There is no better teacher than life, no matter how old or young, how much experience, high or low of both sides, you can find the key to solving problems from your own or others' life experiences. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

This time is no exception, Wang Jiujing, who is fifty-six years old, full of poetry and books, and full of wealth, can quickly cheer up from the bad news of malignant tumors, precisely because of the living example in front of him.

At the age of seventy-five, you can still cross the ocean and go thousands of miles away to enjoy another life, what a happy thing?

The wisdom of life hidden behind this happiness is exactly what Wang Jiujing lacks, and appearing at this low stage of life can be called a panacea!

In fact, people in middle age more or less understand some health regimens, but the level of cognition is different, the personality experience is different, and the living habits are far from the same, which leads to huge differences in physical conditions.

It is very difficult for people to change themselves until they have experienced the pain of their skin. Only by truly experiencing pain and despair can the whole person complete the transformation and open another door.

This kind of pain You Mo has also experienced, and it has been with him for ten years, so he can stay sober in various vanity fairs, advance and retreat freely in the temptation of sound and sex, and never indulge in pleasure when he is famous.

After becoming accustomed to it, those achievements that can be flaunted for a lifetime in the eyes of others are just small peaks in his eyes, and it is unforgivable if he can't reach the top of the mountain.

In the same way, because of his twenty years of life experience beyond the times, he never took his own magic seriously, and always remained hungry and thirsty. Especially other people's life experiences, in his eyes, are all nutrition, and while benefiting a lot, he can also deeply feel the bitterness and sweetness of life.

From this point of view, he never regarded himself as a successful person who was already over forty years old, but a weak-crowned teenager who was curious about something. So from the beginning of his journey, he was able to mingle with the teenagers, joke with them without any sense of disobedience, and put their joys, sorrows, and sorrows in his heart.

Over time, his passion for the sport has not diminished, but has grown!

What is it like to be a life coach for a group of people?

Isn't it very rewarding and motivating to think about?

No matter how beautiful the performance is on the pitch, can you feel this way?

Perhaps it was this that allowed him to surpass Lu Wei in an all-round way and reach a realm that he could not even imagine.

Of course, this does not mean that he can stand on a high place and look down on the other party, on the contrary, he is curious about the psychological changes of the other party in the past two years.

"Haven't you been drinking together in a while?"

That night, after ten o'clock, at home.

Zheng Jian and Jiang Xiaolan went together, and Li Juan volunteered to take care of You Xinya, so that Zhang Nan and Wang Dan could focus on taking care of the patient. Wang Yao and Zhou Xiaofeng have become the pillars of the family, and they can all stand alone in this extraordinary period.

You Mo and Lu Wei were busy and had a rare opportunity to sit together and drink and chat.

Originally, because there were patients at home, the atmosphere was depressing, but fortunately, the arrival of Old Man Zheng quickly reversed the situation, and life gradually got on the right track from a mess.

There are guests from afar, and the night talk is the most elegant way of hospitality, You Mo is not a guy who doesn't drink or enjoy, but now he has taken out the treasure, and wants to hear the sound that can't be heard in the usual state.

Lu Wei was a little surprised by this, and asked, "Is it a good mix, and the foreign wine is so exquisite?" ”

You Mo had obviously put a lot of effort into the study of the tea ceremony, and wine was a pure tool for him, so he didn't care about the praise after listening to it, and told the other party the truth: "The owner of this wine is still lying in the hospital, and he only said goodbye to them two hours ago." I thought it would be a shame to waste it, so I took the initiative to apply for it and keep it as if I had it. ”

Lu Wei didn't care about this, and said: "To be honest, is it addicted to stepping on people, and you need to find someone to share your experience?" ”

You Mo's answer was serious, and his voice was not in a hurry, "Where did Brother Tai say this, didn't he just be stepped on?" ”

Lu Wei's expression was rarely a little rich, and he paused before he spoke: "Listening to you, I have to seriously think about what I just said." ”

As soon as the words came out, the atmosphere suddenly became inexplicable, as if two people who had been close suddenly had a distance, and there was a strangeness everywhere.

This strangeness was expected for You Mo, but Lu Wei reacted a little strongly, and as he watched, he picked up his wine glass and drank 200 ml of Hyles dry white wine.

After drinking, a light sound came from my ears.

"The total amount of alcohol in Lu has not decreased back then, and the momentum is even more magnificent, can I drink half of it?"

Lu Wei's reaction was a little flat, and his facial expression became dull, "You are casual." ”

You Mo did what he said, picked up the wine bottle after half of his stomach, filled the cups of the two of them, and said: "There is still training tomorrow, you can ask for leave, I can't ask for ......."

Before he finished speaking, he was interrupted, and Lu Wei looked a little impatient, "Don't take out your little bit of alcohol and be embarrassed, when did I force you?" ”

As soon as the words fell, You Mo's face was full of smiles, and his voice was very polite, "Yes, except for the drunkards who fell on the wine table, they are the guys who beat their swollen faces and became fat, since you and I are not, why care who drinks more and who drinks less?" ”

The expression on Lu Wei's face was even more ugly, the wine glass was raised and swayed, and when he raised his head, it was half a glass, which was an answer.

You Mo saw it clearly but turned a blind eye, still the same as me, "Take it easy, this wine is not low, and it is easy to drink it so violently as soon as it comes up." ”

Lu Wei's answer was fast, his voice was full of anger, and he tried to suppress it without outbursting, "It's fun to be a head coach, isn't it?" ”

After speaking, he picked up the wine glass again, but his wrist was grabbed before he could reach his mouth, and You Mo rarely burst into a foul mouth, "Your uncle, are you planning to set a record for the fastest drunk?" ”

Hearing this, Lu Wei's expression was relieved, and he snorted coldly: "You asked for it!" ”

You Mo didn't let go, there was helplessness in his voice, "Okay, okay, I found it myself, okay, take it easy, there is not much inventory, according to your drinking method, three meals will be bottomed out!" ”

Lu Wei gave up his efforts and said with a smile: "Say, what is the purpose of getting people drunk?" ”

For this kind of extremely smart guy, You Mo really feels a headache.

Acting skills are not enough!

So I had to tell the truth, "Actually, I shouldn't be involved in your housework, but there is no way, as long as everything here can be connected with me, the focus will begin to shift." What are your thoughts on this? ”

Lu Wei's face was covered with a wry smile, and he sighed rarely, "I don't have any opinions, it's good to enjoy the shade under the big tree!" ”

You Mo also smiled and said happily: "Drink, drink!" ”

Let's do it yourself, learn from it, and eat a whole cup.

Lu Wei didn't move, and waited for him to finish drinking before he said quietly: "It's not your fault, the art of war is cloudy, the enemy doesn't move, I don't move; If the enemy wants to move, I will move first. You are now high up and making people blush, and many people have been looking at you for a long time, so you naturally want to make some small moves when you have the opportunity. ”

After a pause, as if reminiscing, the wine glass was raised, and only after half a glass was lowered did he speak: "To put it bluntly, I'm still too lazy, and without you to cause trouble, I'm used to having more than one thing than less." After a long time, the status of the rivers and lakes cannot be compared with you, and when there is a problem, you have fallen behind, and you have no ability to compete head-on. ”

Hearing this, You Moxiao's eyes narrowed into slits, and his voice was brisk, "You are not lazy, but you disdain to be in the company of villains, and you are false and wronged." But how can there be so many gentlemen in this world, and villains getting in the way is the norm! ”

Lu Wei sighed, stared at the empty wine bottle in a daze, and didn't speak for a while.

You Mo got up and took another bottle over, and greeted him in advance, "You said that this is good wine, and then drink it as plain water, I have to call the housekeeper up......."

Before the words fell, Cao Cao arrived.

"Yo, it's so sweet, I still think about you when I drink!"

"Go and go, didn't you hear how your Lu Wei drank?"

Jiang Xiaolan was relieved, chatted with Zheng Yan in the room for a while, and saw that You Youjia had slept soundly, so she came out to look for someone.

The result came just right, otherwise the house would have been ransacked by wine rats.

Lu Wei was indeed a little overhead, and actually beckoned Zheng Lash over to sit on his lap, and as soon as he opened his mouth, there was a strong smell of alcohol, "Do you remember who I met in the bar at night when I went back from Germany to see you?" ”

Can Zheng Zhi not remember?

So he pouted his lips and looked disapproving, "Yanzi, I can't forget it in my life, her shallow appearance of a lot of money!" ”

Lu Wei turned his head, pouted at You Menu, and said, "If he was here, what would have happened at that time?" ”

As soon as she heard this, Zheng Yan froze, and after a while, she slowly spoke under the gaze of three pairs of eyes: "Well, the big-headed guy is not a fuel-efficient lamp, if she hears me say that I'm still so innocent after so many years, it will probably make her regret it." ”

As soon as the words fell, You Mo's face was full of curiosity, but Jiang Xiaolan was excited, dragging him for a while.

Listening to it, he smiled and raised a thumbs up to Zheng Zhi, and raised his wine glass to salute him.

Lu Wei sighed, his voice was a little helpless, "So, those who complain about the cold state of the world are some pretentious goods, and the guys who do more things are not as good as less things look smart, but they will actually miss a lot of opportunities." If it weren't for you pushing me forward from behind, I would probably have ended up in a dead end by now. ”

Jiang Xiaolan was suddenly anxious, shook You Mo's arm and asked, "Then what should I do?" ”

Without waiting for the old Chinese medicine doctor to speak, Zheng Yan shook his head and said: "It's not terrible to make mistakes, and it's inevitable to miss opportunities, if you don't know where the mistake is, you don't know why the opportunity slipped away, and even attribute the reason to others, it is not surprising that the more you live, the more you regress." ”

These words made Lu Wei take a deep breath, lean back, turn the guy in his arms in a circle, face to himself, and look up and down, left and right like strangers.

The two guys watching the play suddenly held their breath, lest they miss the show.

Zheng Zhi raised his head and raised his chest, with a proud face, "If you think it's good-looking, just say it!" ”

Lu Wei suddenly coughed and covered his chest.

Jiang Xiaolan also joined in the fun, covering her mouth and snickering.

You Mo looked calm and reminded loudly: "In public places, please pay attention to the image." ”

Zheng Yan glanced over, and snorted lightly: "Husband, don't pay attention to him, continue to look at me like just now." ”

Lu Wei really couldn't do it, so he could only continue to cough. Jiang Xiaolan had already bent over with a smile, and she also coughed.

You Mo's experience in a hundred battles is not covered, and his voice said as usual: "Zheng Zhi is powerful now, Mr. Lu, you still have to twist and pinch, don't blame me for not reminding you when you are kissed." ”

As soon as the words fell, the guy who didn't have such a plan suddenly jumped to try, but before he could pull the other party's head, he was stopped and put down.

Immediately afterwards, the smell of wine came to his face, and the familiar body suddenly became strange and full of strangeness. A strong stimulus suddenly surged up, and Zheng Yan closed his eyes and responded fiercely.

Now the two guys who watched the excitement had nothing to hide, Jiang Xiaolan actually blushed, and dragged the corner of You Mo's clothes to escape.

After getting up, he was not very relieved, and whispered in his ear: "What should I do, will they be here......."

You Mo simply admired this person's brain, got up and hugged and bit his ear, "Lu Wei's biggest problem is that he can't let go of his body and is not grounded. If you put up a shelf on the surface, everyone can accept it, and it is better to get along with each other by keeping a little distance. In private, he still looks like he doesn't eat the fireworks of the world, who dares to get close! ”

Jiang Xiaolan was itchy by the air flow in her ears, she didn't hear the content behind her clearly, she hugged the other party's waist, and moved forward with her legs clamped, "Okay, hurry up!" ”

You Mo was still a little reluctant, and after walking a few steps, he turned around and reminded: "The last bottle is ha, I want to drink it until next time!" ”

The two forgetful gangs ignored him, Jiang Xiaolan suddenly couldn't cry or laugh, and said boldly: "That's it, a bottle of this wine costs thousands of pounds, if it's like drinking boiled water, it's too tyrannical!" ”

Zheng Zhi's cheeks were not thick enough to be casual, so he struggled to push Lu Wei's head away, and said hatefully: "If you don't have enough cash, is it okay to swipe your card?" ”

As soon as You Mo heard it, everyone walked outside the living room and turned around and walked inside, shouting: "It's over so soon, I thought there would be content that is not suitable for children!" ”

Jiang Xiaolan was helpless, and she really couldn't let go in her heart, so she had to follow back, and by the way, she spoke out to maintain order, "Okay, okay, let's be serious, drink and chat!" ”

As soon as he heard this, Lu Wei was fine, and Zheng Yan suddenly shouted, "Husband, I don't want to give birth to a big-headed guy in the future, you drink, I'll pour you wine, okay?" ”

Lu Wei nodded, borrowing wine to pretend to be stupid.

How could You Mo miss such a good opportunity, and shouted in the air: "Be serious, yes, you two went to my living room to make small moves, are you really not afraid of taking my baby badly?" ”

Zheng Lash was not false at all, and his face was proud, "Don't be afraid, I don't believe that you haven't staged in the living room!" ”

Jiang Xiaolan looked as usual when she heard the last sentence, and when she heard the last sentence, she immediately blushed, she couldn't walk anymore, her hand was loosened, and she didn't know what she was thinking when she lowered her head there.

You Mo has a good memory, and when he saw it, he remembered the past, and immediately swallowed his saliva and came over to pull people, "Okay, I'm the mastermind, naturally, who can guess that you are an accomplice!" ”

Unexpectedly, the answer would be like this.

"Am I also a little ungrounded, should I be like Zheng Zhi?"

You Mo couldn't close his mouth with a smile, and the tiredness of the past few days was swept away.

"It's hard to do it for a long time, but occasionally it shows more true temperament."