Chapter 6 Email to L 2: About Pain
See the words as they are. Is the view that there is nothing difficult in the world and that there is no Buddha in the world? I don't think so, you should praise me for this point of view, at least 800 words. You've only said a few words, and it makes me miserable.
The four characters of birth, old age, sickness and death are the source of human suffering. In fact, I feel that I don't need to go into detail about the pain, I have to say a lot. After all, anyone can suffer.
If everyone is like Deadpool in Marvel, the world will be over, and there will be a heinous person who can't kill him with a gun, and people will be unscrupulous. The pain of death is to make people afraid of death, and when people are afraid, they will restrain their behavior. Pain is good.
If people don't get old, the world is full of young people, who have the vitality to do a lot of physically demanding things, and then one day life comes to an abrupt end...... Doesn't seem bad, right? But the pain of "old" is second only to death, only the twilight of heroes and beauties are particularly sighing, so the pain of old is actually to give people reflection and deterrence, if, we know early that one day we will be inflexible in our hands and feet, and it will be difficult to control urine and urine, the more we know, the sooner we will enjoy our youth and health, we can eat delicious things, enjoy running and sports, and go to Pee in the wind unscrupulously! (heheda). The sore spot of life, when you are alive, you have the perception and the capital of old age, sickness and death. It is only by being alive that you can feel joy and happiness. Although, nine times out of ten, things are not as expected.
I am a person who is greedy for life and afraid of death, and because of the fear of death, I have to live strongly. If people have a choice about birth, then surely many people do not want to be born...... I really don't know why there are so many people in the world. Oh - by the way, people are born without choice, the choice power lies with the parents, they want children, can have children, "I" came to the world. If all small lives are disgusted with life, then among the hundreds of millions of sperm, is it the most unlucky one who survives? In this way, birth is really a great pain.
You know almost all about my, so I'll use myself as a guinea pig to help dissect some subtle things for your reference. I like puppies very much, you know, remember the puppy like a cow that I told you about (there are white and black hair, I have to use a cow as an analogy, in fact, this metaphor is indeed very vivid), I don't go back to my hometown as an adult, after I go back, it recognizes me, I like to take it to run on the riverbank near my home, the longest life span of the dog is more than ten years, there is such a small animal waiting for itself, that mood is very touching and gratifying, the year before last it died, old legs and feet are not flexible, The hair was also dull, and my parents said that maybe it wanted to see me when it was dying. In fact, the loss of a puppy is also very sad, but the pain of this loss is nothing compared to the joy that I once had. Let me tell you, it is good for people to live sensibly, because it is not advisable to choke on the willfulness of eating.
And my relationship history that failed to achieve positive results, although you always call me a scumbag and spoil how many good girls, in fact, I don't start a relationship easily, and I have to give up a relationship for some reason that I can't afford it, it's just a painful choice for me. What's more, my relationship history, there are not many girls involved. The first love ended without a problem, the second girl broke up after we graduated (maybe we can save something, but after all, I am young and ignorant), the third, J, my so-called love at first sight, and then because of the persecution of the family, I chose to let go in a rage, and then came to a bigger city to work hard, but my ability was limited, and in the end I didn't rely on my family to run a marriage?
It's easy to endure pain, but it's hard to endure itching. It's okay for us people to tolerate pain. We should encourage each other that the more pain we bear, the more we will understand what is important and learn to cherish and be prudent. Thirty-six plans have clouds: "Li Dai Tao stiff: it is bound to be damaged, and it will be damaged by yin and yang", there will be a lot of pain in life, we need to be cautious, calm, survive in adversity, and in the end there will not be too many regrets, because we have carefully chosen the best plan at a specific time.