In Ye Nan's room, Kong Qiu sat on a chair with some frustration. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info

"Boss, am I ashamed?"

Ye Nan smiled: "You, don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't say that you are performing such a task for the first time, even if you perform a hundred tasks, there may be accidents, on the one hand, it is your own negligence, on the other hand, there are emergencies, after all, people are not machines, all we can do is to try to reduce the probability of this kind of thing happening." ”

Kong Qiu smiled bitterly: "But I almost hurt you, I hurt those innocent hostages, thinking of this, I can't help but blame myself......"

When Ye Nan heard Kong Qiu's words, his brows furrowed slightly, as if he remembered something, and only after a while did he stretch his brows, stared at Kong Qiu and said, "Be responsible, this is as it should be, but you have to remember one thing." ”

Kong Qiu looked up a little stunned and looked at Ye Nan's solemn appearance: "What? ”

Ye Nan said in a deep voice: "We are human beings, we are not machines, and we are not gods!" ”

Kong Qiu was stunned for a moment, then immediately understood what Ye Nan meant, let out a long breath, and said with a smile: "Yes, we are actually just ordinary people, aren't we?" ”

Ye Nan nodded: "Yes, when we carry out tasks, we never dare to guarantee that the task will be completed, or we will never make mistakes, of course, we must be responsible and do our best, but if we make mistakes, what we have to do is to make up for our mistakes, and try not to make mistakes again in the future, instead of repeatedly criticizing ourselves in our hearts, if that's the case, then if a person makes a mistake, maybe he will never have a future." ”

Ye Nan's eyes flashed a little gloomy: "Just around me, what I see, what I hear, it's not that there are no mistakes in the execution of tasks, pain, confusion, harshness, and even hatred of themselves, but some can come out, and some can never get out, and sink from now on...... I hope you don't be the latter. ”

Kong Qiu looked at Ye Nan's complicated expression and said softly, "Do you have any friends who have also made mistakes?" ”

Ye Nan sighed softly: "Well, in fact, it's not his mistake, the action of rescuing the hostages will never be 100% sure, but he feels that he has never been able to let go, and he can't forgive himself, he withdrew from the army, and even his ordinary life was affected, and the whole person was completely abolished because of that kind of thing......"

Kong Qiu didn't know what to say for a while, although he didn't seem to be serious on weekdays, but in fact, he was also a very affectionate and responsible person, hearing what happened to Ye Nan's friend, he couldn't help but ask himself in his heart, if he encountered such a thing, what would he think, what should he do?

Ye Nan didn't want to put too much pressure on Kong Qiu, and chuckled: "I'm telling you this, not to let you do this, but to tell you, on the one hand, we have to be responsible, and on the other hand, we have to learn to relax and regulate our emotions, if the emotions in our hearts are always unable to let go, we will finally crush ourselves after a long time." ”

"As soldiers participating in actual combat, we will experience things that ordinary people can't touch, we will kill people, and we will do many things, some of them are for our country, and some are forced by special circumstances, if we can't learn to release our emotions, then we won't stay in Yinlong for a long time."

Kong Qiu nodded in understanding, he had just killed someone, his mood had become quite depressed, people like Ye Nan and others had killed at least dozens of them in this rescue mission, if they didn't have a good psychological endurance or adjustment method, then they would probably be crushed by the pressure.

"How do you eliminate the negative effects of these things?"

Ye Nan replied with a smile: "You also killed someone today, maybe you will feel uncomfortable, but will you regret it?" ”

Kong Qiu replied without hesitation: "Of course I won't regret it, if I don't kill him, he will kill me, and he is a pirate, and he also hijacked our Huaxia crew, he deserves it......"

Ye Nan smiled: "Yes, you will be uncomfortable, this everyone will at the beginning, after all, we are all human beings, all of the same kind." ”

"We deprive others of their lives, and when we see others falling in front of us with blood, we will always be subjected to a strong spiritual impact, and even torture our own hearts because of this, which is also the most difficult period for everyone to go through, how to deal with their own inner torture."

"In terms of my personal experience and experience, I think the most important thing is to have a clear conscience, for example, in this mission we killed so many pirates, then I will ask myself, will I feel guilty for this, will I blame myself for killing them?"

"Like you just said, the two reasons are that they kidnap our crew and kill people, they are thugs, and they are very threatening thugs, they have weapons, if we don't kill them, they will kill us without hesitation, so we kill them."

"Although many people have been killed, they should be killed, because if we do not kill them, our countrymen will be killed by them, and if we have mercy, we will bury ourselves, and in this case, then I will be at ease, and I will have a clear conscience."

"When a person asks himself, if he can do these things, then he can withstand the torture of his conscience, and he will not form a psychological burden and the so-called inner demons."

"In addition, coupled with some emotional channeling methods, let those negative emotions be released, and not accumulated in the heart, you can maintain your inner balance and tranquility, and be able to meet the next task challenge with a calm and calm mind."

Kong Qiu listened to Ye Nan's words seriously, thinking about it, before today's incident, Kong Qiu listened to these words, and he might be able to understand, but he would definitely not have such a deep understanding as he has now, listening to others and his own experience are completely different things.

Kong Qiu's eyes lit up slightly: "The most important thing is to have a clear conscience?" ”

Ye Nan nodded: "Maybe everyone's thoughts will be different, but I think in the final analysis, this is what it means, if you do it right, you can face people's hearts and be fearless of the world." ”

Kong Qiu nodded heavily: "I understand, it's just the boss, how do you get rid of those negative emotions on weekdays?" ”

Ye Nan replied with a smile: "Love life, divert attention, a soldier is a profession and a persistence, but it is not the whole of life." ”

Kong Qiu frowned: "How to understand this sentence, we may give our lives at any time." ”

Ye Nan laughed: "As far as I personally understand, giving life and the full meaning of life are two different things, everyone thinks differently, wait for yourself to think about it when you have more insights." ”

"As far as I know, most people will choose alcohol or women to release their pent-up emotions after performing high-risk tasks, of course, if you have other hobbies, you can also drink tea, fishing or not, it varies from person to person, in a word, as long as you feel that it can make you comfortable and relaxed." (To be continued.) )