There is a very common phenomenon in our country, that is, people do not pay much attention to the process, only to the result.

Take learning as an example, parents can not pay much attention to their children for a semester, but the final exam results must be asked.

When it comes to the Olympic Games, many channels are broadcasting the event, and those who really love sports will watch it seriously, and others will just participate, and the question they are most concerned about is whether they won the championship in the end and how many gold medals they won.

If you climb the peak, you must reach the peak before you send a photo of the state, as if you don't reach the peak, this time the climb is meaningless.

The process is very hard, but it is also very boring and monotonous, no one will spend all their energy on paying attention to the struggle process of others, the bystanders just share the joy of the final victory, the participants will taste the process of victory, and it is also because of the arduous and tragic process that the participants cherish the final result.

One minute on stage, ten years off stage, the audience only cares about the performance of that minute, who can blame the audience for this kind of thing?

I have only participated as a bystander, and I have seen too many people go from ordinary to extraordinary, from unpopular to well-known.

Gradually, I began to feel a little sour in my heart, and began to sprout jealousy, and the thorn of mediocrity began to germinate in my heart, always stabbing to the most vulnerable and sensitive position when my heart was empty and confused.

I suddenly realized that for a long time, I said that I wanted to find the so-called key to success, wanted to make a qualitative change in my life through hard work, and my mind was enlightened, but a month has passed, half a year has passed, and a year has passed, and I am still me, slack and lazy, and I am talking about looking for it, but I am too proud of myself, and I can't listen to the advice of the contrary, and I think impatiently in my heart when I hear the truth: "I know this truth better than you!" "I despise these people who are more effective than me, and I simply think about qualitative change, but I don't have the accumulation of quantity.

If you want to live a different life than you used to, you need to develop different habits. The most basic thing is to pay attention to the process.

I remember watching the chopsticks brothers' movie "Raptors Crossing the River", the front is two people in order to get ahead of all kinds of tossing, in the middle of the story, when the two people suddenly became quiet, sad and helpless to say a word:"

"We're all at this age, and this life is probably over." I still remember the Japanese TV series "Song of the Sun", at the end of the day, Xiaozhi played the song of Xun on the beach, and the smile of Xun at the end of the song gradually faded, and Xiaozhi slowly opened his eyes with an expressionless face.

These two scenes have become indelible memories in my heart. A work, although it is well-known by people by relying on one or two famous sentences, but a simple two sentences or a shot, but can not represent the entire work, only by understanding their series of tossing and struggling, and understanding the joys and sorrows experienced by the characters, the final lines and scenes will become classics and immortal.

Because I still have to live my life, I am the core of this life, I can't be a spectator, fantasizing about what heights this life will eventually reach, what kind of achievements will be achieved, I must seriously participate, and strive to make the process grand and ceremonial, my life will really improve, and it is important for me to pay attention to this process that may not be important to others.