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Anger is the same thing as real fire......

If you can't burn the enemy, then you're likely to burn yourself......

Especially when your own methods of provoking the enemy are ignored by the enemy, it is often easy to backfire with anger!

Speaking of which, the anger caused by being ignored is often more unbearable than the anger that is deliberately triggered!

The so-called invisible x, the most deadly......

In a sense, deliberately doing something, although it may make people angry, as long as the other person can understand this behavior, then the anger will disappear in a short time......

On the contrary, the kind of anger that is inadvertently and inadvertently triggered is often the most difficult to extinguish!

It's like being in the culture of officialdom......

Officials are often not afraid to be scolded by their superiors......

Because from the perspective of officialdom, whether you are scolded by your superiors or praised by your superiors, they are all interactions with your superiors, as long as this interaction exists, then at least it means that you are not out of the sight of officialdom, at least you can show that you are at least in the eyes of your superiors, you are a chess piece worth paying attention to, at least in the eyes of your superiors, your existence has a certain use value!

This is the fundamental reason why many officials are keen to give gifts!

In many cases, gift-giving is not actually the purpose of officials, and they do not want to seek substantial benefits for themselves through the act of gift-giving, but simply hope to have an interaction with Shangguan in this way......

In the vast majority of cases, a small number of gifts, most of them will not be refused, in the case of the gift is accepted, the official and the superior is equivalent to completing an interaction, in the face of such subordinates, the superior official will always have a little favor......

In fact, even if the act of giving gifts is rejected, there are very few people who have a bad feeling for each other because others give gifts to themselves, on the contrary, even if the gift is rejected, but the act of giving gifts and no interaction at all are also two different concepts, for lower-level officials, it is actually a good thing to be able to mix a familiar look in front of the leader......

Officials are never afraid of being scolded by leaders, because being scolded by leaders in a sense also represents the importance that leaders attach to themselves!

And if one day, the leaders ignore themselves and turn a blind eye, it will be a catastrophe in the real sense for the officials!

In officialdom, it's not a bad thing to have arguments, just like celebrities, whether it's news, scandals, no matter which one it is, at least for celebrities, it's an increase in exposure, and it's also a kind of increase in popularity, celebrities of course hope that news can appear on themselves, positive news is certainly something that can be encountered but not sought, but even if it's negative news, it's often better than no one cares!

Whether it's an official or a celebrity, being ignored often means the worst situation!

This is also known as marginalization!

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In the vast majority of cases, marginalization is often the most likely to generate negative emotions......

It's a situation that is hard to change through action......

When the people around you completely ignore a person's behavior, it is often difficult for this person to change the reaction of others to him no matter what he does, and this is often the most desperate time......

The official is ignored by the leader, which often means that the official has completely lost the possibility of further development, and the star is ignored by the media, which also means that the star is outdated, which means that it is almost difficult for the star to have a chance to make a comeback......

In fact, whether it is an official or a celebrity, they are not afraid of offending others, nor are they afraid of being offended by others, because for them, this is precisely the opportunity to help them use their rights or enhance their fame!

A power struggle in officialdom is often the most powerful display of the rights and backgrounds of the two parties......

And a tear in the entertainment industry is often the best way for celebrities to enhance their topicality and popularity......

In the entertainment industry, if a newcomer wants to become famous quickly, the easiest way is nothing more than two ......

The first is to find a famous celebrity to hype up the scandal and enhance the fame through the hype of the scandal......

The other second is just the opposite, that is, to find a big-name star to tear up and set off a scolding war, in this way, you can often quickly improve your fame......

What celebrities are most afraid of is not scolding and being scolded, but whether they scold or be scolded, they will not be able to attract the attention and report of the news media.

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And for Gris at this moment, the same is true......

In reality, why do many bear children always like to be naughty?

At the end of the day, the root cause is actually quite simple......

It's nothing more than trying to get the attention of adults......

Children are always not taken seriously, and when they feel the contempt of adults for their presence, they often feel uncomfortable and want to do something to keep the eyes of adults on them......

That's why they always do something special, special, stupid!

And often the more stupid things they do, the more they are disgusted and ostracized in the eyes of adults......

And this has led to a vicious circle, the more naughty and mischievous children are, the more they are hated, the more they are ignored, the more they are excluded, and the more they want to highlight themselves through mischievousness, so they finally become bear children in the eyes of adults......

On the contrary, the more quiet and polite the children, the easier it is to be liked by adults, the more they will think that such children are smart and sensible, and the more they will feel that such children are pleasing to the eye, so they will be more pampered by them......

In fact, among the values of many bear children......

Being able to provoke an adult is a very remarkable thing......

So they will always try to achieve their goals through various behaviors......

They don't have any concept of right and wrong, they just feel that being able to attract the attention of adults is something that is very satisfying for themselves......

The more adults look down on them, the more they have to do something to make them look down on, and most of the time, the more wrong they become, and the more they are not looked down upon......

Speaking of which, this is also a typical kind of person who comes crazy......

For this kind of bear child, any reaction and comment on their behavior will often give them the motivation to make further trouble......

Because they're happy to accept that feeling of being in the limelight......

In fact, the best way to deal with this kind of bear child is to ignore their behavior completely, as long as they feel that their behavior is not attractive to others, they will naturally have a sense of loss and shame......

In this case, the bear child often has two reactions, the first is because he is ignored, so he simply gives up and continues to make trouble and returns to normal life......

The second reaction, on the other hand, is the opposite, because they are ignored, they feel angry, and then driven by this anger, they destroy and cause more trouble......

The vast majority of bear children, in fact, are the first type of people in the final analysis, ordinary limit of troublemaking, for this kind of bear children, is already the limit, if they are allowed to carry out damage beyond the level of troublemaking, the vast majority of bear children do not have the guts......

A very small number of bear children are the second type, and in a sense, this kind of person is actually the prototype of a typical offender, and many juvenile delinquents are often born in this type of people, and many hooligans in society are often born in this group of people......

And at this moment, Gris, in fact, in a sense, is like those bear children who make trouble in order to attract the attention of others, when "You Yue" completely ignores his words, he naturally has a feeling of annoyance and anger!

There is no doubt that as a high-class goblin, Gris naturally belongs to the second type of bear child!

Because of this, when "You Yue" ignored his provocation, he quickly changed from a state of triumphant Zhizhu to a state of annoyance......

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What would an angry bear child do?

Attack!

Trouble!

Destruction!

And what would an angry goblin do?

The same attack!

The same is troublemaking!

The same is sabotage!

Just compared to a bear child!

A high-level goblin that can independently create war mechs has much more destructive power!

In fact, self-esteem is always linked to one's own ability!

The more powerful a person is, the stronger his self-esteem, that is, the more difficult it is to endure humiliation......

Sometimes, even a contemptuous or even disregarded look is enough to arouse the self-esteem of a strong person, thus triggering a small dispute!

Some people may feel that a strong person, if his heart is strong enough, should not pay attention to the provocations of those who are weak......

But in reality, it is the strong themselves who decide whether to respond to those malicious intentions!

For the weak, rashly provoking an existence far stronger than oneself is, in the final analysis, basing one's own security on the basis of the other party's reasoning......

If the other party is unreasonable and has no grace, then the unlucky one is himself!

Such a person is actually very, very stupid in itself!

Just like those loyal ministers who dared to be upright in front of the emperor in ancient times, they always felt that they had the truth in their hands, and they could be unforgiving, even if the object of the advice was the emperor, they would not restrain it, they would feel that an emperor should have the mind that an emperor should have, and should be able to accept his own advice, otherwise, he would not be a qualified emperor......

However, none of these people will end up with anything very good, and even if they are not unlucky in life, most of them will not end well after death......

Among them, the most typical is the famous classmate Wei Zheng in history, who was a mirror of the ancients during his lifetime, and was dug up by Li Shimin and whipped his body in minutes after his death......

This is actually the price that the inferior must pay for offending the superior!

Sometimes, even if there is nothing wrong with the offense itself, the offense is a very hateful thing in the end!

(To be continued.) )