Persistence is a good character, but in some things, excessive persistence will lead to greater waste, and it is wise to give up.

Nobel laureate Pauline said, "A good researcher knows which ideas to develop and which ones to discard, otherwise a lot of time is wasted on bad ideas." There are some things that we try our best to, but sooner or later we will find ourselves in a dilemma, and the research route you take may just be a dead end. At this time, the wisest way is to withdraw and work on other projects to find opportunities for success. ”

Hongmei gave up competing with a hundred flowers, but won the eternal reputation of Aoxue Lingshuang; The hermit gave up the worldly pursuit of fame and fortune, and finally returned to the tranquility and indifference of life; Even Bill Gates became the richest man in the world because he gave up the computer course he was taking. Isn't it? There are really trade-offs in life!

Maybe it's nature, maybe it's vanity, and the pursuit of perfection in our bones is always deeply embedded in the depths of our hearts. We are reluctant to give up at all, reluctant to give up all kinds of desires in this mortal world. However, let's face it, we have to give up something. The world itself is not a perfect world, and the same is true of one's own life. You should always learn to give up unnecessary things, and only when you learn to give up can you start with ease.

Generally speaking, the higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment rate. If you set your goals too ambitious, you usually end up with less than you expected. Bad emotions arise due to failure to achieve the set goals, which is completely incompatible with yourself.

We are always making choices in life, and when we understand that some choices are wrong, we need to know to give up decisively.

Yu Ximan, who has the title of the first person in Chinese color, returned to China to establish the "Ximan Color Studio". She brought the internationally popular "Color Season Theory" to China, and she made Chinese women realize the charm of color.

Yu Ximan studied economics in Japan, but after graduating, she studied hard for two years with her love of color, and obtained the qualification of relevant professional color, at that time, she became the only Chinese among more than 2,000 color consultants in the world.

Abroad, she saw that the clothing of Chinese compatriots often caused criticism from others, and every time she heard such words, she would have a strong feeling that she wanted to make Chinese people beautiful.

Subsequently, she gave up her affluent life abroad and resolutely returned to her homeland, and in l998 she founded China's first color studio in Beijing. In the face of the different consumer groups in China, at the beginning, Yu Ximan only determined the price based on his own subjectivity.

After a while, she found that this was not suitable for most groups, and it also went against her original intention of letting all Chinese know what color is. So, she re-planned, lowered the price, and did a lot of auxiliary work, and as a result, she achieved very good results, not only rich women, but also young fashion people also flocked, and even the elderly people became guests of the studio, and the hotline was constantly ringing.

When summing up her experience, Yu Ximan said: The main reason for her success is that she knows how to give up, because there is no new beginning without giving up.

Yu Ximan gave up her enviable job several times and started over because she deeply understood her interests, characteristics and her own value.

It is not difficult to see from Yu Ximan's story that a person's energy is limited, and learning to give up at the right time is a wise choice.

Sometimes you wear yourself out physically and mentally in order to force something or something, and it is not clear if it is cost-effective to do so. Therefore, when you like something, you must think about it, is it the wisest choice for you to get it? Don't waste your energy and still can't get it.

In the journey of life, there are many people who are full of ambition and strive towards their goals, which is a very good thing, but there are also many people who suffer from failure because they are obsessed with the goals they set but cannot achieve them.

There is such an employee who is often blamed for being clumsy all the time. In more than 4 years, he was fired many times, and his boss fired him after a job could not be done for a few months. He used to work in an insurance company, but for more than three months, due to his poor eloquence, he didn't even sign a policy; He used to work as a porter at the docks, and the money he could earn couldn't even cover his own food and clothing; He also used to stand at the counter as a salesman, but he soon lost his job again because of his clumsiness. He could barely do anything, and was called scrap.

Once, a friend happened to read an article he wrote and thought it was very literary, so he encouraged him to engage in literary creation. He picked up the pen with the attitude of giving it a try, and finally wrote the novel "Bright Sword", which became popular all over the country, and he became a household name. He finally found his own survival soil in the field of literary creation, proving that he can also succeed, he is Du Liang.

In your life, you often borrow the hand of failure, prompting people to explore and adjust again and again. Life is a process of continuous exploration, and sometimes failure is not because you are not capable enough or knowledgeable, but because you have chosen the wrong goal, or although you have chosen the right goal at the beginning, the environment and conditions have changed.

Experts believe that a person must go through at least two or three changes before finally finding a career and goal that suits his strengths. Failure is a great opportunity to rethink and move away from mistakes, and of course, it's great if you can change direction before you fail.

In life, we should use wisdom prudently, make the most correct judgment, choose the right direction, and don't forget to review the angle of choice in time and adjust it in time. When we work hard for our ideals, but we get lost and hit a wall on the complicated road of life, we must turn a corner, and correct our ideals according to our own abilities at any time, and only by finding the most suitable path for our own development will we achieve something.

The secret of a successful person is to check whether there is any deviation in their choices at any time, adjust their goals reasonably, give up unnecessary stubbornness, and easily move towards success.

After knowing what it is to give up and how to give up, should you understand it, and whether you can give up at the right time in your life? Maybe it's hard, especially for the things you like, but a wise person will always make the right abandonment.

There was a saying: clench your hands, then there is nothing in them; Stretch out your hands, and you'll have everything you want. Giving up at the right time is a calm and generous life and a wise choice. After giving up, you may be relaxed, have time to do what you are more willing to do, and after giving up, you may have the courage to renew the world.