I gradually got rid of this state, although every time Lao Zhou still has crayfish, the feeling of being taken away in the middle of eating, there was a beginning of a year, full of anticipation and a lot of plans, the launch of the new year must be changed, I bought four word books, I look for useful information on this various websites, I have a lot of movies, as long as there are useful things, I will definitely collect them first, and then tell myself that I have time to watch, then this time I and the supervision of the Commission for Discipline Inspection memorize 100 words every day, and hold an open class every week, Read a book every three days.

For this reason, we swore to make all preparations, and even took measures to punish each other, such as a certain missing two words, I had to let it scribble on my face, and then take pictures, and I couldn't resist the whole time, I first said that I want to take a video when I leave, okay?

And I can't resist the whole thing, and then I left him to take ten pictures in two months, and then in order to let him destroy the photo, he ate ten meals and he didn't get much better, he was the little prince of socializing, and the phone next to him never stopped, that is, he put his plan off again and again, the only difference between him and me is that he was never afraid of me scribbling on his face, and finally he attributed his procrastination to Zhou, he said that every time it was so coincidental, he just picked up the word book and had a phone, and the whole universe didn't want him to study, He should conform to the meaning of the universe, he said this too seriously, I actually nodded along with her meaning, and then one day I remembered that I had a lot of information in my collection at that time, and when I opened it, I found that the original author clicked to delete, and I can't remember what I collected, and a sentence on the screen about your collection of articles has been deleted by the original author, and you said that he voluntarily slapped me in the heart with a state-owned enterprise, I don't doubt my motivation at the time, otherwise I wouldn't have spent so much time collecting those information, It's like I don't have the slightest doubt that every year, I have to change my determination, we want to change the world, but we can't even change the habits we hate the most, we want to get out.

But often don't even bother to go downstairs to buy groceries, we want to calm down and read a few books, the courage to turn the first page is not there, slowly we become able to spend a few hours brushing Weibo, there is no way to spend a few hours reading books, how easy it is to swear to become just talking, probably like every new one will tell yourself, must change the cashmere clothes, just like the fixed clothes are a new month, the new year is to tell yourself so, but in the end nothing has changed, tomorrow to read the book, Tomorrow I'm going to memorize a few more words tomorrow.

Tomorrow I'm going to start losing weight, tomorrow I'm going to start changing, at the beginning we were all modern, but in the end we all failed miserably, so I think why wait until tomorrow what can be changed today, you can start from scratch today, why wait until now Why do you have to wait for such a point in time to tell yourself that you want to change, and then put those vows behind, there must be some moments in life, you can't bear to shoot the case, thinking that Lao Tzu has to do this thing, and then go out to do itAfter doing it, you must have such moments in life, you can't bear a bad habit of yourself, swear to yourself, you must change, go out and change it to the end really change, don't comfort yourself, either you really like yourself now, or you want to become your favorite yourself, I hope that now is that time I hope to change earlier, so I don't think about it anymore, tomorrow to think about it again and now is forever, I'm tired of getting tired of it, and the coming day is long again and again, I'm tired of once three for my future is too far away, I don't know if he will come, today is my forever, my approach is to set a very short-term goal for myself, a week or a month to complete this goal, just reward yourself with a big break and completely empty that kind of work, nothing works, do the things at hand first, only at home when you are relaxed, during this time I don't allow myself to hesitate, and then entangle, I throw everything away, your mother can't hold on to it for so much time, You can't report it.

Stick to it with such an idea, you can stick to it, and don't expect a thing to bring you a particularly big return in the short term, many times the sense of fulfillment is enough, you don't expect a book to change your life, most people who read books with this idea can't read what they need to read hundreds of books, or keep thinking, the life of the team has an impact on my personal little way, usually after getting up to do what should not be done, Forcing myself to start not giving myself the opportunity to start by scrolling through Weibo for a while, the benefits of doing so.

There is also the night, my time is my own, and at that time I usually dare not relax when I am busy, chatting with friends or going out to play, I can arrange my time freely, I don't have to worry about my tasks not completed, but there are many people who are more efficient the later and more efficient, I am writing a book that I will also click on everything I want to do, throw my phone aside, and don't open the web page when I can not go online, and I am a person who needs to be heard in particular, and I will always accept it in my playlist,Put a lot of motivational songs,Or those songs that can help me concentrate,Everyone's songs are different,But I think everyone has a few songs that can motivate themselves.,I'll listen to those songs repeatedly.,Do you want to believe in yourself.,Play for five minutes to learn this kind of nonsense.,Social networks can't get it.,At most, brush up on a circle of friends.,Hold back.,Don't reply to anyone.,To put an end to some of your mobile phones.,Just put aside the mobile phone, the root of all evil.,In fact, most of the time you can't concentrate, It's not for others to bother you, but for yourself to give others the opportunity to bother you, so it's to find things that make you happy after doing it to sort out the relationship between relaxation and work, and take the subsequent trip as a reward for hard work, not an escape, if you can try not to find a few songs you like on the Internet, it will be a long time unconsciously, don't waste too much time, is it to watch a time to set an alarm clock for yourself, try not to play time before the alarm goes off, don't try to do something when you see others doing good.

Because everyone's performance to you is not necessarily all, many times you run to someone else's track and find that person is not very suitable for what you seem to care about, in fact, only their own hardship, see all in the careful choice, procrastination will make some things very scary, sometimes do those terrible things, if it is still terrible, she congratulates you on your judgment is right, at least you muster up the courage, if you do it smoothly you will find those things, but so, most of them are the second half.

It's hard and terrible, and you're very entangled, and then you muster up the courage, no matter how difficult the process is, you find that it's just so developed, you can't die, you won't struggle anymore when you encounter similar things in the future, the most difficult thing is to get used to it, a few days ago I forced myself not to look at my phone, the only purpose of the phone is to play songs, circle of friends, don't read Weibo or brush, I said to myself that if you don't look at your phone for two hours, you won't lose a piece of meat, as long as you look at your phone for a while in two hours, you will never be able to eat crayfish like this.

I didn't expect such a psychological suggestion machine, I slowly got used to it, don't look forward to the new year, don't wait until a certain point in time to change yourself, if you don't change, the new year is just a repetition of the previous one, you don't want to go where you want to go to fall in love, you don't want to do it, you still haven't done what you want to do, you work overnight and night shifts, the time is 1 o'clock to go, you may be in the same place, wait or be confused, don't leave yourself in place, a year does not represent a new beginning, if you don't act, as long as you make up your mind, Every day can be a new beginning to talk about, it's very simple, we can't be so wronged by ourselves, not worthy of the suffering and live up to our ambitions, not up or down, the most uncomfortable, so just do something awesome, such as changing a plan you hate the most, or do something you want to do but didn't do, every day in the past, see every book, some of the little things you do, the people you meet are a little bit of the present and the future of the present, What you have lost along the way is the water source that you once held onto, and what you owned.

Don't envy what you give up, what you bear is what you choose, don't hesitate, don't regret it, have love and persistence, that's your best appearance.

I have a student replied, to retire for many years is because I like Murakami Haruki, in order to understand the original Japanese to learn Japanese, this aunt looks very young, unlike people of this age to wash first, warm and indifferent, this aunt used to be a librarian, perennial dreams in the sea of books, strong literary temperament, often wear elegant and fresh plaid shirts or floral long skirts, no makeup, but the complexion is very good.

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When it is still the benefit of the regular unit, it is very warm and warm to meet, and when she is young, she must be a verbose Tianjin girl, I heard from my colleagues that this aunt has never been married so far, and has always been alone without children, without a family, she learns dance and English, reads and writes, often travels alone, and enjoys the life of a person, in my mind, the last time I described such a young aunt was lonely and silent in her own literary world, she would not and did not want to deal with too many people, and there were several good choices, In the end, they always parted ways, and the family didn't like to sleep first, so they resisted the world more and more, and they were all in the library Wenshu Text Heaven was about twenty years old, and they had a good heart, imagining that one was leading.

A soul mate who holds hands and spends a lifetime, all kinds of beautiful qualities in the movies in the books are added to the object that has not yet appeared, at the age of 30, he began to doubt his persistence, began to be afraid of seeing relatives and friends, began to want to compromise and wanted to start trying to date with people he didn't like, just like a student who couldn't write the answer to the test paper could only fill in the answer and submit the paper but found that he still couldn't convince himself that he was 40 years old, as if he had passed the once-in-a-lifetime exam registration time, and suddenly something happened, although there was some helplessness and sadness, But he also began to convince himself that even if he didn't get married, he could live a peaceful and simple life, his heart at the age of 50 no longer fluctuated, he began to understand that a person could live well, he began to smile at the people around him, he began to feel the process of a flower from seed to bloom, he began to raise a docile kitten to nest on his knees, read quietly, and spend a weekend alone, maybe some people will feel that such love is also pitiful, lonely, and bear the hardships and loneliness of life alone, But all colleagues and students feel that this aunt is very happy, from the happiness of inner peace and contentment, at the age of 60, this aunt can already understand Japanese, can belly dance, practice yoga, and has traveled to many beautiful places, and a person's life does not have to be too burdensome, and there is not much to do.

You don't have to have a wife and children, a car and a house, you don't have to be happy with these, you don't have to be happy without these, the key is to think about it, you only have one life, you don't understand your life, you can't judge the choices of others, you often marry Japanese people when you study abroad, the divorce rate is high after the first episode of the lawyer's retirement, I used to live in an old man at that time, and I found that almost all the old people around me are the protagonists, but they are happy with their own little life, and they will drink wine and water flowers and raise dogs, I saw a survey data in the uncle hall showing that 1/5 of the people over 60 years old in Japan are single, one in every five Japanese elderly people has been single, and has been retired, because of the various habits of the husband and the unwillingness to swallow the divorce of women, the number is not there, and it is also rising, and in recent years, the marriage rate of young people in Japan is breaking the lowest authority in history year by year, causing widespread concern about social problems, and in the rapid development of China's large, medium and small cities, This phenomenon is also a matter of sooner or later, the people who come back to him, do you find that there are more elementary and junior high school classmates who get married early, and college graduate students and colleagues of the same age in the company get married less, so there is no need to say with a fluke mentality, I will always meet the person in that fate, um.

I don't want to discuss these issues in this article, I can't afford the complex social problems behind it, because I have a strong premonition that I won't get married, so I have to think about it, what will happen if I don't get married?

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