"I see! I know! Why is Confucius so famous as a saint, but his son Kong Li is not famous! I know! I know! ”

In the live broadcast room, a fan shouted.

"What do you know? Where did you see the old books? ”

"Is it the official history or the wild history?"

"Tell me? The origin and provenance of the book! ”

Confucius became a saint, while his son Kong Li, who lived in obscurity, has always been a question that historians want to study. However, due to the lack of literature, the reason has never been found.

Now it's okay, someone says he knows the reason, so? What is the reason?

In just a while, fans were attracted to it.

"Look! It's education! There is a problem with the education of the Confucius family! The fan said in surprise.

"Education! Nonsense! What went wrong with the education of Confucius? Confucius is a teacher of all ages, how can there be educational problems? You? ”

"You're not? Isn't it? Confucius is a sage! Master! Master of All Ages! How could there be a problem with his family's education? ”

"Sage Kong is a great educator, how can there be a problem with his family's education?"

"Say that there is something wrong with education, and the ghost believes it? If you say that Kong Carp has a problem with his head and is not famous, this is still possible! ”

"As the old saying goes: Lao Tzu is a hero, what kind of tiger father has no dog! What's going on? Confucius is a saint, but Kong Li, but he is a mortal! ”

said that there was a problem with the education of Confucius, which naturally caused strong dissatisfaction among many fans in the live broadcast room.

"Look! Watch the live stream! It's not that there is something wrong with Confucius education! It's the family education that went wrong! Educate! More than just one person's education! It is the common education of parents and elders! Have you watched the live broadcast? Isn't it?

Confucius wanted to make Kong Carp have a long memory, and as a result! Qi Guan's protector did not cooperate! Outcome! Cause the rebellious psychology of Kong carp! Three-year-olds look young, seven-year-olds look old! It can be seen from this incident! Kong Carp is finished......"

"Based on this alone, you can guess that Kong Carp is finished? You're exaggerating, aren't you? Some fans objected.

"Do you see that? Qi Guan is also afraid of Confucius, and Kong Li is also afraid of Confucius! The result? Confucius wanted to teach his son, and Qi Guan's family protected his son, and the result would be a vicious circle. At last! Kong carp either has a rebellious mentality, or a dependency mentality! Or! Wandering between the two parents and becoming a very cowardly person!

And in fact, it turns out that in this kind of family education situation, Kong Carp eventually became a coward. Isn't it? Kong Lili later married a wife, but he did not have children, and he did not dare to marry another house. Confucius objected and asked Kong to wait a few more years. And the Qi Guan's family can't make up their minds about this matter, because! This daughter-in-law she likes.

You say? Is Kong Carp very cowardly? It was not until after the death of Qi Guan, under the persuasion of everyone, that Confucius opened his mouth and asked him to marry again, and then Zisi was born. You say? Is Kong Carp very cowardly? ”

"Anyway! Confucius was too strict with both Kong Li and Qi Guan! That's too much to ask! He is a saint, he can do it, but Kong Li and Qi Guan are ordinary people, they can't do it! It's true! 'Concubines can't do it'! ”

"That's right! I think too! Or is there something wrong with homeschooling! That fan was right! Family education is not only the education of one person, but also the common education of a family! If the family's education methods are not uniform, it will cause confusion in education, so that the children do not know who to listen to. Outcome! Children are generally 'skeptical of life' and have no opinions. Because! There is no criterion in their minds! People who grow up in this kind of family environment are generally not assertive and dare not make decisions! ”

"So what do you mean? Something went wrong with Qi Guan's education? Isn't it? Confucius was a sage, and there could be no problem with his education! ”

"What's wrong with Qi Guan's education? She's a mother! What mother doesn't protect her son? I think! The problem is still with Confucius! It's that he's too harsh! Isn't it? How many big people are Kong carp? You forced him to memorize the Book of Poetry, and that's not all! He also wants to carry the past carp. I think! It's not persecution, it's! Deliberately make things difficult! ”

"That's right! I also think: Confucius is deliberately making things difficult! ”

"Anyway! You must admit it! Our saints! Something went wrong with his homeschooling! His education was a failure! At least! He didn't train his son to be a talent! ”

"I think too! There was a problem with Confucius's home education! Do not deliberately exalt a man, but lift him up on high and make him a saint. Step on one person, and you will step on it to death! You must admit it! Confucius's home education was a failure! He didn't train Kong Carp to become a talent! So! He can't be a master of all ages! You can't even become a teacher! ”

"Yes, yes, yes! I think so! What is the Eternal Master's watch? Master? They were all tossed by Confucianism in later generations! In modern language, it's hype! A man who can't even educate his own son well! What qualifications does he have to be a Master of All Worlds? What about the master? ”

Under the leadership of several fans, many fans began to hack Confucius in the live broadcast room.

"Stop! Stop! Stop! Off topic! Off topic! Where are you all here? Didn't you say that? Educate! It's not the education of one person, it's the common education of a family! ”

"So what do you mean? In Confucius's family education, whose education method is right? Is it Confucius? Or is it a Qi Guan? ”

"Education! It's not the education of one person, it's the common education of a family! ”

"There's always one person right and one person wrong, right?"

"It's not clear: either Confucius's education method is wrong, or Qi Guan's education method is wrong! One of the two must be! ”

"You guys are dogmatic!"

"How do you call it dogma?"

Why do you have to choose one or the other? Didn't you say that? It's family education! Family education requires both parties to coordinate and reach a consensus in the end! And not who is right and who is wrong. Furthermore! Who is right and who is wrong? All roads lead to Rome, and different roads lead to the same destination! There is no one right or wrong. The key to family education is coordination and consultation! This is not? Confucius and Qi Guanshi did not negotiate well, so they did not cultivate Kong Carp into a talent! ”

"I'm an educational psychologist! Let me say a few words! Confucius's method of education and Qi Guan's method of education are both correct! It's just that! The two did not reach a consensus, did not coordinate and negotiate! For family education, an educational plan should be drawn up first, and there must be a complete educational program. It's obvious! Confucius did not formulate this educational program......"

"Also educational programs? Where was there any educational program at that time, nonsense! ”

"So! Confucius could not be an educator, let alone a teacher for all ages! He didn't formulate an educational method...... "The person of Black Confucius, who took advantage of the topic on the spot, said.

"! Have you put the blame on Confucius? ”

"! So what do you mean: put the blame on the Qi Guan's family? ”

(End of chapter)