Dragon Slayer.

There's a quote that says this......

Never be the second person, always be the first yourself......

A person who always tries to imitate other people, no matter how successful, is at best an imitator......

It's like a fiction writer, no matter how similar he is to a well-known writer, he can only act as a gunman at best, and at best only act as a shadow writer behind those well-known writers......

Only if he can write his own style, then he can be recognized by others in the true sense, if he just blindly chooses to imitate, then he can only be a shadow......

The so-called rather than the head of the chicken rather than the tail of the phoenix is such a truth......

In fact, many people are very clear about this truth, but when they are really faced with a choice, they often always make the opposite decision......

Just like in the choice of starting their own business and working for others, the vast majority of people often choose the latter, although they themselves know very well that choosing the latter means being subject to others, which means that they cannot get freedom in the true sense......

However, compared with the risk of starting a business, the vast majority of people are often more willing to accept a relatively comfortable job and a relatively stable life......

Although many people know very well that in the process of part-time work, most of the income they create is actually occupied by the boss, but in terms of profits, they are more concerned about this kind of work mode without taking any risks......

At the end of the day, the vast majority of people. They tend to be more willing to accept relatively simple and stable work. Ultimately. Most people have an inferiority complex to a greater or lesser extent......

They always feel that there are many things in this world that they can't do and can't do......

Because of this, they are always unwilling and afraid to take on the role of a leader, and they are always used to being dominated by others......

It's like a lot of people in a team game, most of the time they won't be willing to express their opinions, more often than not. They tend to silently and simply obey the form of command......

In fact, if you have to find a reason, it is because they are always unwilling to take responsibility, always prefer to fish in troubled waters, and always prefer to hide in the crowd......

In fact, in essence, such an approach is a typical inferiority complex......

It's like a lot of people don't like to play the role of conductor when they play games, even if they are already very familiar with a dungeon, but they always prefer to play soy sauce in the team......

They will always subconsciously feel that they can't do it, that they can't do it. Feeling that they are unable to take on the responsibility of a conductor and that they do not have the ability to command a team......

Such a mentality. In fact, in the hearts of the vast majority of people, there is zài......

Especially in the eyes of many dicks, they will always subconsciously self-deny themselves, always subconsciously deny their abilities, always subconsciously feel that they are not as good as others, always subconsciously feel that they can't complete the communication with beauties alone, and always feel that they are not worthy of the goddess, so they are not willing to strive for it......

In many cases, many people are not incapable, nor are they without potential, but simply lack the confidence to do a good job......

Yes, confident!

Compared to other things, self-confidence is the source of many people's real success!

Many people will always blame their mediocrity on their physical appearance, or their family background, but never consider it, in fact, the two may not be as important as they think......

It's like in a lot of time-traveling or rebirth novels......

The protagonists are often able to break out of their fame in a short period of time after changing their bodies, and the reason for this is that, on the one hand, although there are various golden fingers that the author has prescribed to the protagonist, the most critical problem actually comes from the protagonist's body......

Whether it's identity, background, or even body, in fact, it can't really have much impact on the final achievement of the protagonist, and what really determines the achievement of a protagonist is, in essence, the soul of a protagonist!

In fact, the so-called soul, simply put, is the self!

Yes, ego!

Everyone actually has a true sense of self, this self itself, in fact, has nothing to do with a person's body, has nothing to do with a person's identity, has nothing to do with a person's background, and has nothing to do with a person's height, shortness, fat and thinness, the self is the self, is the most real self, is the origin of a person's true sense!

In fact, no matter what kind of social background system you grow up in, truth will always end up in the same way......

Just like the discoveries of many scientific circles, whether they are Eastern or Western, the final conclusions will often be the same, and there may be different ways of expressing them, but in essence, there is often not too fundamental difference......

And the truth is often the same......

It's like the concept of the so-called self......

In the eyes of the Orientals, the so-called cultivation of truth is actually a process of finding the true self, removing the false and retaining the truth, abandoning the false search, and looking for the truth of the true meaning, which is the so-called way of cultivating the truth......

In the process of cultivating the truth, a person will gradually understand the world, and will gradually recognize himself, recognize all kinds of rules in this world, and at the same time, he will naturally have a clear understanding of his past and present lives, gradually understand what kind of existence he is, and gradually realize what is the true self and what is his true pursuit......

Recognizing the rules of a world can often make a cultivator have great power and recognize himself. It will enable a person to discern his true mind. Let him truly understand his pursuit......

Ultimately. It's nothing more than a quest for truth......

In the Western fantasy world, in fact, in essence, in the world of swords and magic, what magicians pursue is also such a real truth, and the biggest difference between magicians and scientists is that after scientists understand the rules, they need to make all kinds of tools. can use the power of rules, and as long as they have tools, even people who don't understand the rules can still use the power of rules, but magicians are different, after magicians understand the rules of the world, the power can only be attributed to themselves, and no one can plunder the power of a mage......

The difference between the two is that scientists can only work for those in power, while magicians are the real masters of the world......

In the midst of many Western fantasy worlds. In many power systems, there is often a so-called real name setting. After any kind of creature is strong enough to a certain extent, it will often awaken its true name, which is different from the conventional names, the so-called true name is the name of the source of real power, and it is also the source of the power of a strong person, each real name is unique, and every strong person will have a completely different real name, and any strong person, their real name will not be known lightly by others, because their power is often in their real name......

In fact, in a sense, this system of true names in the Western fantasy world is actually essentially the same concept as the true self sought by Eastern cultivators......

This kind of power itself does not come from all things in heaven and earth, but simply from one's own body, and everyone has such power, but few people can discover this power......

Many people always hope that they can become another person, but in fact, they often do not really realize that instead of becoming the shadow of others, it is better to truly find their own strength and become a unique self......

In fact, in physiognomy, there is also the concept of the so-called mutual birth of the heart......

A person's appearance is actually accompanied by many factors, and this change is often difficult to explain purely by science......

It's like some people look kind and look good at a glance, some people look gloomy and don't look good at first glance, and some people are angry and look like hooligans and gangsters at a glance......

These things, many times, are often at the level of temperament, although they seem to be completely invisible on the surface, but the vast majority of people can often feel the different senses brought by this facial expression......

This is the so-called born from the heart, most of the time, a person's appearance can see a person's character and temper, except for a very small number of people who are born to look more vicious or a very small number of people who are born to look extremely good, the vast majority of people in the process of growing up, the face will always be imperceptibly transformed into a person's inner character, that is, because of this, many people can always see the other party's character from a person's appearance......

is like the so-called kind eyebrows, in fact, it is difficult to simply describe, what kind of eyebrows are like, what kind of eyes are like, it is nothing more than a feeling that gives people......

Actually, in the final analysis, this is where a kind of true self affects a person's appearance......

This influence itself is not a visual influence, but more often than not, it is mainly a spiritual influence......

It's like a soldier who has seen blood on his hands, because he has seen blood, such a person often looks indifferent on his face, even if he smiles, it is often easy to give people a chilling feeling, even if the body does not look strong, and may even be very thin, but such a person can often give people a sense of psychological oppression very lightly......

This sense of oppression does not actually stem from visual oppression, but more from spiritual oppression......

In fact, many special forces, purely in terms of size, are not much different from ordinary people, but when everyone comes into contact with the two, they can always feel the completely different breath between the two very lightly......

The concept of breath. It is ethereal in itself. There's no way to see it. Something that can't be touched......

But sometimes, it can really be felt, especially the difference in eyes, a person who has really killed people and seen blood, is swept by such a person, I am afraid that the vast majority of people will subconsciously shiver......

Actually, speaking of which, this is also a kind of difference on the level of the real self!

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Dragon Slayer.

In the midst of the illusory world. The vast majority of people, when creating a game character, will always more or less correct their appearance and body shape, and correct some of the things that they are dissatisfied with in reality, in order to be able to present the most perfect self state in the game......

Players will always be very envious of some qualities that they don't have, and will always subconsciously incorporate some things that they can't ask for when creating their own game characters......

However, the strong in the true sense of the word disdains to make any corrections to themselves!

They have enough self-confidence. They know exactly what they should be!

They don't go with the flow. Doesn't change itself because of other people's gaze......

The human aesthetic is often very strange......

Just like for the vast majority of people, fat people always don't look so beautiful, and many fat people always have a feeling of inferiority because of their figure, feeling that they are not easy to attract the attention of the opposite sex, and feel that they are very unpleasant in social interactions, so they always subconsciously want to change their appearance to cater to the eyes of others......

However, in the eyes of most people, the shape of Maitreya Buddha often represents a harmonious beauty that is difficult to describe in words......

The big belly can tolerate, tolerate the intolerable things in the world, smile often, laugh at the ridiculous people in the world!

is also fat, but Maitreya Buddha's fat does not give people any ugly feeling, and is even full of a beauty that is difficult to describe in words......

In fact, not only Maitreya Buddha, but also the vast majority of religions, the vast majority of gods, whether they are fierce or ugly, for pilgrims, in their eyes, they seem to be full of moving beauty......

In fact, it is not so much a sense of beauty as a sense of fit......

Yes, fit!

The so-called fit, like harmony in music, always gives people a sense of harmony......

The appearance of a god and the temperament of a god, if they can fit perfectly, then it will naturally not give people an ugly feeling, but will make people feel a heartfelt shock!

It can even make people feel that the appearance of this god seems to be like this!

In fact, the real thing of aesthetics is not just a one-sided concept in many cases......

It's a two-sided interaction!

The same dance......

Dance that may seem very weird to the average person, even to the extreme......

If it is an ordinary person to dance, it is often easy to make people laugh, especially between acquaintances, and it is easy to make people feel that this dance is so ugly......

However, if you are a professional dancer and dance with the most professional skills, it will often bring a completely different sensory experience to others!

Maybe one second ago, people who thought the dance moves were very ugly and looked unaesthetically pleasing, but full of funny, will be impressed by this weird and beautiful dance after a second!

Perhaps on the surface, there is no difference between an ordinary person dancing and a dancer dancing, but the lack of spirit between the two is completely different. So they really made a fool of themselves......

And in the dancers looked. They're putting on a show. So in the eyes of others, their dance really turned into a wonderful performance!

This is called the power of the ego......

The more a person can fit a thing, the more handy it is often to do, and the easier it is to gain the recognition of others.

The same thing. When a person thinks that he is ugly, other people will naturally feel that person is ugly, because he has already given up on himself, then other people will naturally feel the same way......

On the contrary, if a person can express enough self-confidence, then in the eyes of others, this person will naturally show a shining side, and such a person will always be able to gain the recognition of others......

At the end of the day, it's like the so-called color!

The color in everyone's eyes. In fact, in essence, they are all different. There will be more or less color differences......

However, everyone's definition of color is exactly the same, except for the very obvious color blindness, the vast majority of people, the deviation of color perception between each other, will not affect their communication at all......

In the final analysis, even if a person is color blind in the true sense of the word, the colors he sees are completely different from other people's colors, or even diametrically opposed, but as long as he does not confuse these colors, he can communicate with other people like a completely normal person, and even he himself will not notice that the colors in his eyes are different from other people, and others cannot perceive this!

The reason for this is because for people, the definition of color itself is often much more important than the actual situation of color!

Once a fixed perception is formed, it doesn't really matter what the so-called color should be!

There is a lyric that sings like this - I am me, fireworks of different colors!

In fact, everyone is a firework of different colors, but the vast majority of people always forget their own existence when they envy the beauty of others......

And in the illusory world, almost every strong person in the true sense of the word, their appearance is basically not going to make any corrections......

There is no other reason, because almost every strong person in the true sense of the word......

They are absolutely satisfied with themselves!

They don't complain about any aspect of themselves!

They are satisfied with their height, they are satisfied with their shape, they are satisfied with their appearance, they are satisfied with their voice......

They don't want to make any changes for the sake of other people's eyes!

They can change themselves, but they don't change themselves for other people, and when they change themselves, they often have only one reason, and that is that they want to do it, not because of other people's ideas or concepts......

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Dragon Slayer.

In a certain sense, Wang Yu is also a very selfish person......

He also doesn't change himself for anything......

He wouldn't do that when he's strong or when he's weak......

He doesn't care about gains and losses, and he doesn't care too much about what other people think......

From a very young age, Wang Yu has been such a person......

Whether it's studying, living, or working......

He never changes himself for the sake of what other people think......

For him, there is nothing in this world that is worth changing......

He has an extraordinary self-confidence in himself......

He always felt that he lived in this world, he was a unique being, and there was no need to learn from anyone else or get closer, he was himself......

He will approve of some people's ideas or ideas, but he will never stop at them......

He'll love the style of some of the stars, but he's definitely not going to be a die-hard fan of them...... (To be continued......)