The existence of such a thing as a human accident is often ignored, especially in the eyes of perfectionists, it is not a proper job to spend time on it, and it is even more crooked to change the way to win people's hearts. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info

As everyone knows, the world is full of knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the article, if there is no lubricant in the team, how can it run smoothly?

As a leader in the team, you can not be good at human accidents, and you can not put a lot of effort into it, but you can't use this as an excuse to put on a high posture and look down on those guys who are more popular than yourself, thinking that they lack real materials.

In the flowering phase inside the wall, Wenger was focused on tactical play and the development of player potential, the dressing room was in a state of letting go, and the relationship with the top management was only a working relationship. Since the presence of Tony Adams, Pat Rice, and David Dunn is enough to help him solve most of the problems that new officials face when they take office, he doesn't need to bother with them until Yumo arrives.

As Arsenal stepped into the halls of giants, the halo on his head became more and more dazzling, and the ensuing psychological changes were gradually gathering.

After all, he is the head coach, after all, there are so many disciples who have made rapid progress, after all, the record is strong, the championship is full, no matter how strong You Mo's limelight is, Wenger's credit will not be erased at will, but because of his low profile, he is more popular.

So unconsciously, he regarded himself as a high-ranking person, accustomed to looking down on all beings. But in fact, he is just a head coach, and no matter how powerful he is, he is still subject to the top of the club and cannot stand on an equal footing. So the role of the assistant coach, the captain, the players, these subordinates became less important in his mind, and his status plummeted until he was overwhelmed by his inflated self-consciousness.

If the locker room is fine, why do you need to win people's hearts?

In fact, in his mind, Ferguson's set is full of hypocrisy, and Youmo's admiration for the old Scottish man is a matter of values that needs to be corrected. As for the work done by the old man, he seemed to him more like a housekeeper, just taking care of the miscellaneous things for him, as long as he did his best, and there was no high ability requirement.

Under the influence of this mentality, he is actually in the championship syndrome, but he is not aware of it. So when Pat Rice almost died in the line of duty, and then faded out of sight for a year, he only went to see once, made a few phone calls, and didn't look like a friend for many years.

As a party, the mood can be imagined.

Whether it is crossing the river and demolishing the bridge, or unintentional mistakes, after a long time, the familiar name becomes unfamiliar, and even if you sit facing each other, you can't go back to the past.

On the contrary to Wenger, You Mo and Wang * Dan are both masters who will come to things, and they are the kind of men and women who can eat everything, suitable for all ages, and are the best at winning people's hearts. Pat Rice's loyal and meritorious veteran is naturally among them, not to mention that You Mo has always been haunted by the incident back then, and even if he doesn't have time to visit during the New Year's holidays, he will let Wang Dan go over to send warmth in a big bag.

The so-called "seeing people's hearts over time" is talking about this situation. Especially in the case of sharp contrast, the warmth and coldness of human feelings go straight to the hearts of the people, changing some things that would not otherwise change.

"You're ......"

Arsene Wenger easily squeezed a smile out, his face full of questions.

Pat Rice didn't make a fuss, sat down in a familiar position and opened his mouth.

"I'm just a little emotional, that sentence just now was the first thing I said when we first met......

Before he finished speaking, the atmosphere suddenly became silent.

Yes, Arsene Wenger's arrival changed the fate of many, and Pat Rice was among them. He was like a preacher, bringing them faith, leading them on a whole new path, bringing flowers, applause, champions......

This made them grateful, and left many unforgettable memories, which can be used as heirlooms to tell their sons and grandchildren......

However, a good beginning does not mean a good past. When the initial novelty fades and the complicated daily work makes people tired, Wenger's almost demanding requirements, the joys, sorrows and sorrows on his face at any time, and the gradually high-minded style, are narrowing the distance between each other.

The closer you get, the farther it feels. Pat Rice was so impressed by this that in his first season, frequent dressing room problems made communication difficult between the two, and Arsene Wenger was clearly not happy with the efficiency of his assistants.

So when they reunited, a casual sentence exposed the problems between the two.

Where did Wenger remember the first words of the other party when the two first met......

"I seem to have changed a lot? Is it because of this tie? ”

As he spoke, Wenger reached out and tugged at the bow tie on his chest, trying to hide his embarrassment with a joke.

Pat Rice smiled and shook his head, "I thought there would be no change in life at our age." Only now do I realize that change has nothing to do with age, even if I feel disgusted and refuse in my heart, I will still be affected by huge environmental changes, and unconsciously change some things that were not in the scope of my consideration. ”

Hearing this, Wenger's smile froze a little, and his voice was even more cautious, "I'm sorry, Pat, I should have seen you more, instead of remembering that I used to have such a great buddy when you appeared, as I am now." ”

Pat Rice was a little surprised, but then relieved, and smiled: "Don't be so polite to me, Arsanna, if any manager wastes his time on an old guy lying in a hospital bed, it is an unforgivable thing." ”

Wenger didn't notice the barb in these words, and the smile on his face was more natural, "How is your body, can you come to watch the game?" ”

Pat Rice nodded, smiling, "Actually, how can anyone who does our job leave the game, and the doctor also told me that as long as I can accept the result of the game calmly and treat watching the game as fun rather than work, it doesn't make much difference." ”

Wenger breathed a sigh of relief at these words, and his voice was no longer so cautious, "That's good, in fact, I reminded you two years ago that you can't help but take your body seriously, but it's a pity that you don't listen to ......."

"Well, I'm a little bit overpowered." Pat Rice interrupted: "Forget it, it's not a bad thing, anyway, I'm much more at ease now, and I'm not as scared as I used to be." ”

"Oh?" The unhappiness on Wenger's face flashed, and he asked with a smile: "Is it because of the bracket?" ”

"No, no, No, Arsène, you probably won't feel it." Pat Rice sold off with a mysterious face.

"Okay, you just think it's solid." Wenger guessed lazily and changed the subject: "Do you have any plans to write a book recently?" ”

"Me?" Pat Rice shook his head with a smile and looked away the window, "I'm just a babysitter, as long as I can be remembered by the people here, there's no need to make myself a topic of conversation with something eye-catching." ”

"Well, are there any other plans?"

Arsene Wenger said casually, his face full of anticipation.

It's hard to talk about this kind of thing, not to mention the lofty personality of a perfectionist, and the object is his former subordinates. Therefore, if the other party can take the initiative to ask for his life, his old leader will look much better, and it will not be in vain.

With his understanding of the old man, he felt that the heat was almost over, and there was no need to speak so thoroughly, like a stranger.

I didn't expect it.......

Pat Rice looked abrupt, but unfortunately as soon as he opened his mouth, the atmosphere became subtle again.

"I'm going to go to China to have a look."

Wenger frowned at these words, but quickly let go of it, nodded and said, "It's not bad to travel, if I have time, I want to go there and have a look." ”

After speaking, he added: "Mo suggested it?" ”

"No, no." Pat Rice hurriedly waved his hand, "Mo is busier than you, every time he comes to see me, he refuses to stay overnight, and sometimes he slips away without eating." I was curious and wanted to go to that mysterious land and see what it would take. ”

"Uh, well, that's fine." Wenger was a little speechless and coughed twice before he could speak normally, "I can't even imagine my retirement life, if I have nothing to do all day long, I'd rather work until I stop breathing!" ”

"That's an exaggeration." Pat Rice smiled and looked serious, "Listen to me, Arsène, work is not all there is to life, and the pleasures of life are everywhere. In fact, Mo enjoys life more than you do, in his words, 'treating life with the same attitude as it does work'. ”

"Oh?"

"When money is no longer the main purpose of work, the sense of accomplishment attracts us, fascinates us, and makes us spend a lot of time. But when we only have a sense of accomplishment in our eyes, we are helpless in the depths of our hearts. ”

"Why?"

"Because the sense of accomplishment brought by work is too exciting and strong, if there is no life to slow down, it will make the mind empty."

"Competitive sports, of course, never be satisfied!"

"No, you don't understand. Actually, I didn't fully understand it, so I wanted to see if I could get something out of it. ”

Hearing this, Wenger lost patience and said: "I asked you to come here this time, I want to ask you for help with a tricky matter." ”

Pat Rice was still a little unsatisfied, so he shook his head and said, "I'm not here for work, just to say goodbye." ”

"Huh?" Wenger's eyes widened, as if he couldn't believe his ears, and he asked: "What did you say?" ”

Pat Rice smiled and waved goodbye.

"I'm looking for the joy of life, goodbye."

......

While Arsene Wenger was in the middle of his nerves, the Yumo family was enjoying the sun in Iceland.

Sometimes this product is as soft as cotton, sometimes as hard as iron, but it will not make any concessions on major issues of right and wrong, nor will it consider the problem of face.

From this point of view, Wang Dan's worries are a bit superfluous, even if Pat Rice thinks of his old love and helps, he will hit a wall, at most he will look better on face, and it will have no effect on the current situation.

In fact, he withdrew and left at this time, so as not to save face for the head coach and let him retreat. Otherwise, once the door-to-door lobbying is rejected, the relationship between the two will be completely broken, and there is no possibility of repair.

But what he didn't expect was that Pat Rice actually did the same and said "no" to his old buddy, the top boss who used to be extremely admired. This helped him a lot invisibly, and also made Wenger completely see the reality and not be bored.

"The rabbit is in a hurry and bites, don't underestimate it!"

After a day of crazy play, Wang Dan received a call from Pat Rice, and after a few words of chatting, her eyes widened and her face was incredible. After hanging up, I was a little proud, but after thinking about it carefully, I felt that it was inappropriate, so I took the initiative to run to report the news.

The family opened two luxury suites, one for the elderly and one for the young. You Mo couldn't resist his daughter's kind invitation, so he came over to be a cow and a horse, and he was having a good time.

After listening to Wang Dan's reminder, he didn't take it seriously, and replied casually: "A rabbit is still a rabbit if it's in a hurry, and it can't become a fox, let alone a tiger." ”

This tone makes people itch the roots of their teeth, and the content is not flat, how can Wang Dan hold his temperament, and when he comes over, he kicks on the PP, "Be serious, get down to business." The president of the club has been on the board with Ravinger, so isn't your attitude taking the initiative to push the manager into the opposition camp? ”

After kicking, I was a little afraid, so I quickly looked east and west, lest I be taught a lesson by my father.

Fortunately, I am not tired after a day of playing, and it is estimated that I will be crooked in bed and don't want to move.

You Mo didn't take it seriously, just cried to his daughter: "Mom is too good at sycophancy!" ”

When You Xinya heard this, she immediately turned her head and glared hatefully.

Wang Dan was suddenly triumphant, looking like "you came to bite me", and he didn't smile properly. Who expected that the little princess would turn into a little leopard in a second, and crawl to the ground to bite people!

"Ahh Wang * Dan is the master who suffers losses, shouting while slipping away, lest the world will not be chaotic.

As a result, I didn't pay attention to the road, and I didn't run a few steps before I collided with my mother. Fortunately, You Mo made a timely move and caught the little leopard, otherwise there would be no place to reason if he was bitten and cried.

"It's not in shape!" Zhang Nan pushed away her daughter with a look of disgust, and came over to subdue the little princess, "Xinya, grandma smashed walnuts for you to eat, okay?" ”

The snack was really tempting, and after humming twice as a demonstration, he was carried into the house. You Mo got up, patted his buttocks, and came over to inquire about the situation.

Wang * Dan was originally a little unconvinced, but he was a little itchy when he saw that no one was around, and after it was easy to report the situation, his hands began to be dishonest.

You Mo deeply admired this kind of guy who could be in heat anytime and anywhere, considering that the old man and children might come out to see the excitement at any time, he had to hug him and walk to the door, and asked casually: "Aren't you still worried that Wenger will defect to the opponent's camp just now, and the kung fu of turning his head is not a serious matter?" ”

Wang Dan stuck to him like an octopus, and his voice was sweet and greasy, "What you said is also true, rabbits will not become foxes, with Wenger's temperament, no matter how bad it is, he will not openly put the responsibility on your head." But the president of the club is a real tiger, are you mentally prepared to seek skin with the tiger? ”

"Dances with wolves is pretty much the same." You Mo has a 29-year-old baby hanging on his chest, and it is easy to move forward.

"Hey, hey, there's still two wolves in the house, can you serve them?"

"Seriously, are we here for a vacation?"

"Come out and play, the most important thing is to have fun!"

"Okay, I'll listen to the arrangement."

"That's right, if you know that you can't control the situation, you still have to do it, and the result is either you can't get off the stage, or you can't pay the difference!"

.......

His fifth uncle, take a break, and he can't stand the reward every day.......