Chapter 228: Are You a Psychiatrist? (Ask for a subscription!) )
Hanging up the phone, Zhu Mingtong smiled helplessly: "Zhu Xiaoming's mother is really heartbroken for him, I have received no less than five blind dates this year." ”
"Xihu, I wish Xiaoming agreed to go on a blind date?" The concubine asked a little angrily.
"I agreed, but I was forced by his parents." Zhu Ming channel.
"Sure enough, the man doesn't have a good thing, obviously he has gotten along with Yan Sisi, and he actually promised to go on a blind date, this is a spiritual derailment, I must let Sisi know that Zhu Xiaoming is a fancy person." The concubine said angrily.
"Uh...... Concubines, some have passed and some have passed, blind date, just a formality, Zhu Xiaoming is still quite disgusted, and it is not as bad as you said. Zhu Mingtong explained.
"If he really wants to take the slightest thing to heart, he should decisively refuse, not with a trace of luck." The concubine said seriously, feeling that it was not worth it for Yan Sisi.
Some people say that blind date is a kind of probability, one out of ten blind dates can achieve a very good achievement, more than ten blind dates, the more difficult the probability of successful blind dates in the future.
In the end, almost as soon as I heard the word blind date, the first reaction in my heart was disgust, regardless of gender.
There are even people who have been on blind dates all the time and have never succeeded, this kind of person has developed an extreme aversion to blind dates, and at the same time has another person in his heart.
Most of the blind dates are forced by their parents, and in the end it is nothing more than a formality.
And with the development of the times, the motivation of men to chase women is far less passionate than before, and over time, it has become that you don't bird me, and I don't bother to chase you, why should I go to lick the dog. In addition to the pressure of public opinion and life in society, the men who are pressed are out of breath, how can they have the energy to deal with the careful thinking of women.
In this way, it will be formed, after the girl added the boy's WeChat, she chatted for a few days, and found that the boy's enthusiasm for her slowly faded, and in the end, she almost didn't bother to contact, so she lay quietly in the address book and didn't ask anymore.
At this time, women will wonder what is wrong with these men, so they start looking for posts on the Internet, and in an instant, all kinds of chicken soup for the soul that fills their minds are poured into their minds.
Yes, topics such as straight male cancer, slings, dead fat houses, machismo, and good men are dead are overwhelmingly washing her soul...... In the end, it was concluded that these stinky men were not worthy of themselves at all.
So after the men ignored them, the women who got the comfort of chicken soup for the soul finally got relief, not because they were not good enough, but because these people were not worthy of themselves.
Over time, I was left, and my vision became higher, and no one looked down on me.
This is why there is a general trend in this society where there are more and more young men and women who are older.
In fact, if you think about it the other way, if a woman takes the initiative, this society is still very harmonious, and it is estimated that when you go out and meet a friend, almost no one will be single.
Of course, the values of this society are distorted, the minds of men and women are also changing, and there are so many things involved in a marriage.
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After breaking away from the mortal body, Zhu Xiaoming went home, which was the formation of a consciousness by the mortal body.
In fact, the existence of an independent personality does not mean that there will be a fault in consciousness when it is occupied by the immortal body.
The Heavenly Court system has done a good job in this regard, and the independent personality will produce similar scenes to form memories and gather in the minds of mortals, maybe Zhu Xiaoming just went out for a trip, and also met Qiu Dewang, and also went to Seven Star Park, originally wanted to get together with Yan Sisi, but Yan Sisi had a strict family education, and then received a call from his mother to ask him to go on a blind date.
A series of memories will appear in the minds of mortals, so Zhu Xiaoming has no choice but to accept his parents' arrangement to go on a blind date.
If they don't go, their parents will be angry and their relatives will be stiff, which is really not good for their family.
After returning home, under the chatter of Huang Lianyu, he took a bath and changed into decent clothes, and Zhu Xiaoming's parents took Zhu Xiaoming to a restaurant that had been booked for boiled live fish.
Before the woman's family arrived, Zhu Xiaoming sat on the chair bored, picked up his mobile phone and complained to the concubine.
I thought Yan Sisi would be angry, but I didn't expect Yan Sisi to be quite generous, joking with Zhu Xiaoming and asking him to try to get along.
Of course, Zhu Xiaoming was not happy, saying that he only had Yan Sisi and the like in his heart.
It's just that because Yan Sisi is still young, there are still two years left when she reaches the legal age of marriage, and when she reaches the age, she will definitely go to Yan Sisi's house to propose marriage.
This blind date was a last resort, just a formality.
While chatting with Yan Sisi, at the door of the private room, the woman's parents and the girl finally came.
Huang Lianyu and Zhu Linshan were as enthusiastic as they were in their in-laws, and they also told Zhu Xiaoming to be sensible and polite.
Zhu Xiaoming also noticed the girl, she was quiet, with cute air bangs, long hair just over the shoulders, slightly modified makeup, she looked like the well-behaved appearance of the girl next door, especially a pair of eyes are really delicate and moving, giving people a quiet and elegant feeling.
The girl has a good face, not the kind that is stunning and superb, but it is the appearance of many people's ideal wife, she seems a little cramped and shy, and after sitting down, she glanced at Zhu Xiaoming and sat there with her head down without saying a word.
After some pleasantries, the hot dishes are served.
Almost all the people in the two families were shushing and asking for warmth, and after a while, Huang Lianyu looked at the girl.
"Shuwen, this child, this child is willful, let her believe that she doesn't come, she likes to stay at home to read books and do lesson plans, and she doesn't know what to do every day, and she doesn't have time to fall in love.
Others told her to go out to play, and she didn't go, which really me off. The woman's mother was dressed very plainly, but in her words she praised her daughter.
The girl's name is Lin Shuwen, and her name has a bit of a scholarly taste.
"Shuwen's mother, you're still angry, my family's Xiao Ming just let me worry about it, I've never been in love since I was so old, but it made me worry to death.
Although Xiao Ming doesn't say that what he does outside is booming, but it is also an iron rice bowl job, and he is also in the education industry with books, I think these two children should be able to talk together. Huang Lianyu said that she was very satisfied with Lin Shuwen.
"Xiao Ming's mother, we are not unreasonable people, our two families are also ordinary families, the most important thing is to see how the children themselves talk about it, for marriage, what we advocate is not interference, but only love, if the two of them want to talk about it, it would be better." Lin Shuwen's father said.
"Shuwen is a kindergarten teacher, Xiao Ming is a middle school teacher, if the two can get good together, their descendants can also receive a good education in the future." Huang Lianyu was very satisfied when she heard it.
Lin Shuwen's family is not the kind of snobbish family, and the family background is not bad, and he will not ask for this or that, a blind date is the same as buying and selling goods.
It's a great environment where both families are inclined to education.
And Lin Shuwen's parents are also very sensible, advocating that there is only love, and blind date is just a formality, if I wish Xiaoming and Lin Shuwen can succeed, they also agree with this marriage.
Huang Lianyu and Lin Shuwen's mother chatted quite speculatively, and as they talked, they had already talked about the future marriage of the two children and the education of the children in the future.
And Zhu Linshan and Lin Shuwen's father don't like to get involved, Zhu Linshan gave Lin Shuwen a cigarette, toasted each other a few glasses of wine, and the two began to talk about men.
After a dinner, Zhu Xiaoming really didn't be able to interject.
The main reason is that he doesn't want to talk, and he is chatting with Yan Sisi about the blind date, but in fact, he is afraid that Yan Sisi will be worried, so he is returning the blind date.
As for Lin Shuwen, he cast his gaze intentionally or unintentionally, and Zhu Xiaoming didn't know what it meant.
The blind date dinner lasted nearly two hours before it ended.
"Shuwen, leave a contact information, and contact me often in the future." Huang Lianyu immediately patted Zhu Xiaoming's shoulder and asked Zhu Xiaoming to add a book.
Lin Shuwen was indeed very shy, nodded, and let Zhu Xiaoming sweep her; "Now young people like to go to cafes to watch movies or something, let's not be out of step with the times, Xiao Ming, take people around." Huang Lianyu dragged and urged Zhu Xiaoming, who was motionless.
Zhu Xiaoming was very helpless, and Lin Shuwen's parents were also persuading her.
In this way, the two left the Sichuan restaurant one after the other.
The problem is that Zhu Xiaoming hasn't said a word to this girl from beginning to end, and he really doesn't know how to speak.
It doesn't seem polite to leave directly, do you really go to the movies together?
In this case, he will feel guilty about Yan Sisi in his heart.
"Just go for a walk." Zhu Xiaoming glanced at Lin Shuwen, who was slightly shy, and said.
Lin Shuwen nodded, and followed Zhu Xiaoming's side, unable to see what he thought.
The two walked along the street for an unknown amount of time, and Lin Shuwen asked, "Are you a psychiatrist?" ”
"Well, the person in charge of adolescent psychological counseling, hehe, don't think I am as powerful as the psychological master on TV, my major is adolescent counseling." Zhu Xiaoming replied.
Lin Shuwen smiled, but he was a little interested in Zhu Xiaoming and said: "But I see that you don't say a word at the dinner table, no matter how you look at it, you don't look like a psychology teacher."
I thought that all the psychology teachers could speak well. ”
Zhu Xiaoming's mind was not on Lin Shuwen's body at all, and the mobile phone was all Yan Sisi's news, so he hurriedly buried his head and chatted with Yan Sisi.
"Are you busy?" Lin Shuwen seemed to be a little unhappy and said.
"Well, I'm a little busy, I may not be able to accompany you, so it's better to contact you another day." Zhu Xiaoming can't wait to leave.
"That'...... All right. ”
After saying goodbye to Lin Shuwen, Zhu Xiaoming breathed a long sigh of relief.
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