Chapter 8: Mother's Heart
"If you want to be a senior talent, you have to strictly adhere to the deadline and do what you have to do. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info" Nami became serious and said seriously, "It's past nine o'clock now, it's time to go to bed, go to bed!" ”
Zhuang Zhuang agreed very happily: "Okay! Then I'll go back to the house and go to sleep! Good night mom and dad! He ran back to his room.
"This kid, if only he were stronger!" Li Nan said lovingly.
"You can take him for a good run! After running for a while, the body will gradually become stronger. After speaking, Nami picked up the remote control and turned on the TV, which was fixed on the movie channel. While watching, I remembered my own thoughts.
There don't seem to be too many parents who want their children to study for a doctorate when they grow up, and now the average parent still wants their children to go to a good university, that is, to enter a prestigious school like Ben. A small number of people also hope that their children can graduate from college and go to graduate school, or go abroad to study for graduate school.
But Nami doesn't think so, all she wants is to let her child study for a doctorate, and this idea is very strong, according to her words, it is a must!
Why do you have to let your child do a PhD? Nami has her own understanding.
She feels that the higher the culture, the greater the room for improvement. Now it is a society dominated by science and technology, college students are everywhere, master's students are not uncommon, and only doctoral students are still rare. In this state, those high-end science and technology must be led by doctoral students, and college students can only engage in general science and technology. Therefore, the upward space of ordinary college students is very limited, and only doctoral students can master the high-precision and cutting-edge.
She feels that the higher the culture, the higher the level in society. Because there are still very few people who can read doctoral students, these people are brought out by high-level intellectuals, and they can be said to be the elite in society, and they will quickly take up high-level technical positions wherever they go, so it can be said that they are no longer ordinary people.
She feels that the higher the culture, the less trouble there will be when she enters society. For example, after graduating from a doctorate, you will become an engineer one year later, and you will become a senior engineer after four years, which has come to an end in the technical title. However, if you graduate from university, you will be an assistant engineer after one year, an engineer after four years, and a senior engineer after five years. As for when he can be rated as a professor-level senior engineer, there is no spectrum, and he may not be rated for a lifetime. This is still in a conditional unit, if it is in a unit without conditions, it will be blown, and no technical title will be evaluated. Studying for a PhD is to study for a few more years, and after leaving school, it is completely different.
Of course, Nami hopes that her child's Ph.D. is also her own life experience.
She was recruited to the electronics factory after graduating from college at the end of the last century, and was rated as an assistant engineer in the first year, but when she was evaluated as an engineer four years later, she didn't know why there was a quota limit, saying that her job was not very technical, so she was not rated as an engineer. Seeing that most of the college students who entered the factory with her became engineers, she really didn't feel good in her heart, and she felt very shameless.
It was another two years before she was named an engineer. What's the point of that, the people who entered the factory later than her are all engineers. Half a year ago, the factory began to evaluate senior engineers again, and there were only a few places, she didn't even think about it, and she definitely didn't have her share.
The end result was that she was locked out of the senior engineer's door.
Although I felt awkward this time, I didn't have any frustration because I didn't have hope from the beginning. In addition, after so many years of ups and downs in the factory, the mentality has long been practiced, and in the end, it is a laugh.
Nami also thought about her technical path that was not so smooth, and she thought that the main thing was that she didn't pay too much attention to interpersonal relationships, maybe she offended someone, which is why she was so bumpy. If you pay attention to your relationships everywhere, it will certainly not be an unpleasant result.
Fortunately, Nami's husband Li Nan is not bad. They graduated from college in the same year and entered the factory, but Li Nan went very smoothly, from technician to squad leader to workshop engineer, was rated as a senior engineer half a year ago, and then became the workshop director. Not only did the technical title decline, but he also became a middle-level cadre. For this, Nami couldn't figure it out.
Her husband's development has helped her stabilize her mood to some extent, and she didn't catch any of the good things, but her husband has declined, which is also balanced. That's what Nami thinks now, so she doesn't think about these things anymore, as long as her husband is good, as a woman, it's right to do a good job in the family.
But she still couldn't understand why Li Nan could catch up with everything, but she couldn't. In particular, I didn't see him engage in any interpersonal relationships, he had a good relationship with anyone, but he didn't have any special interactions with anyone, is this just engaging in interpersonal relationships?
Nami often thinks that this is the case for his own affairs, and he can't take care of other people's affairs, but he still has the right to manage his own children's affairs. According to her own life experience, she asked Zhuang Zhuang to study hard, at least to study for a doctorate, and if she still has the ability, then to study for a postdoctorate, anyway, the minimum cannot be lower than a doctorate. In this way, there will not be so many troubles after entering the society, and even if there is, it will be after becoming a professor.
It's already very good for a person to be a professor in this life, and the professor's future things will be better, and if not, he will be pulled down, which is not so important.
Because of this, Nami hopes that Zhuang Zhuang must study for a doctorate.
However, many things are not transferred by human will, you want to do this, but the final result is not like this, and many times it is the opposite of what you think. Nami also understands this. But she thinks that no matter what the result is, you must work hard in the direction you want. As long as you work hard, you won't regret any result.
What will be the end result of the strong?
It seems too early to tell. Although the fortune teller calculated that he would become a king when he was not too old, it was simply a shadowless thing, and Nami didn't believe it at all.
The problem now is that Zhuang Zhuang is not in good health, and it seems that it is not accurate to say this, as if Zhuang Zhuang has some serious illness. To be precise, the strong body is not very strong, the physique is slightly poor, and the physical resistance is relatively weak.
In the face of such a state, Nami was a little worried in her heart, she was really afraid that Zhuang Zhuang would have physical problems during the entire study period from elementary school to doctorate, so that it would be difficult to complete the entire study, which was more than enough heart and not enough strength. Therefore, it is also very important for Zhuangzhuang to be in good health.
Nami is still very supportive of Li Nan's running with a strong man, and if he can stick to it, his strong body will definitely become strong in a few years. She very much wanted her strong body to be like his name - strong.
For letting Zhuang Zhuang learn qigong and practice tai chi, Nami still felt that it was too much time. How can Qigong and Tai Chi be so easy to learn, how many people have not learned it, but they can learn it? Zhuang Zhuang has no talent in this area, and he will definitely not be able to learn it. Since you can't learn it, it's better not to learn, and it's better to have that time to study more cultural classes.
Li Nan got up from the sofa and went to the kitchen to get two glasses, then opened the refrigerator door next to the TV cabinet, took out a large bottle of Coke, sat on the sofa, poured two glasses of Coke and handed it to Nami and said, "On a hot day, drink some Coke!" ”
Nami took the cup and said, "Zhuang Zhuang is about to start school, so we don't need to pick him up?" ”
"I'm in the third grade, and the school is not far from home, so I just turn the corner, so I don't need to pick up and drop off." Li Nan said with certainty.
Nami hesitated for a moment, then nodded again and said, "Okay! The third grade is not small, and many girls in the compound don't need to be picked up and dropped off when they go to the third grade, not to mention that we are boys, so let's exercise strongly! ”