For a while, there were a lot of death-making videos on the Internet, and some rich sons helped their friends test whether their girlfriends would be moved by money, and many of them overturned, of course, it is not excluded that they deliberately filmed things in order to deliberately satisfy the audience's gloating mentality; There is also a paragraph that the man came home from work and found his girlfriend's sister at home, saying that there was no one at home, and he liked his brother-in-law for a long time and then turned around and went to the bedroom after confessing, and the man turned his head and walked out, but his girlfriend and girlfriend's parents were there, saying: "Sure enough, I didn't look away, my character is okay, and we are relieved to marry xx to you." The man was glad in his heart: "When I go home, the door of the outhouse is not locked, and I want to lock the door...... which means that there is a great possibility of kneeling in this test.

People always like to design all kinds of traps to test others, and there is a classic story of "The Wolf is Coming" that is probably related to the test, where the child uses teasing for the purpose of testing people's reaction to hearing the alarm, but in the end he loses people's trust and suffers misfortune himself.

Tests and temptations are very hurtful things, because they are a bit deceptive, and the people who carry out the plan are confused about whether the subject can be trusted.

I feel that the human heart cannot stand the test, especially when it is attacked by surprise in unguarded conditions.

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The "examiner" thinks that it is the real result that is tested under unguarded conditions. "Journey to the West" is a classic, appointing Tang Seng to learn the scriptures, and the ninety-nine eighty-one difficulties experienced can also be regarded as a test for Tang Seng, if it is too easy to get, it will not be cherished, so it will encounter many levels, the difference is that Tang Seng was first assigned a task, and then went in a team, if only Tang Seng himself went to learn the scriptures, and there were demons and monsters on the road to test, then there was no need to learn the scriptures at all.

There are also exams in our daily lives that test our mastery of knowledge...... This kind of test is easy to accept.

The main thing is the prompt before the test, so that the tester can be prepared and overcome difficulties when encountering difficulties, although there will still be people who fail the course and cannot pass the test, but they will be calmer.

We should learn from the experience and lessons, do not test people's hearts on a whim, or whether people can hold on to temptation, your sudden attack will often bring you sick joy, if the other party hangs, you will be glad in your heart: "Look, this person is really not credible, fortunately I am ice and snow smart, he did not pass the small test." If the other party passes the test, you will also think: "This person is not bad, the small test has passed, you can still believe it, but maybe the test is too simple, or he has seen through, next time you have to think of a more intelligent test, if you pass it, then you can really believe ......."

It's not that it can't be tested, but the premise is that you should prepare him in advance when you come up with the question. For example, you think that if the other party can remember your birthday and give you blessings on your birthday, giving you a birthday gift means that he cares about you, you don't wait for the day to come silently, when he misses it unconsciously, you sulk, and when he comes over and over again to ask you what happened to you, you accumulate strength and burst out all of a sudden, saying that you don't care about me at all, you only have yourself in your heart...... blabla, said that the other party was annoyed and angry, and then relied on his strength to make himself single.

You can tell him a month in advance how you want him to be on his birthday. Finally, if we are examiners, we can choose some difficult questions that do not exceed the outline, but the premise must be to tell the candidates when we will take the exam, after all, our examiners and candidates are expected to pass the exam.