This was the first time Bai Caier heard her father say what was in her heart, and she suddenly felt that she didn't know anything about her father, although they had lived together for more than 20 years, they seemed to be strangers. In fact www.biquge.info their living conditions are indeed the most familiar strangers, they usually communicate very little, and everything depends on tacit understanding, and their tacit understanding is obviously not good, so life is always full of contradictions.

Her father's confession without warning suddenly made a lot of waves in her heart: "Maybe it's really not entirely his fault that my father became like this, I seem to be too indifferent to him." ”

Her heart softened a little, but she didn't want to show it. Seeing that Rob was watching the excitement with relish, she suddenly became angry, and took the initiative to take Rob's hand and pull him out of the restaurant, preventing him from continuing to see her father and stepmother embarrassed.

"Your father's shameless appearance is quite the style of my year, I still want to point him out, why are you pulling me out?" Rob pretended to struggle, but in fact, he took advantage of the squirming and gently rubbed the back of his hand against Bai Cai'er's smooth palm.

Doing so was tantamount to teasing Bai Cai'er, she felt the tingling sensation on her hands, her face suddenly turned red, she shook off Luo Bu's hand suddenly, and said coquettishly: "Rogue, shameless!" ”

Rob smiled, he knew what Bai Cai'er meant, but he pretended to be stupid and didn't know: "I'm serious!" Your father is a representative of having nothing and marrying a daughter-in-law without spending a penny, and that woman is a representative of looking for a son-in-law who only looks at property. These two people have completely opposite positions, they should have fought a battle to the death, and now that the battle is about to start, let's hurry in and see! ”

"You're so interested, whose idea do you support?" Bai Cai'er asked curiously.

"To be honest, do I still support my mother-in-law in choosing a son-in-law or is it better to value money?"

"You are also a man, and you are very poor, how can you expect your mother-in-law to value money?"

"Money is not everything, but it is a symbol of ability. This earning power may be varied, but in the final analysis, it is the ability to be familiar with society and adapt to society. Therefore, people who can make money generally understand the sophistication of human feelings and have no flaws in their character. ”

"Things that are too easy to get are often not cherished. Because of the lack of the process of struggle, I don't understand the hard-won truth. Those who marry a daughter-in-law without having to struggle, you still expect to live a good life with him, that is also a little unrealistic. ”

"I see, you have a point. But what do you say that my father has the style you had back then? Bai Cai'er asked another tricky question, which means that if you don't answer well, you want to look good.

"It's actually very common for people like your dad to be spoiled on the streets! I was just spoiled at the age of the kid, so I said I had the style I had back then. ”

"A spoiled child, who thinks he deserves anything, gradually becomes a selfish person. Selfish people are generally self-centered, in the eyes of selfish people, no matter how much others give him, he also thinks that it is deserved, and no matter how little he is by others, it is also his reward, and others should be grateful to Dade. The most ridiculous thing is that when he is in trouble himself, others should take the initiative to help him, not him to ask for help. If there is no one to help him, then he will complain. ”

"So to say that your father has become like this is to make your grandfather and mother spoiled. He has become a child who does not grow up, and he does not understand what friendship is and what responsibility is! ”

"The benefit he received from your grandfather and mother was the friendship between the two of them, and it was his responsibility to take care of the elderly, his wife and children. He felt that he was looked down upon because he was a son-in-law, but he didn't know that the real reason was that he had forgotten his responsibilities and had become an irresponsible and selfish person. ”

After saying this, Rob suddenly hesitated to glance at Bai Cai'er, who was attentive, and continued: "Actually, you are deeply influenced by your father, and you are also a very selfish person, but you don't think about it!" ”

"You say I'm just like him, a selfish person? Are you mistaken? Bai Caier felt a little incredible.

"Your father's selfishness manifests itself in cowardice, and you manifest itself in haughtiness. Although the form is different, the result is only to care about oneself and not others. You are thanks to a good friend who has a lot of money, she understands your psychology best, so you don't need to say anything, she takes the initiative to help you do it, and you seem to be begging for you. ”

"Since I'm a selfish ghost, so annoying, what else are you doing for me, don't help me!" Bai Cai'er shouted with a blushing face.

"In fact, selfishness is not annoying, there is no one who is not selfish, only selfish people are annoying! You inherited the kindness of your grandfather and mother, but you are a very tolerant person at heart. It's just that you and your father are both children who haven't grown up, and there are a lot of things that haven't been figured out, so you will behave selfishly. This is also the root cause of your family's unhappiness. ”

"So, you're here to teach me how to be a human being?"

"In fact, you know very well what to do, where it is my turn to teach you. The indifference and confrontation between your father and daughter is not actually because you have no feelings, but entirely because of your own knots. ”

"You always think that if your father admits his mistakes, then you will also forgive him, and you will become a harmonious father and daughter again. But your father, for the sake of face, always refused to admit his mistakes, so your misunderstanding became deeper and deeper, so that it became a knot in your heart. If you can't untie this knot, you'll never be happy. Even if you win this competition, it won't work. ”

"I just said that my family will give you happiness, not nonsense, if you really look at what a happy family looks like, you will untie the knot and make yourself happy."

"So what should I do?"

"You have to change yourself, like your mother, to be tolerant of your father, not to try to change him. As the saying goes, those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. In fact, people are animals that influence each other, and a person's personality charm will affect the people around him. Your father influenced you, so why can't you influence him? If you treat him leniently, he will be ashamed, and one day he will realize his mistake. ”

At first, Bai Cai'er's face was still full of anger, but the more she listened, the calmer she became, and finally she laughed out loud: "It's old-fashioned, I don't know that you are an old pedant, in fact, you are a child younger than me." ”