Chapter 150: Letter from Home
Just when Yang Fan and Li Huaixin took the little girl Tao Duxue to play the rally, on a cold street corner diametrically opposed to the excitement of the rally, a little girl like black charcoal held a stack of letters with tears in the corner of her eyes?
The contents of the letter were extremely complicated, as if it had been written by a kind father.
"Daughter, the problem of being open-mouthed when you get a little close must be changed, and when you talk to others about things in the future, replace "do you understand" with "I understand".
When someone greets you, you must respond, even if you don't want to talk, you must greet you appropriately.
Even if it is an expression or a euphemistic expression, when you meet an acquaintance no matter what your identity is, whether it is only one side of the relationship or what, if you don't speak, it's not cold, it's uneducated. Don't try to trade your secrets for friends. The circles are different, and they don't have to be forced.
Don't tell the wind the secret, the wind will blow through the forest. Don't get acquainted with anyone too quickly, don't think that the topic is the same at the beginning, there are many things in common, you are bosom friends who hate to see each other late. Words are often fake, and what we experience together is true.
Don't say what you shouldn't say in front of people, and don't say it behind your back. Replacing "thank you" with "thank you" is just one more word, but it is many times more sincere. A girl who smiles all day long is always more pleasing than a melancholy girl. Be quiet when others are sleeping or in need of comfort.
Don't just open something that belongs to someone else's secret without permission. There are two kinds of people to be trusted: those who don't say anything about borrowing your money, and those who keep their promises to pay you back. Don't talk deeply, don't be mean. There are things to be said, don't wait for the other party to understand, because the other party is not you, you don't know what you want, and in the end it can only be sad and disappointed, especially feelings.
When you meet people, you only say three points, and you can't throw away all your hearts. The "what's wrong" in most people's mouths is just to satisfy curiosity and not to help you. So my daughter, when something happens, the first thing to do is to think about what you can do, instead of thinking about relying on others. It's rude to break someone else's joy. Daughter, you should have all experienced.
In the matter of refusal, the simpler the better, obviously it is others who need their own help, explain that they have become indebted to others for a long time, they can help, they can help, they can help, and if they can't help, they will refuse.
Interpersonal communication, simple and clear is sometimes the most appropriate, know how to refuse, can be free and easy without entanglement. No matter how distinguished your family background or esteemed status is to meet a friend, don't think that everything is fine, no matter how good a good partner is, the eternal law of interpersonal relationships is to balance the transaction. Don't ever think about relying on anyone.
When someone tells you something they like, I hope you don't refute it, because we are all serious, and you say how bad the thing we like, and your straightforwardness is just selfish. When you are talking to someone, once they take a deep breath, it means that they do not want to listen and are pressuring their attitude towards you.
So my daughter, you must know how to observe words and feelings, don't just do your own thing, and care more about what other people in this world think of you. Don't joke with people you don't know. Acquaintances too.
Don't show that you hate her in front of someone you hate, and don't say bad things about someone you hate in front of someone you hate.
Don't go for friends of the opposite sex with whom you have a good relationship. Hahaha, daughter, Dad's words are just casually said, but he likes that handsome young man, if he wants, he is willing, hehe, if you don't want to, just use the knocking stick that Dad handed you to knock that stinky boy, hahahaha!
When this little girl read this, she finally burst into tears and laughed, as if she had thought of something interesting. Don't say harsh things to your friends, they hurt the most. No matter what we do, we must have a better attitude towards those who are in the service industry.
It's not easy for them enough, so my daughter, we must leave enough kindness to the world. No matter who you are, or who you've met, try to remember someone's name when you first meet.
Hold back the words that hurt the other person the most when you are most angry. Don't say cruel words, don't do soft things. Hehe, our family's family style, that is, we are not hot, but we are not afraid of things, no matter what, daughter, we must get this momentum in place, and we must not let others look down on it. Others can laugh at themselves, but you must not go along with it.
Most people don't like to be outspoken. If you encounter something very annoying and annoying one day, look a little farther away, and you will not be sad. Don't believe in women chasing men, compartment yarn and the like.
I think back then, when my dad chased your mom, hehe, forget it. Don't have anything to complain to others, there are very few people in this world who can empathize, most people will be annoyed when they hear it, and a small number of people will use it as a laughing stock to promote it everywhere.
When you are angry or full of negative emotions in your heart, don't bring negative energy to others, let alone vent your anger. If you can't, it's best to be alone when you're sad. Because not everyone is your relatives and good friends, in the eyes of others, this is an act of being spread by you for no reason, and after a long time, others will not want to approach you.
Whoever it is, no matter what he's trying to do, never turn your nose up at a person's efforts. Teach whoever you should teach, don't wronged yourself. Treat the person in your heart as an ordinary friend of the opposite sex; Treat the ordinary opposite sex as the most important recognition in your heart, and your interpersonal relationship will be much better.
Don't make excuses for doing something wrong. Just admit your mistakes. Always use "you" when talking to strangers, and if you take the initiative to disturb others, add "bothering you". In the face of the rumors circulating in the rivers and lakes, if you don't reply and don't discuss, if you have to reply all at once, then just reply and let them all get out.
Don't make some unfashionable jokes about unfamiliar friends. The most effective way to lose someone is to get too close. Don't force yourself to be a good person for the sake of relationships. Be a bad guy who always does good things, not a good guy who can't do bad things.
No matter what I tell you, you won't understand it when your mind isn't at this level or close to it, or when you've experienced something. Or you think you know it, but you don't. ”
The little charcoal-like girl sobbed and said, "Know, what an annoying stinky old man."
But the little girl's face was wrinkled, full of tears, and there was no annoying expression.