo's skipping class?"
"The head teacher has looked for me many times, how can I not know?"
What Chen said was right, her mother really knew about it.
"Then why don't you leave her alone? Just let her go and let her fall? β
"How could I not be careful? That's my daughter, if she really grows up, won't her whole life be ruined? Do you think I want her to be like this? β
"Then why don't you ignore it?"
"I want to ask, but I'm afraid that if I expose her to my face, she won't be able to get off the stage and do more radical things. After all, I have a lot of responsibility for her becoming like this. You said I can't even give her a complete home, how can I have the face to say anything about her......"
Feed!
Why are you still crying when you say it's good?
Aren't you saying this girl is completely screwed?
One is afraid of saying it, but the rebellion is even more powerful, and he even dare not say it because of apology.
If you don't say that I care about me, I will toss and toss until you say you are in charge, and carry out the great cause of depravity with confidence.
This is the disadvantage of lack of communication, why don't you learn from me and Niannian?
The two of us can even compare what kind of women and girls we like, and exchange experiences.
This is not the case at all.
At least I know that my son wants a mother with big breasts, why don't you know that your daughter wants you to slap her?
Ahem, I gave you this slap, don't thank me......
I touched my body, but I couldn't find anything to wipe my tears, so I had to get up and find a few tissues and hand them to her.
"Let's wipe it first, this is for others to see, and they think I did something to you."
Chen Qingping took the tissue, wiped the tears on her face, and looked like a sad and angry little daughter-in-law.
"In this matter, I think you have a problem handling it, maybe Guoguo is making such a fuss because she wants you to take care of her?"
"How is that possible! Since she was a child, she didn't like people to dictate things to her! β
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Inherent thinking kills people!
Is it good for my daughter to grow up?
Can't you just analyze the specific situation once?
"Have you ever consulted that bullshit expert about this?"
Chen Qingping glared at him.
Can't you respect people?
Did someone recruit you and provoke you?
"Of course there is a question, how can you not ask about such a big thing?"
"What do you say about the brick family?"
Seeing his frivolous smile, I knew that his word "brick family" must be derogatory.
But she didn't bother to pay attention to him, it was difficult and unnecessary to change his opinion of experts in the short term, so she wouldn't do such a thankless task.
"Experts say that Guoguo is in the rebellious period of youth, and it is not advisable to be too strict, otherwise it is easy to arouse her rebellious psychology, and the more she manages it, the worse it gets."
What am I talking about?
A brick family is a brick family, and it is useless at all except to say some specious and completely useless nonsense.
"Could it be that the brick family suggested that you let it go?"
Of course not, he suggested that I spend more time with my child, tell her more positive stories, and tell her what should be done and what can be done. In short, without arousing her disgust, lead her to the right path. β
Hey?
That's right!
Dare to come out and mix, sure enough, it's still a bit dry.
"Did you do that?"
"Yes, except for work, I just accompany her."
"You haven't asked for leave to accompany her?"
"I go to work and she goes to school, and she gets out of school when I get off work, why do you want to take a leave of absence?"
It seems to make sense.
But Xiao Guoguo just ran out of class time to fool around, okay?
Then come home from school on time and be a good girl......
It's insidious!
"And what stories do you tell her? There don't seem to be too many positive stories these days. β
"I talked about Huang Jiguang from Liu Hulan, and from Lei Feng to Jiao Yulu, but it didn't seem to have any effect."
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Eldest sister!
I'm on my knees!
What are you talking about?
It's full of positive energy!
But it ended badly......
Would you rather have Guoguo beheaded, or would you like her to plug the bullet hole?
Or do you want her to write a diary and be taken out and criticized, or just exhausted?
Wiped it!
Don't say you don't know, you are shocked when you say it, why don't these people end well?
In the future, you can tell Nian Nian that these people are worthy of respect, but they must not be learned!
These days, it's too hard to live with a good heart...
How many of these children in modern times can listen to these stories?
It's good not to take out a few sarcastic words, but what effect do you expect?
"You can still talk about the past in this way, but your story ......"
Li Qingshan was a little speechless, he didn't know how to say it tactfully without damaging these models.
"I know these are too old, but now these ...... You can't tell which one is real, and that one is a show hype, in case it is debunked that day, isn't it the opposite effect? β
That's right......
"And how did you guide her down the right path?"
"It's simple, I just told her, do you see how hard the child studies, how good the grades are, how well-behaved and obedient, and what activities have they participated in...... And so on, anyway, I found a lot of role models for her to follow. β
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I finally know why Xiao Guoguo is like this......
It turns out that love is in the wrong direction, and it is more tricky than not loving!
Don't you know who the public enemy is in the minds of those little guys now?
He's just thatβsomeone else's child!
Someone looked at this great mother with a sad face, "Actually, your bullshit methods haven't worked with a slap in the face!" β
Chen Qingping looked at him in surprise, "What do you mean?" β
"Today, Guoguo skipped class and went to the bar to play, and she was almost killed by that, but I happened to meet her, so I saved her. Annoyed that she was too unmotivated, I slapped her......"
"What! You've slapped Guoguo! β
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Why are you so loud!
I'm doing it for her good, too!
Isn't she fine now?
It's much more effective than your unreliable methods.
"yes, she's promised me ...... by now"
"I'll fight with you!"
No way!
Speak well, don't move your hands and feet!
Oops......
Can you listen to someone finish talking?
Wipe!
Don't throw away your heels!
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If I don't stop, I'll fight back!
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You're really bullying honest people!
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Depend on!
You forced me!
Crash...
Puff ......
Squeak......
"Stinky scoundrel! Let me go! β
"Listen to me first!"
Bang Dang!
The door was pushed open again!
looked at the two people on the bed, holding hands, legs parting legs, and rolling extremely ambiguously......
"Look! I said they must have done something good! β
Chen Ruo shouted indignantly with his hands on his hips!
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Someone's face is full of cows......
Lock the door next time you say anything......