My sister's proposal to go on a date,I always feel that something is not right.,But if you think about it.,There's nothing wrong with it.。

When she first went out, Su Xian'er and Su Ye held hands and directly entered the dating simulation.

"Generally speaking, it's a bit abrupt to take the initiative to hold hands on the first date, but brother, you have been working hard for so long before this, if you don't hold hands, the next step of development is likely to make your relationship deteriorate a little. It's still necessary to take the initiative, got it? Before holding hands, brother, you can ask very gentlemanly - there are too many people here, is it okay to hold hands? Asking this question can make the girl mentally prepared and not feel that you are very rude. Su Xian'er grabbed Su Ye's palm and spoke.

"Understood." Su Ye nodded, no need for Su Xian'er to say, he is also going to hold hands on this date, but he just wants to find an opportunity to suddenly hold hands, and now he listens to his sister, but he wants to say it openly?

"If you say...... What should I do if Ayumi Mizumi refuses? "Girls will always be shy, even if they refuse, it's not a strange thing, Su Ye thought of this possibility, and immediately asked.

"Refusal? Brother, you're really stupid! I asked my brother to ask you gentlemanly, not to let my brother really ask for the other party's opinion, since the senior on the water has agreed to come out and date my brother, then there is no problem in doing this, the problem is just to let you talk to the other party first, so that the other party is mentally prepared, and not to think that brother you are very rude! It's about saying it, not whether the other person agrees! As long as you say it, take the initiative to grab the other person's palm, and the other party may symbolically break free, but it is only a symbolic breakfree. Do you understand? Su Xian'er shook her head and said helplessly.

"Okay, I see." Su Ye nodded, very speechless in his heart, asking is just asking, not asking the other party, which is also rude to some extent. But this kind of thing is in love, many times, it is unreasonable......

"Well, okay, let's start dating, normally speaking, when you hold hands, brother, you hold hands after meeting at a place like the station, and the next step is the date process." Su Xian'er nodded, thought for a while and said, "First of all, I want you to understand a little bit...... However, before I tell my brother, I want to ask, brother, what do you think is the essence of "dating"? ”

"The nature of dating?" Su Ye was stunned for a moment, thought for a moment, and then replied tentatively: "The essence of dating is for the two parties to get to know each other further?" ”

"Wrong!" Su Xian'er looked at Su Ye speechlessly, "Brother, aren't you a very smart person, why have you become so stupid now......

"What is the essence of dating?" Su Ye was so despised by Su Xian'er, and she was not annoyed, and hurriedly asked.

"The essence of dating is play." Su Xian'er said as a matter of course.

"Play?" Su Ye was slightly stunned when he heard this answer.

"Yes, the essence of dating is to make one person play into two people playing. If there's one point of uniformity, it's—"

"Dating refers to the activity of meeting at a pre-agreed time and place, and dating in love, that is, the process of communication between two people, the process of understanding each other, and the process of running in with each other, is a preview of future married life."

"But I think the best date is when two people play like children, put down each other's adult masks, and be honest with each other. In this state, it really doesn't matter what you do together or what project you are dating, you just have to have fun. ”

"So, the essence of dating is not to know each other, but to play together."

Su Ye wanted to refute this set of fallacies, but he couldn't think of anything to refute.

After thinking about it for a long time, Su Ye could only reluctantly accept it, nodded and said, "Okay, I understand." ”

The two held hands together in this way, came to the station, and went to a more prosperous mall, which was one of the places where Su Ye and Ayumi Mizumi agreed to date.

On the train, Su Xian'er said earnestly: "First of all, brother, no matter how much you and Ayumi Mizumi like each other, you must understand one thing, that is, you have your own hobbies, and it is likely to be very different. Brother, you must not forcibly add your hobbies to each other. Falling in love is a run-in process, dating is the most important thing, the dating of two people is like a negotiation between countries, the first thing to do, in the words of the great Premier Zhou, is to seek common ground while reserving differences. ”

"Why did you rise to the height of the country......" Su Ye couldn't help but complain when he heard this.

"Brother, don't interject." Su Xian'er waited and glared at Su Ye.

"Okay, I won't interject." Su Ye nodded.

"I always feel like I just accidentally stained my ......," Su Xian'er frowned.

"Huh?" Su Ye hadn't reacted yet.

"Forget it, let's continue to talk about the topic of dating, since we seek common ground while reserving differences, the first thing is to find common hobbies with each other, and then two people play like children, which is the best state. During this period, you can share your treasured things with each other, and share the good things in your life with each other, if the other party can cherish them incomparably, this is the best ending. Su Xian'er said.

"That's ......," Su Ye thought thoughtfully.

In fact, he and Ayumi Mizumi have unconsciously developed to this point, and when the two usually chat, they are sharing each other's beauty, and Su Ye probably knows Ayumi Mizumi's hobbies.

Soon, the two came to the place of rendezvous.

Su Xian'er took Su Ye's hand, walked into the mall, and said: "There is such a thing as dating, there is a poor way to play, there is a rich way to play, poor is not an excuse, a person who can't date is just a person who lacks imagination and doesn't know how to have fun, so he doesn't need to find other excuses." I don't know if you have an imagination, brother, but if you realize it, it's not without a means to make up for it, and that is to do all kinds of homework beforehand. ”

With that, the two entered the crowded mall.

Su Ye followed behind her sister.

At this moment, he suddenly felt that he was like a soft girl, but his sister was the active man, and a subtle emotion arose in his heart.

It's always a bit strange to unfold in such a serious way!

"Brother, let's find a place to eat first, I want to tell your brother about the date in detail." Su Xian'er said suddenly.

"Okay, okay!" Su Ye was stunned for a moment, and immediately nodded and said.