Chapter 126: Suzuki's Choice
Suzuki was speechless for a while, he didn't expect Momoi's life plan to be so ordinary.
Shouldn't girls of this age worship idols and dream of stars?
Shouldn't a girl of this age be active and full of fantasies?
Why is the one in front of him so simple and realistic?
Although there is a saying: The happiest life in the world is to live in an English house, hire a French housekeeper, use a Chinese cook, marry a Japanese woman, and get an American salary, but the same rice raises a hundred kinds of people, Suzuki has never felt that Momoi, who is a little arrogant and scolds Fang Yu in the basketball club, is a traditional Yamato Nadeshiko.
I didn't expect to open my heart and confide my true feelings today, the one who doesn't look like the most is the most traditional.
Suzuki is a normal man (although he has been married to a koko in two lifetimes combined), and he is so tender about this that it is impossible not to be moved.
But Suzuki's belief in dealing with people all the time made Suzuki not immediately accept this feeling, he racked his brains, came up with a rhetoric, signaled Momoi not to lean too closely, and then asked Momoi: "Momoi-san, do you know what Mr. I have to ask for my lifelong partner?" ”
Momoi sat up a little straighter, but his hand hadn't left Suzuki's waist yet, and Chen Ken said solemnly, "Sir, please speak." If there is anything I can't do now, I will definitely redouble my efforts to change it and meet my husband's requirements! ”
Suzuki enjoyed the girl's intimacy with a sense of guilt, suppressed the fire that was ignited in his heart, and said in a somewhat hurried tone: "I am a university student, and I appreciate traditional Japanese women, but I prefer that the other half of my life is a trendy, open, and independent woman of the new era." ”
"Women of the new era?" Momoi asked, "What's that?" ”
Suzuki explains, "Simply put, women with self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance, and self-improvement. ”
Seeing that Momoi was still confused, Suzuki elaborated: "Self-esteem is to respect oneself and not easily entrust oneself to others. Momoi, I am honored and I like you to like me, but how long can you make me like this? ”
Suzuki stopped Momoi from talking, motioning for her to wait until she finished speaking, and continued: "It's a man's nature to like the new and hate the old, and it's hard to cherish something that is too easy to obtain. If you choose me like this, and I accept you like that, I can hardly guarantee that I will not one day get tired of it and alienate you. ”
After a pause, Suzuki continued, "Self-confidence is believing in one's own power and being good at using one's power to achieve one's own goals. To be self-reliant is to have a sense of independence and not blindly depend on others. For full-time housewives, I don't like it. I don't think it's the right thing to do for my wife to do all the housework. A family is made up of two people, and the affairs of the family should also be undertaken by two people. As you said earlier, you don't care about being looked down upon because of teacher-student love. In the same way, I have a tradition of not caring. I don't care that my wife goes out to work after marriage, I don't care that someone looks down on me because of this, says I'm incompetent, says I don't have the ability to take care of the family. I like people who work, and I think labor is a virtue. ”
Momoi let out an exclamation, and immediately felt that something was wrong, and asked in a low voice, "Sir, are you a Red Army?" ”
Suzuki remembered the incident in Jakarta that had happened not long ago, and immediately drew a line and said, "I'm not." I'm just studying his theories. ”
Regardless of whether Suzuki has studied thought in this life, in his previous life, from elementary school to university, he has never stopped thinking classes, and it is true to say that he has studied it.
He continued to instill the "four-self spirit" into Momoi Michi: "The so-called self-improvement is to forge ahead, always move forward, and don't stop." What you said just now Momoi made me angry, you know? You actually said you were going to drop out! This is something I am disgusted with and absolutely unbearable! You are still young, your future still has unlimited possibilities, and going to school and reading is your crutch, car, and rocket to the future! The reason why people are human is because they have infinite possibilities, and they may do some things because of this choice, or they may do other things because of that choice. I don't need to be planned for life, I want to be free and I don't want to be manipulated and manipulated! I don't know who arranged for my existence in this world, and what mission I was given. All I know is that the reason I want to do something is out of my own desire, not the so-called divine guidance! ”
Speaking of this, Suzuki was suddenly shocked, in this special situation, he poured out all the words in his heart and revealed his biggest secret.
Sure enough, the pressure is very heavy!
Suzuki calmed down and brought the topic back, not giving Momoi time to guess the truth from what he said: "This is the wife I expected." So, I can't accept you right now. If I did, I would be deceiving you and myself at the same time! ”
Suzuki said so, and Momoi withdrew his hand stupidly and said to Suzuki seriously, "I'm very happy that you can confess to me like this." Having listened to your request, it is now clear to me that I have not met your requirements. But can I ask you for one thing? ”
No longer being held by Momoi, Suzuki breathed a sigh of relief and said, "Okay, you can say it." As long as I can do it. ”
Momoi said, "Can you give me a while to try and see if I can become the kind of modern woman you expect." ”
This kid hasn't given up yet! Suzuki hesitated for a moment, but didn't answer immediately.
Momoi pleaded, "Wait for me for five years, no, three years will be fine!" ”
Suzuki sighed and replied, "Not three years, then five years." If by then, you still have the same feelings as you do today, I will seriously consider this matter. ”
"That's amazing!" Momoi was very happy.
And Suzuki thinks that the little girl's interests will shift quickly, and even if she is not in college in five years, she will have stepped into society for a while, and she may have forgotten about herself.
And his promise to Momoi is also serious, not simply perfunctory. If Momoi still maintains this affection for him after seeing all kinds of people, he should naturally respond to this precious emotion.
Marrying someone who loves you is equal to the happiness you get by marrying someone you love.
But if you want to make up for this happiness, there is a huge gap between the two.
It's always easier to fall in love with someone who loves you than it is to get someone you love to fall in love with you.