L is a sentimental man, only when a man interprets the carefulness and intentions that other men have, he will sincerely feel ashamed and admired, especially a man who is inspired to be a good husband to a man.

However, it seems very unrealistic to really remember the big and small festivals in married life and celebrate them with care.

If a man after marriage is attentive, he will spend effort to imitate the careful thinking used by young boys when chasing girls, perhaps because

"Don't cherish it when you get it", a man who gets married on the road of imitation always seems to have insufficient energy, and it is difficult to surpass the enthusiasm of a boy in love.

But love and hate are often in a blink of mind, look at the word hate on the left side of a heart on the right side of a gen, when the heart is in the heart of the obstacle becomes hate, when L's girlfriend imagines the future with him, L is coaxed on the surface, but behind the scenes and our group of fox friends complain, nothing more than the lack of material and the girlfriend's pursuit of material life between the contradiction, there is a lover's yearning for marriage and the contradiction between the room and the car and the mother-in-law.

After a few glasses of wine, L said hatefully Now I suddenly understand why men often abandon their wives when they are rich after middle age, it is estimated that it is to avenge the various stumbling blocks set by their wives before marriage.

We all echoed it, knowing that L is a spoiled girlfriend and has a gentle and kind personality, this kind of addictive thing can't be taken seriously, not to mention that the future is too far away, who knows what a person will become in the future?

It doesn't matter if it's set the same or turned upside down, it really doesn't make sense now. Friend K opened his mouth first: "This is all an excuse, of course rich people have the capital to spend money to spend money to pursue physical pleasures, the conditions that young girls have must make lustful old men excited, and the original partner will definitely oppose it, the man has to say that it is because he was tortured by his wife when he was young, and this is revenge, it seems that with a motive and reason, he can be honest in his heart - people only need excuses and reasons when they are weak-hearted." L and I nodded frequently and said, "Reasonable." "Raise a glass together.

I echoed my previous remarks and said: "In this way, these people who need to find an excuse for doing 'bad things' are not extremely bad, at least they are still human. Men who really don't care about marriage don't need any excuses, they blatantly spend all their time drinking and giving the initiative of divorce to their wives, either leaving or putting up with ......" L said to himself: "Hey, I want to do that too." The three of them clinked their glasses again and said

"Encouragement!" Drink it all. Love is hard to say, and hate is almost the same. But hatred is stronger than love, and if love is refreshing and warm, hatred is indignant and desolate.

When we talk about marriage, we always overemphasize the responsibilities and obligations that men should fulfill in marriage, as if they are taking a vaccination to remind them to be vigilant and cautious in their words and deeds, which I think is inappropriate.

As the saying goes, where there is pressure, there will be resistance, and vigilance beyond the necessary limit is easy to stimulate people's rebellious psychology.

This kind of self-consciousness that is more inclined to the moral level, and the use of legal rules to emphasize that it is not only useless but also harmful and unhelpful, is not that people become conscious after the platform is launched.

It is worth mentioning that now the concept of equality between men and women is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and even cheating and betrayal have slowly reached an equal position, cheating has long been not exclusive to men.

It was a time that scared me, because there was so little way to measure the value of everything, and it was only money to measure it.

I bought a purple clay pot, what's so good about it? Brewing tea is more fragrant and more comfortable to hold?

It's valuable but doesn't seem convincing, and then I say it's worth hundreds of thousands, and you think that the set of ceramic tea sets you bought from the supermarket doesn't cost 100 yuan, so you give a thumbs up and say that this pot must be very good.

When her friend got married, she wanted to tell her relatives and friends how careful and considerate the man was, how filial and pragmatic he was, how decent, polite and well-mannered he was. Suddenly, he said: "The bride price was given tens of thousands of thousands, and the wedding room was also purchased by the man...... everyone's eyes lit up and said: "Wow, you are so lucky!" "Maybe it's because my own knowledge is too shallow, and I always feel that it is inappropriate to set the value of things in this way, especially if the person concerned also regards material and money as a measure and focus, it has become a disaster.

It is true that people need to use their rich and wealthy strokes to satisfy and praise outsiders who do not know the truth and can only draw conclusions through the excitement, although it is vulgar, but they have to act in this simple and crude way.

However, we are the authorities, and we should not be simple and rude to our own internal affairs. Love this kind of thing is more often just a matter of the feelings of the person, and has little to do with money and materials, so the mind is more important, and the heart should not be mixed with too many material things and worries and troubles caused by money and materials.

Marriage requires two people to work hard and work together to love each other. Don't throw the responsibilities in marriage to each other, let each other's hearts grow in love, instead of sitting back and enjoying the fruits of love and making each other resentful.