"Da Lang, if you don't reach your father's knowledge, don't follow your father's example today."

"Mother, why?" Zhao Qian asked puzzled.

Looking at my son as when he was a child, he looked like a curious baby. Qin Yuzhen only thinks that this baby is too cute! Just remembered that 'not cute' was a word that Empress Dowager Chen often used to criticize Zhao Jiaren, and Qin Yuzhen held back this evaluation. After thinking for a while, Qin Yuzhen said, "Da Lang, have you ever been seen through at a glance?" ”

"Yes. Since I was a child, I could be seen through by my mother in everything I did. Zhao Qian replied cheerfully.

"Hey! Aren't you upset?! Qin Yuzhen was choked by these words.

"No, I don't. As long as I'm by my mother's side, I'm happy. ”

Hearing her son's heartfelt words, Qin Yuzhen felt angry and funny. I heard a cat bark again, and when I turned my head to look, I saw that the female cat was driving away the half-sized cat that had rubbed past. Qin Yuzhen turned back, only feeling that her mood at this time was no different from that of the mother cat.

"Da Lang, the ministers of the DPRK and the Central Committee will not regard the official family as their parents. Alas......" Speaking of this, Qin Yuzhen couldn't help but sigh. She has read so many history books, but she has never seen such a close relationship between the prince and her father, who is the emperor. It's hard to find an example. But at this time, there was no other way, Qin Yuzhen knew that she had to educate her son hard, so she could only continue: "Your father's cleverness lies not only in knowing how to deal with difficulties, but also in knowing why others think so. This is called being too clever and too much. The ministers of the DPRK and China knew that the officials even knew what they thought, and they were afraid that they were extremely dissatisfied! ”

"I don't think so, do I?" Zhao Qian responded.

"I knew you would say that!" Qin Yuzhen sighed: "If you want to fly to the sky like your father, I won't blame you." But most of the ministers don't think so, and most of them want fame and fortune. If they really think so, they don't just hide it. But which minister have you ever seen tell the truth? At this time, you have to take care of their face, you say you don't care if I see through you. But every time you were exposed by me when you were a child, you didn't desperately say that you weren't you! The Chancellor is the same as you! ”

"Mother, I used to think it was shameful to be exposed, but now I don't think so." Zhao Qian responded.

"Good! You got it, you got it! But the ministers don't understand! Qin Yuzhen felt that this son was becoming more and more like his father, that is, more and more uncute!

After angrily reprimanding her son for a few words, Qin Yuzhen saw that Zhao Qian seemed to have not received any blows and continued: "Mother, I recently read what I wrote before, and I only think that what I wrote before is nonsense. But my dad said that you can't take not understanding as a mistake. Many times if you don't know how to pretend to understand, you at least want to understand, but you don't have the ability. I now feel like I used to talk nonsense, but at that time I only had nonsense, and since I was going to speak, I couldn't say anything other than nonsense......"

"Get out of here!" Qin Yuzhen pointed to the door of the living room and said. This reprimand worked, and Zhao Qian obediently stood up and went out to get out.

The unlovely son is gone, Qin Yuzhen's anger was not extinguished because of this, she stood up angrily and walked a few steps back and forth in the room, and stood by the floor-to-ceiling window with her hands on her chest and looked out. At this time, it was already dark, and she saw her son riding a horse under the street lamp, but Qin Yuzhen was worried that her son's road would not be too dark. Just as I was thinking about it, I saw several carriages with horse lamps driving into the courtyard, and not long after her husband Zhao Jiaren got out of the car.

When Zhao Jiaren entered the living room, Qin Yuzhen still turned to Zhao Jiaren with her hands on her chest. Then I heard my husband Zhao Jiaren ask happily: "Oh? What are you angry about? ”

"You still know I'm going to be angry?" Qin Yuzhen is ready to have a good theory with her husband.

I thought that Zhao Jiaren would come over and say a few warm words, but I saw Zhao Jiaren sitting on the sofa in a smooth posture, and his limbs were spread out on the sofa in a very supple posture. If it was before, Qin Yuzhen would still feel that her husband was very elegant, but at this time, she did not praise Zhao Jiaren's mood, she then listened to Zhao Jiaren continue: "The action of holding your hands in front of your chest indicates that you want to distance yourself from others, make this action, plus your expression, more than ninety percent of you may be angry." ”

"You know I'm angry and still talking like that?" Qin Yuzhen was accumulating anger.

"Yes." Zhao Jiaren replied a little tiredly: "I'm very tired today, and I can't gather any mental strength." ”

Qin Yuzhen felt that she couldn't let go of Zhao Jiaren, so she continued to fold her arms and said in a mocking tone as much as possible: "You said so many big things, and I used up my heart when I thought about it." ”

"Big talk? If only I had said big words, I was just telling them that the abyss was in front of them, but they couldn't see it. All they saw was a few blades of grass in front of them, and they couldn't see Mount Tai in sight. It's useless to say anything. But I don't blame them...... By the way, did you say that, did Da Lang come to ask you for something? ”

Hearing this, Qin Yuzhen felt that her anger had not yet been filled, and it had not yet reached the point where she could explode like a torrent. But at this time, it can't be done if she doesn't have a seizure, as far as she knows Zhao Jiaren, the old slave will go back to the study in a while. chased into the study to get angry, Qin Yuzhen really couldn't do it. At this point, the proud husband must be let know that he must bow his head. With more than half a groove of anger, Qin Yuzhen said loudly: "What Da Lang is saying now is extremely arrogant, don't you know!" ”

"I know. You're right. ”

Hearing that her husband actually agreed, Qin Yuzhen was half angry, "Then you still want to teach him to continue walking like this?!" ”

Qin Yuzhen saw her husband move his body slightly to make himself sit more comfortably, and then replied, "He has to go out on his own." Don't be angry, don't be angry. The reason Da Lang is so arrogant now is because he is not a natural materialist like you. But he's your son after all, and he's trying to use what he's learned from me to reach your pure essence. We could only watch him climb on his own. ”

"How did it all become my responsibility?" Qin Yuzhen said loudly, putting down her arm angrily. But this was not the first time her husband had mentioned this point, the anger in Qin Yuzhen's heart quickly dissipated, and she walked straight to sit opposite her husband.

"Yuzhen, I said it a long time ago. People are divided into two grades. The winning group and the losing group of life. For a materialist by nature like you, you've already passed. In every exam in life, you score a minimum of 61 points and earn 1. If in a field you are familiar with, you earn 31 points on the exam with a score of 91. For you, it's just about earning more and earning less anyway. Your life is all about accumulation. The more you accumulate, the richer your heart and pocket becomes. The thicker the accumulation, the more calm you will be in the face of problems. If you really encounter an exam that you can't pass at all, you will choose to give up decisively. Letting go is a relief for you and a way to be kind to yourself. Zhao Qian himself is afraid that he doesn't know how much you want to be an elegant person like you. ”

Qin Yuzhen only felt that her brows were already furrowed, and the tension she felt on her forehead effectively communicated her body and spirit, allowing her to concentrate on understanding what she had heard. It is very difficult to understand the world in her husband's eyes, even if her husband can understand every word, but it has always been very, very, very difficult for Qin Yuzhen to make these words resonate with herself, and then outline the world that her husband sees.

After thinking about it for a while, Qin Yuzhen only felt as if she understood a little. But there was still a big piece missing, and she could only ask: "What does that life loser look like?" ”

After finishing speaking, she saw a wry smile on her husband's face, just when Qin Yuzhen was worried that her husband would sing the Laipi tune of "I won't tell you, I won't tell you" like before. But I heard my husband continue to speak seriously, but his tone was helpless, "If it is a failure group in life, they will fail." In order to be able to pass, you can only do your best to make up the difference. The life of the loser is not accumulation, and accumulation is the business of the winner's group. The life of the losing group is to consume, consume, and consume. They are like people standing on the gallows, with a noose around their necks. The success or failure of everything determines whether the rope is tightened or loosened a little. Their lives are completely dependent on the success or failure of everything, so they live in pain in the consumption of gains and losses, and they can feel that the noose will one day be completely tightened and their lives will be completely strangled. So these people are either panicking and bewildered, trying to squeeze joy out of everything to please themselves. Or simply pretend not to see, just focus on the mouse's eyes where the light can reach, look at the flowers and plants, and let the world push them to the inevitable end. Finally, they end their lives in eternal self-consumption. This is the loser group of life. ”

Qin Yuzhen only felt as if her chest was filled with ice, and she couldn't even stand up and flee from the person in front of her who was spreading despair. Then she heard Zhao Jiaren continue: "Da Lang has your blood in his body, and he can feel the end of consumption, so he wants to do everything to make himself strong, and he can face everything calmly like you." ”

Qin Yuzhen couldn't help but feel sad, and her eyes were already blurred. But after a few moments, her vision was clear again, and the few tears dissipated in a moment. When I looked at my husband again, I saw this guy with an exhausted dead dog face, pull out a cigarette, and take out a cigarette and light it.

"You're his father, you should teach him!" Qin Yuzhen said sadly.

"I tried. But if you think about the story of eliminating the three evils everywhere. The surrounding area has been fierce and chivalrous since childhood, and it has been suffered by the township...... "Shh But the content of the surrounding place comes to mind.

Circumference...... The place is less lonely, not weak crown, brawn and unbeatable, good galloping field hunting, not cultivating meticulously, indulging in wanton desires, and the state is in trouble. He knew that he was evil, but he had the ambition to change, and said to his father: "Now and the year is abundant, why not be happy?" The father sighed: "The three evils have not been eliminated, what a joy!" He said, "What do you mean?" He replied: "The white-fronted beast of Nanshan is under the long bridge, and the son is three." He said, "If this is a problem, I can get rid of it." The father said: "If the son gets rid of it, then the great celebration of a county will not be harmed in vain." "The place is to go into the mountain to shoot the beast, because of the water to fight Jiao, Jiao or sink or float, travel dozens of miles, and everywhere with it, after three days and three nights, people say death, all celebrate. Killing Jiao and reversing, hearing the celebration of the township, I knew that people were suffering from themselves, and they entered Wu to find two lands. When the time was not there, when he saw the clouds, he told him with affection, saying: "If you want to self-cultivate, you have already lost your years, and I am afraid that you will not be able to do it." Yun said: "The ancients have heard that the dynasty has changed, and the future of the king is acceptable, and the will is not established, why worry about the lack of fame!" "He is inspirational and studious, thoughtful, righteous and martyred, and faithful and self-denying.

…… Be righteous and martyrful, and be faithful and self-denying. Qin Yuzhen suddenly felt that she understood something. 'Words must be faithful and self-denial', the three brothers and two sisters of the Zhao family, according to 'benevolence, righteousness, etiquette, wisdom and faith', everyone got a word. The eldest son Zhao Jiaxin, the second son Zhao Jiali, and the third son Zhao Jiaren. These names also represent Empress Dowager Chen's expectations for her children. And his son named Zhao Qian and Zhao Xun is also expected to be able to understand these truths. Zhao Qian still doesn't understand the meaning of 'humble', and only the six hexagrams in "Zhou Yi" are auspicious. As Qin Yuzhen's eldest son, Zhao Qian is the most important child in Qin Yuzhen's heart. Zhou Chu understood 'self-denial', self-denial wins, but Zhao Qian's mind is on winning.

"Self-denial wins...... Qin Yuzhen sighed.

"The losers of life have experienced the terrible attrition, and their attention must be on winning. Therefore, the victory of those who are good at fighting has no wisdom and no bravery, so they defeat those who are not good, and those who are not good will be victorious, and those who have been defeated will also be victorious. Therefore, those who are good at fighting are invincible, and they will not lose the defeat of the enemy. Therefore, the victorious army wins first and then seeks battle, and the defeated army fights first and then seeks victory. Those who make good use of soldiers, cultivate the Tao and protect the law, so they can be the government of victory and defeat. Zhao Jiaren sighed.

Qin Yuzhen actually didn't like the art of war, but she had already understood it at this time. Zhao Jiaren had already talked about this passage, and she said helplessly: "Therefore, the victorious soldiers win first and then seek battle, and the defeated soldiers fight first and then seek victory." Sure enough, it's the winner's group and the loser's group in life......"

With endless frustration, Qin Yuzhen looked at her husband. She suddenly remembered that she had greatly doubted whether Zhao Jiaren's life had experienced far more frustration than ordinary people. That's why he can see the world clearly from what he usually calls 'between the words'. But no matter how Qin Yuzhen asked, what she learned about Zhao Jiaren's life was extremely glamorous and never failed.

If this is really the kind of life, why is it that the understanding of failure is more thorough and ruthless than that of those who lose? If it weren't for the pain of failure, it would never have been possible to face it so calmly. Although Qin Yuzhen doesn't know what this truth is, she firmly believes in Zhao Jiaren's sentence, 'If you haven't eaten pork, you won't know what pork tastes like if you live with pigs all day long'.