Today, I went to station B and saw a micro-film about the sarcasm phenomenon "Dad: I'm also good for you" - Yang Yongxin's Ring {Magical Reality}, the content is nothing more than a joke spread on the Internet: The child is addicted to the Internet, and the parents send it to Professor Yang to receive electrotherapy, and then come out to retaliate against the parents who sent him to the Internet addiction school.

When I was young, I was also quite disgusted with Professor Yang, as a person who has been in contact with computers since he was seven or eight years old, Red Alert to Diablo, Journey Legend to Fantasy Journey to the West, CSOL to CF, Dragon Babu to World of Warcraft, Dota to League of Legends and now Dota 2 Auto Chess, I think that I have never drawn a line with computer games in my 26 years of life, what Call of Duty series, Civilization series, Mount and Blade series, Total War series, Battlefield series, Fallout series, Lao Roll series, etc., as long as it is popular, there are my footprintsGames were the only pastime I had when I was younger.

Then the game has also become a social tool, classmates and friends, everything likes to play games, and the relationship increases quickly. Then remember that when I was 18 years old, Yang Yongxin's Internet addiction school was in an uproar. At that time, our friends who played together were still sneering and swearing, well, the same sound as the Internet now.

- We don't need to know what a video game is, whether it will be addictive, whether it will affect grades, we just need a backstabber, a thing that covers up the failure of family education, the failure of student education, and the failure of social education. Now it's called a game, fifteen years ago it was called early love, twenty years ago it was called idol, twenty-five years ago it was called a Hong Kong movie, and thirty years ago it was called a martial arts novel.

Then time flies, from 18 years old to 26 years old now, nearly 9 years have passed, I look back on the past like a dream, time flies really fast, from an ignorant teenager, to an adult with parents, a wife, and a 3-year-old child. Then today I saw a mocking micro-film about Yang Yongxin again, and suddenly I felt that I wanted to say something, and I also wanted to talk about my feelings with young readers who like this book-

I don't know what your age is, I don't know if you are married and have children, and I don't know how your life is, but what I am going to talk about is not a big truth and a big truth, just my personal perception of life, from my personal identity and perspective, to talk to you like a friend.

The Internet addiction school founded by Yang Yongxin uses militarized management and brutal methods, and even uses a physical method similar to electrocution to destroy children who like to play with computers - commonly known as 'Internet addicted teenagers', which is almost recognized by the state as a living habit of mental illness.

Then the Internet was hyped up, and everyone cursed Yang Yongxin's Internet addiction school from various social media. As mentioned earlier, I used to be one of the curses within. It's just that now, after I left school, officially started working, and had a wife and children, and formed my own family, I saw similar videos or articles again, and all the comments at the bottom applauded, and suddenly I felt a heaviness in my heart.

Everyone seems to have forgotten why the term 'internet addiction' came about. Why do parents ruthlessly send their children to Internet addiction schools to receive all kinds of polishing? The Internet always says that this is a man who needs to take the blame, cover up the failure of family education, the failure of student education, and the failure of social education, and also give an example of what a game now, fifteen years ago it was called early love, twenty years ago it was called idol, twenty-five years ago it was called a Hong Kong movie, and thirty years ago it was called a martial arts novel - what a grandiose reason, what a grandiose excuse, and how grandiose it is...... Deceive oneself as well as others!

What is internet addiction? Those who like to play computer games after going to and from school, after commuting to and from work, and after leisure and vacation, are they called Internet addiction? No! I don't think that's called internet addiction! And those children who are really sent to the school by their parents to get rid of Internet addiction, what is the habit of Internet addiction?—— they are getting older, they still don't go to school, they don't go to work, they play on the computer at home all day long, they have no source of livelihood, they don't have real social interactions, they quarrel and quarrel with their parents, they are extremely extreme and even begin to be misanthropic with the world, they sink into their own rooms and games, don't communicate with outsiders, and completely close themselves, isn't this Internet addiction?

When you cut off contact with the outside world and are immersed in your own gaming world, what about your parents? When you are young, this can be blamed as ignorance, but as you get older, 16 years old, 17 years old, 18 years old, adulthood, and still immersed in your own game world, is it really good? Your parents are getting old, the family you once relied on is becoming twilight, and a new sunrise should appear to re-support that little world - but you who are immersed in the game, who are addicted to the game, can't support that little world, shouldn't you blame the game for being addicted?

Learning is very tiring, work is very tiring, I know these, because as a codeword writer, I also think that codewords are very tiring - how easy it is to play games, upgrade in a short time, you can get a very high level in a few days in the game world, it is simply full of a sense of achievement, compared to the learning that takes more than ten years to see results, years or even decades to get back the results of the work, the success of the game is too simple, and it is also too illusory!

I've seen comments saying:

Rather than telling children what to do and what not to do, it is often more important to teach them to understand, respect and responsibility. The father in the film can see that he has a responsible heart for his children, but he lacks understanding and respect for his children, and does not find the essence of the problem, which leads to helplessness and finally chooses the wrong method, so that a child who lacks understanding of his parents because of factors such as the generation gap has a deformed sense of responsibility, making the child think that the wrong thing cannot be solved through communication and guidance. This can become a vicious cycle. ’

I used to watch on TV those parents who sent their children to the past, they used to be poor and poor, they didn't learn much, their education level was low, and they didn't know how to make their children obedient and learn. The past is the former and the past tense, while the present is the continuous and future tense for us. What I didn't have the conditions to do in the past, I didn't do it when I had the opportunity, but instead blamed my former self for my current helplessness. Are you kidding me? Do you say it's lazy. Of course, if there is a bridge of understanding and respect between parents and children, and children understand the importance of responsibility (and more responsibility for themselves in this matter), there will not be so many P things. ’

These words are all too true, but what about reality? What should children do and what should they not do? Teach them to understand respect and responsibility? These are all big truths, big truths, now everyone who sees here, don't they have any points in their hearts, can they really accept understanding and responsibility? Who hasn't been young? Who is not a child? If the words of the parents worked, then there would be no rebellious period. Now that I am a father, I agree with these words, but I feel that they are empty words. Children are afraid of their parents, but it is also their parents who are the least afraid.

Maybe it's a bit much, but I feel it. You know, people are social creatures. I can't say it myself, my life is up to me, why should I care about other people's opinions and other stupid things. As long as you exist in this society, you have to care about other people's opinions - maybe dignity, maybe face, maybe titles, etc., etc. In fact, we are not representing ourselves, but also representing our families, parents, and children. It may be complicated to say this, but I have seen more philosophical words - when you are young, you are obsessed with H and adventure, but you don't understand the responsibilities of the elderly.

I now have children, a wife, and a family. I knew what I was responsible for. I'm glad that I'm not addicted to the Internet, and I'm here to tell you, play games and read novels, don't delay real work and study, people always have to look forward and move forward, and the next thing to support will be three families.

PS: There will be two more today, and there will be no less.