22. Shao Yajun's life
When Shao Yajun learned the news of Su Ran's divorce, she sighed, thinking that Su Ran, a woman who was tired of living in Shanghai, finally met someone who loved her and entered into marriage, thinking that she had a good home. In the end, Zhou Yang still lost her.
At the age of twenty-three, she chose to enter marriage and completely disconnected from society, while Su Ran chose a completely different path.
After marriage, Chen Lang has a lot of things that she can't accept, and the store business has been good in recent years, and the store has also expanded. Chen Lang gained a lot of weight and also had a belly. He began to know to wear designer clothes and a gold chain the thickness of his little finger, which he bought for her and she didn't wear. She said she didn't like wearing these the most. Chen Lang was addicted to alcohol, and he was also contaminated with the vice of gambling, and when he returned home, his clothes were thrown around, and he didn't help the oil bottle at home. She hated him smoking in the house, and he didn't refute it, he still smoked on his own, and went home full of alcohol, and when he came back, he was about to hug her, she pushed him away and asked him to take a shower and change clothes, but he fell asleep on the bed. After a while, there is a snoring sound.
At that time, she thought, 'If you only meet for the first time in life', what a positive and sunny man he was when she first met him. That's what happened now.
Chen Lang also bought a house in Qinghai and also had a car. Usually he works in the store during the day, and at night Shao Yajun takes his son home by tram, and Chen Lang rarely takes a family home. He basically came back in the middle of the night. Father-in-law and mother-in-law live in the store, Haohao usually lives with his mother-in-law, and he is used to living with his grandmother.
She misses the days with Su Ran in those years, so casual and comfortable.
The eldest son was lying next to her to do his homework, and from time to time he looked up and asked her to answer the questions for himself, the eldest son was called Lun Lun, and the second son was called Hao Hao. Lun Lun went to elementary school, and Hao Hao also went to kindergarten. My parents-in-law are here.
When eating, the mother-in-law fed Haohao to eat, blew in her mouth, tasted hot and cold, and then fed it to the child's mouth.
Shao Yajun couldn't stand it anymore and said, "Mom, he's three years old, let him eat it himself." ”
Hao Hao said coquettishly: "Just let grandma feed it, don't eat it yourself." ”
Hao Hao has always been brought by his grandmother, and he is closer to his grandmother, but he is more alienated from Shao Yajun.
Shao Yajun said: "Haohao, you need to eat nutritionally, how can you just eat meat and not vegetables!" ”
Hao Hao relied on his grandmother's support, pursed his lips and said, "No, no." ”
The father-in-law on the side also said: "Just eat, we don't lack it, isn't it good that your mother has always brought the child!" ”
Shao Yajun looked at the wayward Haohao, and there was nothing to do. Lun Lun looked at his mother's unpleasant face and whispered, "Mom, you eat." ”
Chen Lang is back, today he rarely comes back early, the store has hired a guy, specializing in delivery, now except for holidays when the store is particularly busy, Chen Lang will send a few trips. Usually he spends his days drinking and playing cards with his friends. He sat down, and his mother immediately went to bring him food. After the family finished eating, Shao Yajun and her mother-in-law cleaned up the dishes together. Chen Lang took Shao Yajun and Lun Lun and asked, "Hao Hao, come home with us!" ”
Hao Hao put his arms around his grandmother's neck and said, "No, just live with grandma!" ”
Grandma looked at her grandson dotingly: "Kiss him on the mouth, it's really grandma's good grandson." ”
Shao Yajun's face darkened and said, "Mom, adults can't kiss children's mouths, it's unhygienic." ”
The mother-in-law was shocked by Shao Yajun's words, she said: "The child has been brought by me since birth, I fed it mouthful when I was a child, the child is not good, now I think I am dirty, we Chen Lang is so good at making money, so capable, didn't I bring it up!" ”
The father-in-law also followed the mother-in-law and said, "Now you young people are really not good at serving, both horizontal and vertical. ”
Shao Yajun didn't expect to be attacked by her in-laws like a cannon with a word, and she was just about to speak, but was pressed back by Chen Lang. Chen Lang said: "Let's go, where are there so many things, Hao Hao won't go back and pull it down." ”
A family of three was in the car, Chen Lang said: "Yajun, it's not easy for our mother, sometimes you don't always pick bones in eggs." ”
Shao Yajun said: "She is so accustomed to children, she eats and feeds them one bite at a time, and she is used to children being picky eaters, kissing children mouth-to-mouth, adults have bacteria on their mouths, and children have poor resistance." Can I not say it? ”
Chen Lang said unhappily: "Don't do that, okay, you weren't like this before, and now you are like a mother every day." It's not easy for my mother, taking care of the children every day, watching the store, and cooking. You are like a young grandmother every day, there is no shortage of food for you, no shortage of flowers for you. It's also a thorn! ”
Shao Yajun suppressed the anger in his heart and did not speak again. Lun Lun next to him said: "Dad, don't talk about Mom, Mom is also very hard every day." ”
Chen Lang changed his smile and said, "What my son said is right, but Dad won't say it." ”
When I got home, I put water in the water and bathed my son, and settled him down.
Chen Lang saw her come out of his son's house, hugged her directly, and his mouth came over. Shao Yajun said: "You take a bath, brush your teeth, why are you so unhygienic." ”
Chen Lang wilted and said, "As long as you are clean all day, you will be allowed to brush your teeth as soon as you kiss you, and if you want to make love to you, you must take a bath." ”
Shao Yajun said: "That's not how it should be, you smoke all day long, and your mouth is full of smoke." ”
Chen Lang said uncomfortably: "Which man doesn't smoke now, you are becoming more and more unreasonable." ”
In the end, Chen Lang went to take a shower and came out, Shao Yajun was reading, he threw the book aside and pounced on her.
Shao Yajun pointed to the drawer and said, "That! ”
Chen Lang said: "No, I don't feel it." ”
Shao Yajun said resolutely: "No, it must be." ”
Chen Lang was already in a hurry at this time, and said, "Wife, don't want that, it's uncomfortable." ”
Shao Yajun said: "You can't be so selfish, I was about to be tortured to death last time I had a fetus, why are you still like this, or don't touch me." ”
Chen Lang said: "I will be careful. ”
Shao Yajun said: "No. ”
Chen Lang suddenly wilted, got off Shao Yajun, and said, "You are really boring." After saying that, I picked up my phone and went to the bathroom.
Shao Yajun was tired of dealing with Chen Lang's hormones that were different from ordinary people, and he was really day and night in those years, he was tired of it and indulged in it. After giving birth to two children, she became more and more tired of those things. The pain of giving birth made her afraid when she thought about it, and she had three miscarriages in a few years, so she was afraid of living a married life with Chen Lang.
Chen Lang still loves Shao Yajun very much from the bottom of his heart, and he thinks that a man's deepest love for a woman is to give everything he has, hand over all the money he earns to her, and give her material satisfaction. He is a bit machismo, and Shao Yajun once mentioned to him that he wanted to go to work. He replied to her directly: "The boss lady is not appropriate, she goes out to work for others, what is going on in her mind all day long, I don't want my own daughter-in-law to go out and show up, and it is not a lack of money, just take my son in the store." ”
Shao Yajun was very dissatisfied with this, and said: "I married you at twenty-three, and now I am almost thirty, I don't want to be like this all the time, I can go out and be a kindergarten teacher!" ”
Chen Lang said: "It doesn't work. ”
Chen Lang has met a lot of friends here in Qinghai, and he pushes cups and changes lamps with his friends every day, he is drunk and golden, he understands that it is all a scene, he thinks that his wife is the best, and the warblers and warblers outside are just playing. Now that his life is better, he is a little inflated, and there are a lot of women outside who stick to him, he is not bad, plus he is not stingy, but he never talks about love, just playing, he only started in the past year, Shao Yajun is too clean in that aspect, he thinks so. He can only seek solace outside, but he will never let these things run into Shao Yajun's ears, Shao Yajun can't melt into the sand in his eyes. He has two mobile phones, one of which he turns off when he gets home.
Shao Yajun's daily life is to take care of his son in the store, pick up his son by tram at night, and come back to tutor him in his homework. The eldest son is more sensible and obedient. Hao Hao is a child who is used to being raised by her mother-in-law, and she can't beat or scold. If there is anything, the father-in-law and mother-in-law will unite the front. She was very distressed, she didn't know how to educate the ignorant Haohao. She was tutoring Lun Lun with homework at the bar, Hao Hao was playing with her grandmother, she didn't know what her mother-in-law said, she saw Hao Hao's little hand hit her mother-in-law in the face. She walked over, dragged her over, and slapped Haohao twice on the ass. While beating, he said: "What's the matter with you kid, you don't know anything at all, how can you hit someone!" ”
Hao Hao Wow Wow burst into tears, crying and rolling on the ground. Seeing this, the mother-in-law hurriedly hugged her and said, "Oh, little ancestor, it's cold on the ground, hurry up." ”
Shao Yajun said: "Let him cry, when will he cry enough to get up by himself!" ”
The mother-in-law said: "I haven't seen you so ruthless, the three-year-old doll hit twice like tickling, your big hand hit him so hard, look, there are handprints on the buttocks!" ”
Shao Yajun said: "Mom, how can you be so accustomed to children, you won't grow up to be a bandit." ”
The mother-in-law said unhappily: "The little doll has become a bandit after a while, what kind of way is this, you don't feel sorry for the child at all." ”
Shao Yajun said angrily: "Your education method is not right at all, how can you follow your children in everything, and you can't say that you make mistakes!" ”
The mother-in-law also raised her voice and said, "Oh, I am wrong to feel sorry for my grandson, I am disgusted by you when I am old." ”
The justice was putting the goods on display, and there were customers in the house, all of whom turned their heads to look at them. The father-in-law said: "Don't say it, Yajun, you are too, make a big fuss!" ”
Shao Yajun stopped talking, turned his face and wiped a handful of tears, and his son Lun Lun took a tissue for her and handed it over, saying, "Mom, don't cry." ”
The youngest son, Haohao, saw that he was arguing, and he stopped crying and went to play with toys by himself.
On the way home with his son at night, Shao Yajun still couldn't suppress his sadness, family life was so trivial. She felt very disappointed, she was like being trapped by the family, facing her husband who returned late and drank heavily, and her in-laws who spoiled her grandson all day long, and her disobedient little son, she felt so depressed. Day by day is a cycle of repetition.
She went back and settled her son. Chen Lang came in with a smell of wine, and there was still some smell of perfume. He went straight to the bedroom, Shao Yajun said: "You take a bath, you smell of alcohol and smell, you go to bed without washing!" ”
Chen Lang said with a mouth full of wine: "There are so many things," he entered the bathroom as he spoke, and came out naked after washing.
Shao Yajun said: "You can't come out in a pair of shorts, my son has to come out and see how bad it is." ”
Chen Lang was anxious when he heard this: "Yajun, you are looking for trouble, your son has taken him to the bath with his bare ass, what is there to be poor and particular about in his own home." After saying that, he stumbled into the bedroom barefoot and went to bed.
Shao Yajun watched him step on the soles of his dirty feet and stain the sheets, so she went directly to her son's cot to sleep.