"Yes." Ji Ran nodded and admitted.

"Actually, you don't have to be like this, as long as he likes you, it's enough, his family will deal with it himself, you should give him some time, if you suddenly leave him because of this incident, have you ever thought about his feelings?

When encountering problems, escaping will never solve the problem, only two people face it together, and solving the difficulties is the way out. Ma Kai took a puff of his cigarette and said.

"But how can this be solved? His mother doesn't like me, it's the kind of dislike in his bones, and he respects his mother so much, how can he convince her? Even if I convince him, I'm afraid that his mother will be estranged from me, thinking that I brought his son badly and provoked the relationship between their mother and son, how can I get along with his mother at that time? Ji Ran explained to Ma Kai.

"Even if you break up with him this time for this reason, what if you encounter such a situation again? For example, if you meet a guy you like, but his mother doesn't like you either, what should you do? Are you also the one who bears it with a big belly like you are now? Ma Kai looked at Ji Ran and asked.

Although Ma Kai's words are very straightforward, they make a lot of sense, and now Ji Ran is facing such an embarrassing situation.

"Why don't you try to change that? Try hard, everyone can not fully understand a person only through a meeting, only contact for a period of time, to experience, in order to measure a person's strengths and weaknesses. Ma Kai said to Ji Ran.

"There's nothing I can do to change it." Ji Ran was silent for a moment and said slowly.

Ma Kai was completely unaware of the real situation, so although he was right, it was not true.

The more educated a person is, the more stubborn she becomes about her outlook on life and values, what she thinks is right must be right, and what she thinks is wrong must be wrong.

Just like Su's mother, she is full of poetry and books, and has her own life philosophy and plan for the future, especially for her son Su Jingxun's marriage problem, which is also in her planning, she thinks that with her son's conditions, she can find a girl who is the right person and let her son form a happy family.

Even if the girl's condition is a little worse, it shouldn't let the difference in strength between the two families be too great.

This is not to say that Su's mother dislikes the poor and loves the rich, but because only when the strength of the two families is equal, will there be more common language, otherwise, there will be a lot of unnecessary trouble.

In Su's mother's eyes, her son can choose a more relaxed emotional path, and as parents, they can also marry people who are at the same level as themselves, and they are relatives to each other, and they can also help and support each other in their careers, increase the security and stability of the two families, and more importantly, in such a family environment, children and grandchildren can also get a better education.

And if Su Jingxun and Ji Ran are together, then the gap between the two families is too big, and Su's mother and Ji's mother have almost nothing to say, and they have no common language.

When the two in-laws are together, they will be very embarrassed, talk about some fashion topics, Ji's mother may not understand, for some luxury goods or world-renowned brands, she may not even have heard of them, and even make the other party feel that she is deliberately showing off.

However, if you talk about some vulgar topics, Su's mother will feel that it is a waste of time, in short, such two families are full of estrangement, which is not conducive to long-term at all.

What's more, if two people have a child, it's okay if the child has been following the grandparents, but the child can't not go to the grandma's house, right?

What if you get a bad habit at your grandmother's house and are arrogant and spoiled by your grandmother?

A child does not have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and whoever spoils him will feel that he is good to him.

In the end, it is the grandma who is a good person, and the grandparents are a bad person.

This kind of thing is not groundless, and this kind of thing abounds nowadays.

The worse the conditions, the more arrogant the children, and the better the conditions, the more strict they are with the children.

In short, Su's mother came to the conclusion after comprehensive consideration, her choice was not wrong, even if Ji Ran was a good girl, her background was already doomed, her feelings could only be limited to the ordinary class, maybe she would marry an elite in the future, or a phoenix man, but it was by no means a wealthy family like the Su family.

Ma Kai didn't know this, so he didn't understand Ji Ran's helplessness.

If there was a chance, how could Ji Ran not fight for it?

Who would willingly let go of their love?

Ji Ran was thinking about it, and suddenly, her stomach was overturned, she quickly got out of the car, held on to a tree, and vomited.

Seeing this, Ma Kai also hurriedly got out of the car, holding Ji Ran with one hand and gently patting her back with the other.

Ji Ran's pregnancy reaction has become more and more serious recently, and with the development of the fetus, Ji Ran's small belly has become bigger and bigger, even if she is wearing thick clothes, if she is not careful, she will show her feet.

Ji Ran felt that his body was a lot heavier, his body that was so flexible before was no longer so flexible now, and his waist was very sore, and he usually stood for a long time, and his waist was a little unbearable, and he had to support it with his hands to feel better.

When you go to bed at night, it is difficult to turn over, and sometimes when you want to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night, it is very difficult.

Ma Kai looked at Ji Ran's current appearance, and was very distressed, such a good girl, it was when she needed someone to take care of her, but she still had to stand firm alone, it was really hard.

"Are you feeling better?" Ma Kai handed the clean tissue to Ji Ran.

"Yes, it's better." Ji Ran wiped his mouth and returned to the car.

"Don't hold on so hard, it's better to move to live with me, and sooner or later someone can take care of you." Ma Kai said to Ji Ran.

Ji Ran smiled bitterly and shook his head, "It's okay, I can still handle it." ”

"Don't hold on, who doesn't know that pregnancy in October is very hard? When I saw you, I couldn't help but think of my mother, when I was naughty when I was a child, my mother often said that I was disobedient, saying that I was sorry for her fertility, at that time I couldn't understand it at all, and now when I see you, I think of her, it's really not easy. Ma Kai said with a smile.

Ji Ran looked at Ma Kai strangely, this was the first time she had heard Ma Kai talk about her family.

"Can't think of it, right? Actually, my mother is also from the countryside, and my father is half from the countryside. My grandfather was from the city, my grandmother and my mother were from the same village, my grandfather used to be a teacher, taught at the university, and then caught up with G, and then was sent to my grandmother's village, and worked for eight years, during this period, my grandfather and my grandmother fell in love, so we had my father, and then my grandfather returned to the city and brought my grandmother into the city, that is to say, my father lived in the countryside until he was five years old, and he grew up in the countryside.

Later, when my dad was in college, he talked to a female college student who was still a little related to my grandmother in the same village, and then the two got married after graduation, and that female college student was my mother.

When they got married, my dad was nothing, not even a job, when my mother was pregnant with me, the conditions were also very hard, my father took all the money from the family to do business, and the result was a lot of losses, at that time, someone came to my house to collect debts, my mother had no choice, so she returned to the countryside with her pregnancy, the conditions were even worse, I was born in my grandmother's house, since I was a child, I heard my grandmother say how hard it was when my mother was pregnant with me, and now, her old man often complains about my father's not. Ma Kai said, and couldn't help laughing.

(End of chapter)