The more orderly a person is, the stronger the hidden desire to destroy the order......

In a sense, such a description seems to make no sense......

However, if you think about it, you will see that such a statement is actually very plausible......

Many times, people's pursuits are often the opposite of what they are doing......

To give you a simple example......

For the vast majority of people who work purely for the purpose of making money, their ultimate ideal is usually not to have to work anymore......

Yes, no need to go to work anymore!

To put it simply, if you don't do what you like to do, but just work to make money, then for this type of people, work itself is just a way to make money, and the purpose of work is just to make enough money and retire......

In other words......

If a person is born in a family with a very privileged environment, then even if the person does not work for the sake of making money, he will not be blamed too much, and it can even be taken for granted......

Many things, the hobby itself, is a kind of talent, and having the financial resources to realize the hobby is equivalent to having the capital to discover talent!

It's like racing cars, or art hobbies like piano, chess, calligraphy and painting......

This kind of hobby itself requires a lot of financial resources to support. Anyone can have such a hobby. But having hobbies is one thing. Whether there is financial support is another matter, if ordinary people want to embark on such a path, they must have a very outstanding talent, and for the rich second generation, as long as they have such needs, they can naturally become the best in the industry, because they have resources that ordinary people do not have, they can find the best teachers. With the best learning conditions, it is far easier for them to succeed than ordinary people......

The so-called self-motivation itself is, at best, a talent that the poor must possess in order to change their fate!

Rich people themselves don't need any so-called self-motivation, they just need to do what they want to do, do what they like to do, as for doing this, whether they can make money or not, whether they can succeed. For them, it's not really important. And in many cases, it is precisely because of their desireless and rigid mentality that it is easier for them to succeed in the end!

Just like for ordinary people, studying abroad is a very difficult thing, if it is not for the family conditions to be rich, you must be very outstanding in learning, such students, when studying abroad, I often shoulder a lot of pressure, but it is not easy to get results, and on the contrary, the rich children study abroad, often just a gilded process, and because of this, so when they study abroad, they are more relaxed in their mentality, On the contrary, it is easier to integrate into the learning and life mode of Westerners......

The biggest difference between local tyrants and ordinary people......

It is that local tyrants can chase their dreams willfully, and their dreams themselves cannot bring them wealth......

But ordinary people are different, if their dreams can not improve their lives, they will often be regarded by the people around them as a manifestation of lack of self-motivation, in fact, in the final analysis, the so-called self-motivation, in the final analysis, is nothing more than the template of success in the eyes of others, and the success of other people, in fact, does not mean that they are also considered successful, in the final analysis, it is nothing more than the problem of knowing the joy of fish......

In such a situation, the vast majority of people are often forced to give up some of their unrealistic dreams, and can only give priority to doing some jobs that they are not particularly passionate about but are good enough to earn wealth......

And what is the purpose of earning wealth? In the final analysis, it is nothing more than to be able to keep yourself from being troubled and restricted by wealth, and to be able to do what you really want to do after making enough money......

Of course, there is still a big difference between the concepts of Eastern and Western people on this point!

In the concept of Oriental people, retirement or early retirement is actually not a good thing, many people after retirement, will hope that they can give full play to their spare heat, instead of reading the newspaper and playing chess every day with nothing to do......

Because they will feel that when they retire and have no job, they are eliminated by the society, and they are to be despised, although many of them have a lot of retirement salaries, but they are still keen to work, and they are not willing to stay at home, especially for many retired officials, the loneliness of people walking away is often unbearable, and it is because of this that they are keen to exert their residual heat......

However, in the concept of Westerners, retirement is a great thing, which means that they have earned enough wealth through work to make themselves comfortable enough for the rest of their lives, so they will choose to retire, especially early retirement, which is a very glorious embodiment, which is enough to show that a person must have super high work efficiency during the working period......

In fact, this concept of Westerners is, to a certain extent, correct in the true sense!

For Westerners, only after retirement do they have enough time and money to realize their dreams, they can travel the world, they can go out on records, they can go to dancers, they can do anything they wanted to do before, but they couldn't do it for various reasons, even though these things may not make them rich, but they are still happy to do it, because this is the life they want!

To put it simply, they work to earn money so that one day they don't have to work!

And this notion. Orientals are actually relatively thin!

For the Orientals. Especially for the older generation of Orientals. If a person is not willing to work and live an idle life, even if the living environment is superior, they will not be recognized, in the eyes of the older generation. This is the manifestation of sitting on the mountain......

In the end, this is a difference in concept!

In the eyes of many older generation of Orientals, even if a young person makes enough money, it is definitely not a reason to eat and wait for death......

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Of course, that's not the point......

The point is, for a lot of people. What they do and what they think are often opposites......

It's like working to make money......

A lot of people make money. It's just to be able to spend money......

The older generation of people make money in order to save money, but young people make money just to spend money, if young people have a place to spend money, they will naturally want to make money, and if there is no special place to spend money, there will not be too much so-called self-motivation......

And the same thing......

The more a person obeys the order, in fact, in essence, deep down in the person's heart, the stronger the potential to destroy the order......

For example, for officials, the more they show compliance with the order of officialdom, in fact, in their hearts, the greater their thirst for privilege, that is, because they have a thirst for privilege in their hearts, so they will abide by the order of officialdom more!

For politicians, the higher their demand for their own political status, the higher the recognition of their country's rules and regulations, and the more they will abide by various rules and regulations......

The more orderly people are, the more they crave the ability to freely use privileges, often deep down!

To obey the order is to gain a higher status in the order, and the higher the status, the more free and privileged it will naturally be!

This is also why some officials have excellent reviews before they are in high positions, whether they are leaders or subordinates, they are full of praise for him, but once they are in high positions, they are often quickly corrupted and degenerated, and the reason is actually very simple......

Because of their corruption and depravity, they have long been deeply hidden in their hearts, but when their official position was not high before, they could only wear masks to live, but when their rights reach a certain level, they can naturally use their rights to cover up their desires, so that under the protection of rights, they expose part of their ambitions and do some illegal things......

In the final analysis, it is not that they have become corrupt under power, but that their corrupt nature has been exposed little by little under the protection of power!

In fact, this is also a part of the human heart, when the right is regulated, people will naturally use their rights cautiously, when the right is regulated more and more weak, then the right will naturally trigger the deepest desire in the human heart, let people completely degenerate......

Of course, this so-called depravity is actually only a depravity from the perspective of ordinary people......

From the point of view of the awakened, this kind of behavior cannot actually be regarded as depravity, at best it can be regarded as an act of conforming to one's heart......

Whether it's greedy for money or lustful, it's all the same......

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In the same way, for You Yue, it is exactly the same!

He is a very, very, very sane person!

And the more rational people are, the deeper the desires and instincts in their hearts are often hidden, and the more powerful the desires and instincts tend to be......

Because reason is always a counterpart to instinct!

The deeper a person's wisdom is, the stronger the instinct in his heart, and the ambition and desire will naturally rise, but in the vast majority of the time, this desire and instinct may be suppressed by reason for the rest of his life, and will never be revealed!

is like Zhuge Kongming, all his life, he has been loyal to the Han family, but in his life, will there be a certain moment, or a few moments, that he wants to replace him? When the White Emperor City was entrusting Gu, did Liu Bei's words move Zhuge 's heart? Liu Chan's mediocrity and incompetence, did it make Zhuge excited? I think there will always be more or less of it......

However, he did not do this in the end, although he was already a supreme minister in Shu at that time, and even in a sense, he became the owner of the supreme power of Shu, but his reason still made him always loyal to the Han clan, and did not choose to go against the grain like the Sima family......

The reason for this is that Zhuge 's wisdom and reason suppress the latent desires in his heart at all times, and let him judge the situation soberly at all times......

And what if Zhuge loses this reason and wisdom?

Then the three countries may go to a completely different path......

Just like the blue line fantasy line in the original version of Cao Cao's biography, maybe Zhuge will become a powerful demon king, and little by little will kill those generals who are loyal to Shu, and then cultivate his own lineage, form his own regime, and finally participate in this Central Plains competition, and then become another force more powerful than the Sima family......

The more capable a person is, the more abundant his potential ambition becomes......

And the greater a person's ambition, the stronger the sense and wisdom needed to suppress it!

And a person, with the growth of ambition, is actually growing intellectually...... (To be continued.) )