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That's the nature of humanity......

Ordinary religious believers are often respected by the vast majority of people, just like many Buddhists or Christians in reality, the vast majority of them belong to the type of relatively gentle and kind personality, and they will not provoke right and wrong if they are kind to others......

However, the fanatical religious believers are completely different......

Fanatical religious believers, their thoughts and ideas, are completely different from ordinary people, they regard religion as their everything, even far above their own lives, and such people, in a sense, have long lost themselves completely and become puppets of so-called religious beliefs......

The most typical manifestation of the vast majority of cults is that they have a large number of fanatical followers, and under the brainwashing of the cult, these believers have completely lost their sense of self and become puppets of the cult, dedicating everything they have......

The vast majority of ordinary religious believers are kind, benevolent and generous, but fanatical religious believers are often indifferent and cruel beings......

He always felt that he was right, that he was kind, that he represented justice, but in fact, their actions had long exceeded the scale of humanity and become a cancer in the humanitarian order......

In fact, many of the brainwashed followers of cults have a very high moral level, and the vast majority of them belong to the category of simplicity and kindness, but after being brainwashed, their moral standards will become deformed, and even far beyond the scope of what society can accommodate, so they will naturally become a state that ordinary people cannot understand and accept at all......

Such people, their thoughts and actions, only in their own eyes are righteous and take it for granted, but in the eyes of outsiders, they are extreme and crazy, even neurotic......

In many cases, the fanatical believers in some cults are not actually bad people, but their existence is precisely to undermine the humanitarian order!

Many people, they actually want to do good things, but they lack the ability to do good things, they will always make a mess of good things, the starting point is always good, but the final result is often the opposite of the starting point......

Many people always feel that if the starting point is good, then the behavior can be forgiven, but in a sense, there is a good starting point but there is no way to achieve their goal, such a person itself is a manifestation of a lack of clear cognition and sufficient ability......

It's like a parent's question about their child's education......

Many parents always choose some wrong ways and methods when educating their children, although the starting point is always good, but often the final result will always backfire, and many parents themselves are often unable to face up to their own problems, always try to find problems from children, and never reflect on whether their behavior is at fault......

This model of education that actually acts non-lovingly in the name of love is essentially a mistake, and sometimes the more parents are educated, the more likely they are to make such mistakes......

They always try to educate their children in their own way, but they never think about teaching them according to their aptitude......

In a sense, with the wrong way to educate children, in a sense, it may be better to choose not to educate children, let yourself grow up naturally, many rural college students, in fact, parents have no culture, for children do not have too many ways and means at the level of education, but as long as children work hard, they can also become talents, and on the contrary, if you choose the wrong way of education, it will have side effects on the growth of children......

Children's rebellious psychology will always have a role all the time, so that they will naturally have greater or lesser resistance to their parents' orders......

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The essence of humanity has never been to make people go in the wrong way......

The essence of humanity, in a sense, is to make people truly achieve a state of unity of action and knowledge......

If you want to do something, you can find a right way to do it, instead of lacking enough ability and ending up making a mess of a good thing......

The story of Zigong's redemption of slaves is, in the final analysis, just a small thing, but in this small matter, it is implied that there is a lack of great wisdom in life......

King Lu's behavior is naturally a kind of good deed, and this kind of good deed is not only in the effect of the good deed itself, but also in the fact that this kind of good deed encourages more people to do a good deed, so that doing good deeds becomes a potential habit of everyone, and so that everyone can correctly recognize the actual satisfaction that can be generated by doing a good deed, so as to inspire people to do more good deeds......

In this matter, King Lu embodied a kind of humane thought and humane wisdom in the true sense......

In other words, King Lu's own purpose is to do good deeds, and at the same time, the methods he uses can indeed really do good deeds, which is a kind of wisdom that ordinary people do not have......

Many people only know how to do good deeds, but they don't know how to do good deeds and how to really help those in need......

In society, there are many, many people who are kind, there are many people who are willing to help others, and there are many people who are willing to make sacrifices and even sacrifices for others......

However, there are very few people who really understand what kind of dedication, what kind of sacrifice, what kind of help, is what other people really need, and how they should do it!

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This is the difference between a philanthropist and a good person in reality!

In the same way, philanthropists can maximize their wealth and use the most reasonable way to help those who really need help, but good people lack the ability to do charity in many cases......

It is not only a lack of wealth, but also a lack of operational and management capabilities......

The same amount of money falls into the hands of good people who are kind and helpful at all, and the most they can do is donate it to those in need......

If it falls into the hands of philanthropists, philanthropists can distribute the funds in a reasonable way to the greatest extent, and finally let more people get the help they need most, which is not only help at the monetary level, but also gives them the possibility of a better life in a substantive sense......

For example, the establishment of hope primary schools, such as the establishment of convenient hospitals, such as the establishment of vocational schools, etc., etc., the same wealth, through reasonable planning, can generate more wealth, and at the same time give more people in need of help, the most appropriate help......

At the same time, in the process, the philanthropist himself can also gain a lot of fame and fortune......

And this is also a true sense of self-interest......

Philanthropists can earn wealth, they can earn fame, and at the same time, they can also help those in need in a real sense, which is the true meaning of so-called charity......

And this is also a value that the humanitarian order should uphold......

Charity in the true sense is not only to help others, but also to make oneself gain fame and fortune, and only things that can benefit oneself can people devote themselves wholeheartedly......

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In real life, some phenomena seem to be laudable on the surface, but when you think about it, they are actually anti-humane concepts......

Let's take a simple example......

After working for more than a dozen or even dozens of hours in a row and performing five or six surgeries in a row, the hard-working doctor collapsed under the operating table, and then was photographed and praised as the so-called most beautiful doctor......

However, in a sense, such praise and praise should not exist in itself......

On the contrary, people should question why a doctor is so tired, why a doctor needs to work for such a long time, why a doctor can still operate on patients despite high fatigue, whether the hospital's arrangement is reasonable, whether it meets humane standards, and whether there are obvious omissions in the hospital's rules and regulations. Working with a high degree of fatigue should be praised or criticized for a surgeon who needs a high degree of finesse as a professional standard?

People can't subconsciously identify with the doctor's character and medical ethics because they see a doctor's noble conduct, can't subconsciously identify with the doctor's character and medical ethics because they see a doctor insisting on working in fatigue, more often, they should see the essence of this matter through the phenomenon, a doctor who is tired and insists on working, in fact, should not appear in the news, because the incident itself reflects the inhumanity of the hospital in the management of doctors, and it reflects the lack of hospital management ability. The reflection itself is that the hospital and doctors do not pay enough attention to the patient's operation, otherwise, why would the tired doctor go to the operating table?

It's like an officialdom story, saying that there are two villages, and there are often floods, so the superiors sent two village chiefs to manage them, one of the village chiefs, as soon as he took office, chose to control the water, build dikes, strengthen the residents' awareness of prevention, and often conduct relevant lectures and drills, while the other village head, after taking office, did nothing......

So, one day, the flood really came......

The previous village that built the embankment was finally intact and did not suffer any property damage or casualties, while the latter village suffered the baptism of floods and lost a lot of property......

What does this story illustrate?

It shows that many times, what people sing about virtue is precisely the part that should not be praised in the least!

The so-called good fighters have no outstanding military exploits, and this is the truth......

A really good hospital does not need the so-called touching deeds to set off, and the so-called touching stories will not happen at all, because when the hospital system is reasonable enough, the so-called touching deeds themselves will not happen at all......

(To be continued.) )