- I have a long telescope that stretches all the way to your house, and I know what you do-

Really, I remember believing this sentence before I was about 6 years old.

Before I was in junior high school, I lived in the countryside in the fields of my motherland.

Before elementary school, I believed in two things. Even now, it still affects me.

1. Peeing and pooping on a well (rural drinking water well) is a recipe for rotting and breaking your leg (when I was in the second or third grade of elementary school, I still walked around the well, fearing that I would accidentally get rocks and clods and get sick).

2. Those who scold their parents and elders and those who are not filial will be struck by lightning; Every time there is thunder in the sky, it is either splitting people or demons (I now see that lightning must be in the glass window, and when the light of lightning appears, I can't sleep).

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It's been a few days since this incident came out, and I saw that everyone was speaking out. I don't have many people reading books, so I don't think it makes a difference.

However, I always feel a little uncomfortable.

In addition to heartache, there is also incomprehension.

I just want to say, if you are already an adult, don't show your 'strength' to young beings.

Really, they will hate you for the rest of their lives.

Of course, there is also the possibility of meeting that kind of child who is vindictive and will attack you in his teens.

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Before the age of 3, it is generally difficult for humans to remember things, and even if they do, they are vague. However, some will make exceptions.

When my brother was 2 years old, his leg was burned by boiling water, and whenever someone asked him, or when he touched the scar himself, he would say in a childish voice, "Grandma is hot." ”

In fact, he poured the boiling water himself. It's just that time at my grandmother's house (fortunately, everyone was at home at the time, otherwise my grandmother would have cried and fainted~~). It wasn't until he was 6 or 7 years old that his grandmother washed away the 'crime' of scalding him with the help of everyone.

Suffice it to say that elephants hold grudges, let alone people.

Of course, there are also good people and good teachers. Today only the bad guys are spoken.

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Don't say it to young children, listen to the teacher (I really don't understand, why let your child listen to someone else?). )

Always ask, what did you do at school today? And start chatting and communicating with your child, don't ask about learning. Not every child is a learning genius, and if you ask too much about learning, children will not like to communicate with their parents in the future.

I often tell children that my father is the most powerful, even better than the teacher. Mom is also amazing, and she is even better than the teacher.

Don't use the stories we were scared to 'educate' our own children (for example, if the police arrest you and tell the teacher if you are disobedient at home, I really hear this kind of lesson for children).

Also, for example, lie to the child 'Daddy doesn't want you anymore, Mommy doesn't want you anymore'. And they believed the things that might be divided.

Children are disobedient (stealing other children's things, stealing other people's things, this must be smoked, never taken as a joke.) You can pump his ass, just the ass, not too hard, of course. The child's ability to bear it is very limited. The dynamics are mastered by themselves.

Also, other people's children (i.e. non-parents) should never be taught.

I just want to say that it's normal for children to be disobedient. Why worry about children?

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I rub, what did I write?

Anyway, I'm not in a good mood, and I hate that I can't pull those guys out and skin them...... Let's take a look.