Chapter 1454: The Mood is Over
Dragon Slayer.
There is actually no right or wrong in what kind of tendency an awakened person has......
In a sense, whether or not you go crazy has nothing to do with the so-called good or evil......
The two themselves are not very related......
Whether it is good or evil, orderly or chaotic, many times, it is just a matter of one's concept, and there is no right or wrong in the concept itself......
And the stability of the state of mind does not refer to the state of a certain camp......
In essence, the so-called stable dìng of the state of mind actually refers to a state of unity of action and knowledge......
The so-called unity of action and knowledge means that a person's behavior and his position always greet each other, and no matter what he does, he will never go against his own heart......
This is also a stable state of mind......
Everyone has their own way, and if they go against their own way, it is equivalent to going against their own heart, and then they will not end well......
And the so-called madness, in fact, is essentially a kind of behavior that violates the path that is firmly established in one's heart......
For example, if a person believes in the inherent goodness of the human heart, then when he sees some evil things beyond the scope of his imagination, he may shake his true heart, and he will feel a strong struggle ∫ in his heart, and after the struggle, either the person will feel broken because he cannot accept such a reality, or he will have to revise his original cognitive path and revise his perception of the world......
On the other hand, if a person believes in his heart that human nature is inherently evil. But I met some people who were truly selfless and fair. Then it may also subvert the inner thoughts of the person......
Of course. There is no end to good and evil in itself, and whether the source of human nature is good or evil is very difficult to make accurate judgments in itself, and because of this, whether it is a person who agrees with the path of goodness or a person who agrees with the path of evil, he is often able to go on the path that he agrees with. And from any one thing, to practice the path that you agree with......
It can also be seen from this that in fact, in this world, there are no good things in the pure sense, or bad things in the pure sense......
A good person can always see good things from bad things, and evil people can always see bad things from good things, and both sides can be said to take what they need. Each of them is just practicing the path they agree with......
A person, the farther he walks on a road. The deeper the understanding of this path, the more difficult it will be to distort this understanding and shake the other person's state of mind......
There are even times when a kind person often appears to be more and more kind when he has seen more evil, and an evil person who has seen more and more goodness will appear to be more and more evil......
A good person sees that evil is invincible and strengthens the good in his heart, while the evil person is always able to read the stupidity and incompetence in other good deeds, and thus strengthens the evil in his heart......
In fact, whether it is good or evil, it is a feasible path......
Going mad is often not only a transformation from good to evil, but also a transformation from evil to good, or from one extreme to another.
In a certain sense, excessive kindness and excessive evil are both typical symptoms of madness......
It's like a person who doesn't have much money himself, but he saves money every day and donates all the wealth he earns except for living expenses, then such a person seems to be kind on the surface, but in fact, it is so kind that it is a kind of enchantment, and this kind of kindness is no longer counted as kindness in the true sense......
is like the jade Buddha bead in the legend of Sword and Fairy who forcibly pulls people to become monks, which is a typical example of doing evil in the name of goodness......
In fact, many times, the same is true for many parents of young children......
Excessive spoiling of children, saving their own food and frugality, and pinning all their hopes on their children, such a kind of expression is of course a kind of deep love, but loving this kind of thing, deep to such a point, in fact, often does not have any good results, the so-called thing pole must be the opposite of this truth......
Any love, whether it is the love of children for their parents, or the love of parents for their children, or the love between husband and wife, should not be extreme paranoia in nature......
This is a state of intense dedication and sacrifice that completely ignores self-existence, and in short, they don't care about themselves at all in this kind of relationship, and they will give themselves unconditionally, just to be able to make the goal feel a little happy and satisfied......
In fact, it is one of the typical pathologies in love, once this pathology occurs, it will inevitably lead to tragedy in the end......
In fact, the most correct kind of love in the world is the love for oneself, only one person really loves himself, can he treat others correctly, otherwise, even those who don't cherish themselves, what qualifications do they have to cherish others?
Unfortunately, many people don't understand this......
As a result, many couples turn against each other, and many families have conflicts and disputes......
Many people do non-loving acts in the name of love, and they are complacent and glad for it......
In fact, strictly speaking, such people can be regarded as going crazy......
On the contrary, excessive discipline of children keeps children under their own management control, from study to life, and even to work and make friends. Parents who want to be included in the control. In fact, it is also a kind of sick love......
If it is said. In real life, the root of the contradictions between many mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law is often the war that erupts from the possessiveness between women......
In fact, these two kinds of love are the expression xiàn. On the surface, it seems to be the strongest love, but in fact, this kind of love often has the opposite effect......
To put it simply, there is no problem with the purpose, but there is a clear error in the way it is achieved......
Because of this, although the intention is good, the result often backfires!
In fact, this situation is a typical state of mind that is distorted!
If a person is maintained in a state of stable state of mind......
So. What he does is often what he wants to achieve. It will be consistent, that is, he will always be able to do the right thing to achieve the effect he wants......
And this is the most typical example of a stable state of mind!
On the other hand, people who are in an unstable mood tend to behave in the opposite way of their goals......
What they want to do and what they actually do often show a great deviation, and the greater this deviation, the worse the state of mind of this type of person, the more unstable they are......
To give a simple example, a teacher intends to teach students well, but when he encounters those naughty students, he still can't help but beat and scold the other party, he feels that his behavior is good for the child and can help the child improve his grades, but the actual result is that everyone in the class feels panicked, and his academic performance has declined, so he intensified, and was finally exposed by the media, so he was finally expelled from the school......
In this case, the teacher's purpose itself may not be wrong, and he did do something that he thought was right, but the result was the opposite, which illustrates a problem, which shows that he is very wrong about the path he has chosen and the way he has chosen, while he himself thinks that he is not wrong, so the mistake is naturally rolled bigger and bigger, and the more and more rolled, and finally he loses his job......
In the final analysis, it is actually doing what you think you are right, but in fact you can't achieve the purpose you imagined, and even have a great negative effect......
And what is the difference between this kind of behavior, in essence, and those parents who think they are good for their children, but in fact they keep hurting their children?
Educating children is a very advanced knowledge in itself, and there are many parents who don't know how to pretend to understand, so it is often easy to produce all kinds of conflicts and disputes that could have been avoided......
In fact, from the perspective of ordinary people, the better the mood, the more clear they will be about what they need, and they will also be very clear about how they should do it to get what they need!
On the other hand, people who are in an unstable mood often don't even know what they really want, as if they want everything, but they don't know how to get everything, as if they know how to do it, but when they really do it, they are confused and don't know where to start......
Even if you do do it, the results are often not satisfactory......
At the end of the day, it's just that there's no real clear path to success!
Just like the so-called cooking, in fact, it is also a kind of Tao, understand the so-called way of cooking, and naturally you can make your own imaginary delicious food when cooking, and the color and flavor are exactly the same as you expected, and on the contrary, if you don't know how to cook, then there will undoubtedly be a very cruel gap between dreams and reality, and a lot of dark dishes are often produced under this blind confidence and optimism......
Clear path, firm beliefs, and stable state of mind, this is one of the most important elements to become a strong person!
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Dragon Slayer.
Good or evil, if on the right path. In fact, there will be no problem of zài going crazy. Generally speaking, though. People who embark on the evil path are often much more likely to go mad than those who are on the right path, and the more they pursue, the more they will inevitably find it difficult to control their state of mind, and it is often easy to get out of control......
In fact, after reaching a certain height, it is often difficult to simply divide the relationship between the two......
Just like when Buddhism cultivates to a high level, there will also be the existence of the angry eye Vajra that is almost completely contrary to the Dharma. And the devil has come to an end, in fact, it is also to use his own ideas to influence the world, the so-called my Buddha is compassionate, but my demon is also compassionate, my Buddha has crossed people, and my demon can also cross people......
In the final analysis, it is nothing more than a difference in religious philosophy......
As long as the true meaning is firm in the path chosen by one's heart, then good and evil are actually not very important!
No matter how evil a person is, there will be good thoughts in his heart, no matter how good a person is. There will also be occasional evil thoughts in the heart......
This is why in many immortal cultivation novels, good people always have to cut out their evil thoughts. And the wicked need to cut out their own good thoughts, this is the truth, whether it is to cut off good thoughts, or to cut off evil thoughts, in essence, it is actually to cater to their inner path, so that their state of mind becomes more pure and stronger!
Strength and state of mind are always complementary to each other!
The state of mind is the carrier of power, and the stronger the state of mind, the more powerful the power that can be fully controlled by oneself!
And the same power, the power that is completely included in one's control, can be regarded as the power that truly belongs to oneself, and those forces generated by using external objects outside the rules are actually not really their own in essence......
In the same way, the efficiency that the former can produce is probably far higher than that of the latter, which is tens or even hundreds of times higher!
The power that belongs to oneself is the state of mind that dominates the power, and the power completely belongs to oneself, and you can do whatever you want......
The power that does not belong to oneself is the power that governs the state of mind, and the power does not belong to oneself, so the state of mind will inevitably be disturbed by the power and produce some involuntary changes!
The so-called madness in the martial arts, in essence, is nothing more than wanting to obtain, or having obtained too much power beyond the scope of one's state of mind, so that the power dominates one's behavior and makes oneself present a state of domination......
This is actually like the difference between the nouveau riche and the traditional rich in reality!
Traditional tycoons, almost every penny, is their own hard work to obtain things, they surrender dozens of ideas in the business world, accompanied by countless successes and failures, so their state of mind is often worthy of the huge wealth they have, in this case, they often do not appear domineering, even in the face of subordinates, in the face of ordinary people, can maintain a most basic politeness, will not have any unprovoked hatred behavior......
However, this is not that they have no pride, but their pride has been hidden deep in the bones, so that people can't see or touch, only they know that they are so proud that they don't even want to let people see their pride, in fact, such a rich man, even if they wear the most ordinary clothes, will easily attract the attention of others, because their restrained temperament is always the most attractive place......
This is a typical example of the state of mind dominating wealth, for such a rich man, they use a fortune of their own, it must be the result of rational thinking, in their dictionary, there is the concept of the so-called impulse, they may make mistakes, even if they make mistakes, they will not be stupid low-level mistakes, most of the time, they will make mistakes, ordinary people are not even qualified to make mistakes......
On the contrary, many nouveau riche often wear gold and silver, wear many rings on their hands, wear thick gold necklaces around their necks, and hug scantily clad beauties, which does not seem to be so, which is not enough to show their wealth and wealth......
Such people are happy to reveal their wealth in front of people they know or don't know, and they want to gain the envy and hatred of others and enjoy this feeling of being in the limelight......
They are happy to flaunt their wealth. Even if it does. For them. It doesn't really make sense, but they're still happy to do it......
In essence, the most fundamental reason why they have such behavior is actually because they harvest wealth much faster than most rich people, and it is because of sudden wealth that the growth rate of their state of mind cannot keep up with the growth of wealth......
Thereupon. They are at the mercy of their own wealth!
They are constantly showing off themselves under the control of wealth......
In the final analysis, in fact, such behavior, in essence, is often just because they may have a faint inferiority complex in their hearts......
The vast majority of nouveau riche tend to belong to the type that has no cultural background and no family background, so they are discriminated against and ridiculed before they succeed in society. It's often not going anywhere, that's why it's the case. They are desperate to prove themselves in front of other people, to prove that they are not so-called hillbillies, to prove that they are not so-called nouveau riche......
However, just as a neurotic will never admit that he is a psychopath, a person who argues that he is not a neurotic is more likely to be a neurotic, and a person who argues that he is not an upstart is more likely to be an upstart......
The nouveau riche usually do not have any good results, and when the accumulation of wealth exceeds the limits of the state of mind, many of people's behaviors are often not governed by reason......
Many honest and cowardly migrant workers, after becoming nouveau riche, often become extremely arrogant and high-profile, with no one in their eyes, they feel that they are great, and they always like to show off their achievements in front of others......
In the final analysis, it is nothing more than an extreme distortion from one pathological character to another......
There is a saying that if God wants to destroy a man, he must first make a man mad!
If people are crazy, they will inevitably do some stupid things that anger and resentment, and then they will naturally be annihilated by the power of humanity......
And the reason why the vast majority of nouveau riche are declining is also because of this......
The word "normal heart" is often mentioned by people, but the people who can really do it are a minority of the minority......
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Dragon Slayer.
The starry sky flashed like a meteor under the light of the knife, although under each knife, a lot of consciousness will be annihilated, but the whole starry sky still looks dazzling......
The battle continues, but the tide of the battle has slowly changed......
Wang Yu, as always, maintained his normal heart......
Having a normal mind is not difficult for many people......
Because a lot of people are ordinary people......
What ordinary people have, naturally, is the ordinary mind, and it can only be the ordinary mind......
The two words usually, if used to describe a person, are enough to erase all the ambitions and ** in this person, and make this person ordinary......
Therefore, it is just a matter of course for ordinary people to have a normal mind......
However, it is natural for ordinary people to have a normal mind, but it is not a normal mind in the real sense, at best, it is just ordinary because it is ordinary......
Many people are actually unwilling to be ordinary, but they don't have the ability to let themselves live an extraordinary life, so they can only live normally......
And the truly rare ordinary heart is precious in extraordinary people!
The more extraordinary people are, the more precious their ordinary heart is!
Just like those big people, the more powerful they are, the richer they are, if they have a normal heart, the more powerful they are...... (To be continued......)