Zhao Jiaren took a shower very late and returned to the bedroom. He thought that his wife was already asleep, but he didn't expect that as soon as he lay down, he heard his wife lying on his side say faintly: "San Lang, what happened to these children all of a sudden." ”

Zhao Jiaren just found a comfortable sleeping position for his wife's answer, and then said: "They grew up and began to try to live in their own way." In a few years, the gang will start a family and then leave home to live independently. Speaking of which, Zhao Jiaren was very impatient with his own reasonable mode, so he changed his words.

"Just like the nests of swallows in our house, when the little swallows grow up, they squat on the nest with their butts facing outward, chirping and chirping. Every day, we have to pull the ground, and we have to use slag to pad the ground so that it can be cleaned. However, after a while, the little swallow will begin to learn to fly, and then it will grow up and leave the nest. ”

His wife didn't speak, and Zhao Jiaren was ready to sleep. Their own children can also use swallows as a metaphor, and those officials can probably only be described as vultures. Dancing with these guys is a lot of work. Or that requires a lot of patience, and Zhao Jiaren sometimes really wants to use large-scale denigration and heavy blame to deal with these people. On weekdays, you should pay attention to the spirit, so that you can concentrate on coping when you need energy.

Just when Zhao Jiaren was about to fall asleep, he suddenly heard Qin Yuzhen's low sobbing voice. Zhao Jiaren wanted to ignore it, but he couldn't let go, so he could only sit up forcibly, and then asked, "What's wrong?" It is inevitable that the child will leave us. Isn't that true of swallows? ”

"If I knew they had to leave, why did I give birth to them in the first place?" Qin Yuzhen said with a sob.

Zhao Jiaren's first thought was whether his wife had reached menopause. Menopausal syndrome is also known as perimenopausal syndrome. The underlying cause of perimenopausal syndrome is ovarian failure due to physiological or pathological or surgical causes. Once ovarian function fails or is removed and destroyed, the ovaries produce less estrogen. There are more than 400 kinds of estrogen receptors in the female body, which are distributed in almost all tissues and organs of the female body, and are controlled and innervated by estrogen.

This response and the theory of neuronal connections are the two basic pillars of knowledge that Zhao Jiaren completely became a materialist. The so-called soul refers to the fact that people have a single soul, and the purity or pollution of the soul or other characteristics determine the different behavioral characteristics of each person.

However, from a medical point of view, any human behavior is related to the reaction of the human body. Hormones, the morphological rewriting of neuronal connections caused by the electrification of various neurons after being stimulated, determine human behavior.

With such proof of the primacy of pure materiality, there is nowhere for the soul. Thus creating the existence of Zhao Jiaren, a staunch materialist. Of course, this is not just Zhao Jiaren, but the doctors are actually the same. They may have mystical ideas, but they themselves really can't believe in the gods of religious propaganda.

What I talked to my son Zhao Qian about today is something based on materialism, and now I have to talk to my wife based on materialism, Zhao Jiaren is quite helpless.

Of course, Zhao Jiaren did not give his wife a physiology lesson. He just said, "I said, your parents didn't accuse you of coming to live with me after marrying me." My mother never blamed me, and after being admitted to the Jinshi and becoming an official, she ran around as an official. After getting married, we moved around Quanzhou, Fuzhou, and Guangzhou. You also never complain. ”

This kind of affectionate approach seemed to have played a role, Qin Yuzhen sobbed a few times in a low voice, and asked Zhao Jiaren, "San Lang, I'm so unreasonable, are you angry?" ”

"I'm never mad at you." Zhao Jiaren said big things that should be said.

"But I'm very angry with Jiro today. At such a young age, he made his own decisions about marriage! We sent him to school so that he could study hard. Qin Yuzhen said in a very serious tone.

"I think what our three babies did was a bit unexpected for us. But is everything they doing normal? You tell me. ”

"Normal? What's going on? Qin Yuzhen couldn't understand Zhao Jiaren's starting point.

"That is to say, their reactions are very normal. You could say that these reactions are not progressive enough, or mature enough, or more radical. But as human beings, they are all very normal people. Their thoughts and wishes are normal human wishes. It's not right or wrong, it's just that we feel more abrupt as parents. ”

“…… ......, they're all normal. You're not normal. Qin Yuzhen, who didn't know what to say, threw down a word of criticism, and then turned her head to give Zhao Jiaren a back.

Zhao Jiaren didn't bother to defend himself. The job of a psychologist is to make people realize that they are normal or abnormal. Recognize that your behavior is normal or abnormal. Recognize whether your ideas and practices are appropriate or inappropriate. In short, their job is to make society as normal as possible, so that society is not disturbed. However, psychologists who do this kind of work are often considered abnormal.

This was the case in the previous life, and when he encountered the same treatment in this life, Zhao Jiaren was able to live at ease. Seeing that his wife was about to sleep, Zhao Jiaren also lay down to sleep. With no one to disturb him, Zhao Jiaren quickly fell asleep.

I woke up the next day, and it was another working day. Zhao Jiaren ate breakfast, and before he was about to go out, he suddenly turned his head and said to his wife: "I'm just assuming a possibility." If Jiro is serious this time, talk to me seriously. Then we have to think about whether we want to meet the little lady and meet the little lady's parents. ”

"Do you really take this seriously?" Qin Yuzhen asked puzzled.

"If it's not true, what else can we do." Zhao Jiaren expressed his opinion, "We have always taught children to do things from beginning to end, and we have to be role models." Even if we don't agree, we have to have a result of not agreeing. Besides, I remember you said that you were happy when you married Jinshi. But when you were asked to marry into the royal family, you would definitely refuse. If you are such a smart man, I don't think our son will look down on a fool. ”

"Humph! is coquettish at such a young age, and he is not a smart person when he thinks about it! Qin Yuzhen said hatefully.

Seeing his wife like this, Zhao Jiaren immediately closed his mouth in amusement and turned his head to go out. Although it is very tiring to fight with officials, it is probably not easy to fight with his wife's family.