Chapter Thirty-Six: Ideas
Since it's not easy to start from his son, why not start persuading from Xiaoguang. As long as Xiaoguang takes the initiative to break up with his son, or he is willing to leave his son. But relying on his son to be stubborn alone is not too much of a fault. When the time comes, I will persuade myself a little, and I believe that my son will understand their hard work.
The decision was made, and Dad Li began to think about how to persuade Xiaoguang to let go. After all, Xiaoguang is not his own child, so he should be more careful in terms of tone, don't persuade him when the time comes, and if he causes more trouble, it will be difficult to cause Xiaoguang's disgust.
Dad Li began to think again, how to persuade Xiaoguang at the beginning, it is more appropriate. Suddenly, the corner of his eye swept to the computer screen, and the picture of the recently launched historical blockbuster "Three Kingdoms" suddenly had an idea.
Isn't it said in the Three Kingdoms that knowing oneself and knowing that the other side can survive a hundred battles, the first thing to do is to investigate first, Huang Chenguang's background, family, hobbies, living environment, etc., it is best to know what he is afraid of and what he needs. In case necessary, use strong tactics.
The last time Xiaoguang came to the house, although he heard Xiaoli say that he sold computers, it seems that he also opened a company or something. But I see that he talks extraordinarily and has a wide range of knowledge, unlike just a businessman, so it's better to investigate and investigate.
Dad Li called his assistant Xiao Xu, Xiao Xu has followed Dad Li for many years, he is clever, he has eyes, and most importantly, his tone is tight enough, so it is absolutely reliable to let him investigate Huang Chenguang. After carefully instructing Xiao Xu, Dad Li was a little more relaxed.
When I got home from work in the afternoon, Dad Li told Mama Li about his plan, although Mama Li didn't know if this method would work, but she also felt that Dad's concerns were somewhat reasonable.
At present, it is indeed an important stage for her son to take the entrance examination, if he delays his studies because of these bad things, Li's mother will never allow it. This is also the reason why Li's mother easily let her son go back to school before.
In fact, Yili's mother's personality is to put aside the past, and this happened to her son. Li's mother will never spare her son so easily, Li Xiaoli will not give a satisfactory statement, Li's mother will never give up.
But there is no way, who made his son about to be promoted to the exam, the world is big, and his son's exam is the biggest. So in order not to affect her son's exam, Li's mother decided to cooperate with Li's father's method.
Seeing that his wife was willing to cooperate with him, Dad Li instructed his wife not to turn him away when Huang Chenguang came to the house again in the future, and not to argue with him about right and wrong, but to treat him as if nothing had happened. As soon as he takes the initiative to bring up the matter between him and Xiaoli, you make a pitiful gesture to impress him and make him realize that this matter is not right. Remember, don't argue with him, you have to take the bitter route, you have to use the heartbreaking, anxious, and sad emotions that see your son go astray to influence him, and let him take the initiative to leave Xiaoli.
After the husband and wife decided, they started to work and got busy.
Just like Huang Chenguang said when he left that day, Huang Chenguang came again this day, and Li's mother also let Huang Chenguang enter the door amicably as she had discussed with her husband before.
thought that after Huang Chenguang entered the house, he would definitely ask Mama Li to agree to accept the matter between the two of them. Na Cheng thought, since he entered the house, in addition to caring about Li's mother's physical condition, he chatted with some homely things. He didn't even mention the matter between them, and when Li Ma saw that he didn't mention it, Li Ma naturally wouldn't take the initiative to mention it. So, Huang Chenguang sat at home for a while, chatted with Li's mother for a few words, and left.
Li Ma originally thought that the purpose of his coming to see him was to tell him about them and persuade himself to accept and agree to them being together. I thought that he didn't mention it at all, which made Li's mother a little confused.
In the afternoon, when Li's father came back from work, Li's mother told him about Huang Chenguang's visit to the house today. When Dad Li heard this, he said, you turned him away because of that incident before, but today you finally let him in, and he won't be stupid enough to mention that matter again to provoke you to sweep him away. So don't worry, just be patient, I believe that as long as he has the heart to persuade us, sooner or later he will come again.
Sure enough, as Dad Li expected, Huang Chenguang came again the next day, and this time he came, not with expensive gifts like the previous two times, but with a basket of fresh strawberries.
Mama Li heard a knock on the door, and after opening the door, Huang Chenguang carried the basket and said with a smile: "I bought it on the side of the road, I saw that it was very fresh, so I bought it for my aunt to taste." That expression, that look, like a child who is coquettish like his mother, has no deliberate flattery at all.
After Li's mother let him into the house, she carried the basket into the kitchen and washed a fruit plate of strawberries and came out. The strawberries are very sweet, and Huang Chenguang's gentle smile is also very sweet, but Mama Li's heart is not sweet. Because since Huang Chenguang entered the door, he was still the same as yesterday, only chatting with himself, and he didn't mean to talk about him and Xiaoli at all. He didn't say it, even if Mama Li was in a hurry, it was impossible to mention it deliberately.
So, until Huang Chenguang left, the two still didn't say anything about him and Li Xiaoli.
After her husband got off work, Li's mother told him about Huang Chenguang's coming to the house again. Dad Li was not surprised when he heard this, and only advised Dad Li to wait patiently and just act according to plan.
On Li's father's side, Xiao Xu's investigation has also yielded results. Dad Li looked at Huang Chenguang's background information sent by Xiao Xu, and was silent for a moment.
thought that even if Huang Chenguang was born extraordinary, he was just a child of a wealthy family. Who would have thought that he was the grandson of General Huang and the son of Commander Huang.
Although Dad Li worked in an agency and had little contact with people in the military department, he had already heard of the famous Huang family, because anyone with status and status in the city had something to do with the Huang family.
The Huang family's power in this city is extremely strong, their family is directly in the army, and they are in business, and in the military and business worlds, it can be said that they can cover the sky with one hand and do everything.
That's why Dad Li was so shocked after seeing the information. You must know General Huang's reputation, anyone who hears it will be like thunder.
Dad Li put the information into the drawer with a heavy heart, leaned back on the leather chair tiredly, pinched his temples with his hands, and thought about something.
If Huang Chenguang was an ordinary child of a wealthy family, it would be very easy to deal with him with Dad Li's status. "Dad Li is the deputy director of the Quality Supervision Bureau, and it is no problem to deal with a businessman with his ability. 》
But Huang Chenguang is a member of the Huang family, and he is the grandson of General Huang in the Weizhen military world, even if he has ten guts, he does not dare to touch General Huang's grandson.
As Huang Chenguang, he can't move by himself, and he can't persuade him, so things are a lot trickier. Dad Li thought about it and decided to talk to Huang Chenguang first to find out his tone.
If, they are just carried away by love for a while, and there is still reason, then they don't need to worry, let them go, anyway, sooner or later they will be disconnected...
If he and Xiaoli are serious, and regardless of the opposition of their relatives, they insist on going down the wrong path like this, then they are trying to find a way to correct them.
When Dad Li thought about it, he immediately felt that this was the most appropriate way at present. So, he immediately took action, took out his mobile phone and called Huang Chenguang, and agreed to talk to him in person at a time and place.
Huang Chenguang received a call from Li's father and was very surprised. But he was only surprised for a while, and immediately realized what Dad Li was talking about.
Since Li's father and Li's mother knew about their relationship with Xiaoli, except for the time when they were rejected by Li's mother that day. The Li family did not make any noise, and there should have been a strong opposition.
With their performance like this, Huang Chenguang felt at a loss in his heart, if they beat and scolded Xiaoli or himself. Then he had a position to appease them, and even beg them, but they behaved too calmly, as if they didn't know about themselves and Xiaoli.
In fact, the more they are like this, the more bottomless Huang Chenguang's heart becomes, you must know that behind the calm, there are often rough waves.
In fact, Huang Chenguang is not afraid of the upcoming outbreak of the Li family, he is not afraid that the Li family will be embarrassed to deal with him, he is afraid that Li's father and Li mother will be embarrassed and force Li Xiaoli.
Huang Chenguang knows Li Xiaoli too well, he is kind and soft-hearted, and he attaches great importance to family affection. If the Li family insists on him to choose between love and family affection. Huang Chenguang believes that he will not give up on himself, let alone abandon the home he grew up in, he will only be embarrassed and sad.
Therefore, in order not to let Li Xiaoli face that kind of forced choice, Huang Chenguang decided to take the initiative to attack first and get rid of Li's father and mother.
Although it is impossible for parents to give their son to a man. But Huang Chenguang believes that as long as he works hard to let them see their sincerity, see their sincerity, and see that although they are a man, they can also give their son happiness, and I believe that one day, they will accept and recognize themselves.
Originally, Huang Chenguang was still sad, what method and reason should be used to persuade the second elder of the Li family. Later, I thought about it again, if I wanted to get the approval of the Li family's parents, I couldn't impress the second elder of the Li family with those opportunistic methods and reasons.
In fact, the best way to do this kind of thing is time, patience, and sincerity. As long as they are in enough time and let them see that they are patient enough and sincere enough, I believe that one day they will accept themselves.
Therefore, when Huang Chenguang went to Li's house to visit Li's mother, he never talked about himself and Li Xiaoli, let alone begged them to accept him.
Because once I ask them, it doesn't matter if they refuse or agree. They will be angry and angry because of this, and in that case, they will vent their anger on Li Xiaoli. It will only make things worse.
Regarding this time when Dad Li talked to him, Huang Chenguang more or less knew what Dad Li would say when he looked for him. But Huang Chenguang was not afraid of being nervous, and he didn't even make any special preparations for the upcoming conversation, he did what he had to do as usual.